sex before walima
1. jis tarah court mai ja kar aik larka aur larki shadi kare tu shadi ho jati hai. lekin is shadi mai aur mazhabi shadi mai farq hai. mazhabi shadi mai nikah, nikah ka khutba, dulhan ka sarparast and wakeel and gawah hota hai.
Bilkul isi tarah sex ke beghair walima se bhi walima ho jata hai lekin mazhabi shadi mai walima se pahle sex zaroori hai. shadi aik mazhabi fareeza hai. lehaza shadi aur os ke rasoomat ko mazhabi andaz mai karna chahia.
Ref of Hadeth about sex before walima
Sayyiduna Anas ibn Malik (Allah be pleased with him) narrates that he was a boy of ten when the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) migrated to Madina. (He added): "My mother and aunts used to urge me to serve the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) regularly, thus I served him for ten years. When the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) passed away, I was twenty years old, and I knew about the order of Hijab more than anyone else, when it was revealed. It was revealed for the first time when the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) had consummated his marriage with Zainab bint Jahsh (Allah be pleased with her). The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) in the morning was a bridegroom, and he invited the people to a banquet. So they came, ate, and then all left except a few who remained with the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) for a long time….. (Sahih al-Bukhari, no. 4871)
Sayyiduna Anas (Allah be pleased with him) said: "The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) consummated his marriage with a woman (Zainab), so he sent me to invite people for a meal." (Sahih al-Bukhari, no. 4875)
The great Hadith master (hafidh), Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani (Allah have mercy on him) states:
"The Hadith of Anas (quoted above) is clear in determining that Walima is considered to be after the consummation of marriage." (Fath al-Bari, 9/199. Also see: I'la al-Sunan, vol. 10, p. 11)
It is stated in al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya:
"The marriage banquet (walima) is a Sunna and there is great reward in it. And it is carried out when the marriage is consummated." (al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya, 5/343)
consumation of marriage: means sex after marriage
2. ap ne jo shadi aur hani moon ka program banaya hai mai is se ittefaq nahi karti. detail mere new areticle mai mile ga.