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Career Oriented Wife Is Better Or Housewife Is Better?

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khan_80 Group: Members  Joined: 09th Mar, 2007  Topic: 8  Post: 2591  Age:  37  
Posted on:13th Mar 2007, 4:12pm
 

Career Oriented Wife Is Better Or Housewife Is Better?

i would like to invite all my dear forum members to give their comments on my question. thanx.
Dr Rizwan Group: Members  Joined: 19th Sep, 2010  Topic: 1  Post: 511  Age:  50  
Posted on:13th Mar 2007, 5:35pm
 

career oriented wife has double burden

It is in my observation that after child birth a house wife's duty at their home is much more difficult than her husband. Her job at home is 24 hours 7 days a week with no holiday in 365 days; but extra work during holidays like Eid etc. In our culture a career oriented woman has double burden and she is still a house wife  because her husband is generally non cooperative with her at most situation especially at kitchen. If husband is cooperative at all level then career oriented wife is better than a house wife.



khan_80 Group: Members  Joined: 09th Mar, 2007  Topic: 8  Post: 2591  Age:  37  
Posted on:13th Mar 2007, 5:59pm
 

no replies????????

plz give ur opinions .
tanveer Group: Members  Joined: 13th Mar, 2007  Topic: 0  Post: 2  Age:  42  
Posted on:13th Mar 2007, 9:38pm
 

Career Oriented

In my View the Carieer oriented woman is better along with her duties as a mother.But i think ur child coms 1st then ur Job, so let the kid be grown 1st then u may also start ur career.

Thanx for askin the suggestion.

hypka Group: Members  Joined: 04th Feb, 2007  Topic: 1  Post: 17  Age:  35  
Posted on:13th Mar 2007, 10:19pm
 

Wife must be with good education (Deen-O-Dunya)

 

The qualifications of women for work of all kinds are not in doubt, Women can do work like men, but they DO NOT HAVE to do it to earn a living. They are allowed and encouraged to take the duties of marriage and motherhood seriously and are provided with the means to stay at home and do it properly.

 

The husband has the duty to support and maintain the wife, as stated in the Qur'an, and this is held to be so even if she is rich in her own right. He has no right to expect her to support herself, let alone support his children or him. If she does contribute to the household income this is regarded as a charitable deed on her part.

Women are thus well provided for: their husbands support them, and they inherit from all their relations. They are allowed to engage in business or work at home or outside the house, so long as the family does not suffer, and the money they make is their own, with NO CALLS ON IT FROM OTHER PEOPLE UNTILL THEIR DEATH.

 

Nevertheless the womanly state in marriage is given full respect in Islam, and so are the rights of children. No Muslim woman could feel ashamed to say she was only a housewife. SHE IS THE HEAD OF HER HOUSEHOLD, although the husband has the final say in major decisions. According to a hadith:

 

The ruler is a shepherd and is responsible for his subjects, a husband is a shepherd and is responsible for his family, a wife is a shepherd and is responsible for her household, and a servant is a shepherd who is responsible for his master's property.

Hadith: Bukhari

The wife must defer to her husband in respect for the fact that he maintains and protects her out of his means (Qur'an 4:34), but not if he tries to make her break the laws of Allah.

 

As doctor sahib said, it is very hard to maintain duties inside the house as well as out side the house so it is better to have a good house wife with well and good education (Deen-O-Dunya), without education she cant be a good mother or wife.

 

It also has been seen when women start working for money and for enjoy Allah never gives Barket in that family and man also start depend on his wife money in some how.

 

 

sarfaraz Group: Members  Joined: 12th Mar, 2007  Topic: 1  Post: 53  Age:  35  
Posted on:14th Mar 2007, 5:50am
 

hose wife

1st of all Dr.Rizwan sugest if men are help of her wife at all level during his wife done the job its truely and servey report even brought minded husband some time not supported to her wife at all level and middle class society does't do the same even 10% then the result are unsatisfactory life and unhappy moment started i m sure house wife is better then the career oriented wife..... becouse after married sinlge husband not under reponsibility of good wife even all house member like (father,mother,etc)

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Posted on:14th Mar 2007, 2:06pm
 

Take the reference from islam!

Dear brother!

In Islam it is well said that the main duty of man after his marriage is that he should earn the livlihood for his spouses.

Moreover now a days the evils are well spread that it is better for a women to stay at house and raise her children instead of going outside and finding work (In case when her husband is working and earning  adequate mney).

In case when husband is disable or there are other shortcomings then the job of women is okay.The jobs like teaching and doctor is highly respectible and suitable.

But if circumstances are well and there is enough  livlihood women must stay at home.

According to me House Wife is 100 100% better then the carrier oriented wife.Because houswife can remove the tireness of her tired husband with justa smile.She can lookafter her childeren with more care.

Thanks

khan_80 Group: Members  Joined: 09th Mar, 2007  Topic: 8  Post: 2591  Age:  37  
Posted on:15th Mar 2007, 1:43pm
 

re:

the working ladies perform double tasks, fulfills two duties, share the burden of husbands but still in our society people think that they are not capable of doing so.relatives and in-laws always try to find their mistakes, blame them, even if the husband is supportive.In this era of globalization, still our females are facing problems in building their individual identity.what is  the solution of this problem? give our comments b/c even very highly educated women are also having these things as well as the average working ladies.
sarfaraz Group: Members  Joined: 12th Mar, 2007  Topic: 1  Post: 53  Age:  35  
Posted on:17th Mar 2007, 6:30am
 

women edu

the main think, education puprpose is human being are go righ path and get a better way of life and promote our family member as they give all of that after earn edu but today's education means are if u r getting a high education then starting a job other wise ur education are useless discusting .... after edu u r define ur self with good fulfil of life ..... thx

Seemi Group: Members  Joined: 11th Sep, 2007  Topic: 14  Post: 3812  Age:  31  
Posted on:15th May 2008, 3:56am
 

nice discussion

Plz contribute here.

sparrow Group: Members  Joined: 04th Apr, 2008  Topic: 3  Post: 31  Age:  36  
Posted on:15th May 2008, 5:25am
 

House Wife is Better

I think house wife is better. I am married and also working since last 4 years and my experience and observation is that job lady can easily turned into a .......edit......  slang word for women. they have the plenty of oppurtunity to cheat on her hubby.
And also the society can easily access these types of woman. Now days majority of the prostitutes are working ladies or the hostel girls.

So it's better that woman should stay at home and better if stay with joint family system.


Note : Slang words and abusive posts are not allowed.
saima arif Group: Members  Joined: 26th Mar, 2008  Topic: 10  Post: 401  Age:  39  
Posted on:15th May 2008, 6:48am
 

Mr Sparrow

How can u call a working woman ..... edit.... Slang word for women....?I would say watch ur mouth.I m olso working and taking care of tow kids,my husband dosen't have any problem with me.It depends on woman how she balance everything.For ur info a house wife can cheat on her HUBY too.When her HUBY is at work she has plenty of time to cheat.App ney jo batien orat key barey may likhi hey parh kar afsos howa key app ki soch kitni gandi hey.Mr u need to change ur thinking
saima arif Group: Members  Joined: 26th Mar, 2008  Topic: 10  Post: 401  Age:  39  
Posted on:15th May 2008, 7:08am
 

all the members

kiya koi mr sparrow ko kuch nahi kahey ga .unho ney ortoon kay barey ma jo word use kiya hey?
pinky7861 Group: Members  Joined: 06th Oct, 2007  Topic: 44  Post: 1348  Age:   
Posted on:15th May 2008, 1:45pm
 

Dr. Pk

edit..... Slang word for women... and it should be edited and plz take care of this insulting mr. sparrow.

thanks

pinky7861 Group: Members  Joined: 06th Oct, 2007  Topic: 44  Post: 1348  Age:   
Posted on:15th May 2008, 1:55pm
 

sparrow honey!

      Hmm,

The thing is that ppl who are honest and sincere, believe that everyone is honest and sincere and vice versa, ppl who are cheaters consider rest of the world as cheaters.  Therefore, u have got some serious issues here man, need to consult with a therapist.  Understand?

  I am afraid as well that how much yr wife would be suffering from yr personality disorder?  sorry for her!!!!! 

Seemi Group: Members  Joined: 11th Sep, 2007  Topic: 14  Post: 3812  Age:  31  
Posted on:15th May 2008, 3:54pm
 

working women

hamari society mein abhi tak aurtoon ke job karnay ko achi nazar se nahin dekha jata. Larki ko achi education dilwanay par tu parents razi hotay hein lekin job karnay ki permission nahin detay.. or un k is decision ki reasons kai factors hotay hien jin mein tranportation problems, agressive behaviour of male workplace mates towards females, workplace sexual harrassment waghaira shamil hein. Is k ilawa kuch mard yeh samajhtay hien k agar biwi job karay gi tu un k qaboo mein nahin rahay gi... or un ko cheat karay gi.. waghaira waghaira.....

Lekin aik larki bohat achi tarah apni job or apni marital life ko balance rakh sakti hai.. jab aik mard 9 se 5 ki job kar ke apni life ko balance rakh sakta hai, apni biwi, bachon, parents, friends sab ko time de sakta hai, tu phir aik larki bhi job k hotay howe aik balance life guzar sakti hai, bajaye is ke k woh sara din ghar beth k saas nandoon se laray or ghar mein laraiyan hoon.

Bili_miau Group: Members  Joined: 20th Oct, 2007  Topic: 17  Post: 871  Age:  30  
Posted on:15th May 2008, 4:26pm
 

well

i know all these women right things these days....they are allowed to do this and to do that and men shouldnt hold them back etc....but ppl trust me..its a blessing if u can stay home and dont have to go out to earn money!! husbands who provide u everything are a blessing of god for u .seriously!!

its good to be educated and have some skill in ur hand..but u dont have to go out to show this skill....however if women do feel like working and helping their husbands out..than things should be balanced and they should have discussed about it with their partner already...its no point working all the time and dont take care of ur house /children/ husband /or anything else....i dont respect such women!!

 

 

Bili_miau Group: Members  Joined: 20th Oct, 2007  Topic: 17  Post: 871  Age:  30  
Posted on:15th May 2008, 4:27pm
 

..........and

i forget to add..that i belive am the most lucky girl on this planet..i dont have to go out to earn money...my husband never asked me for it and always oppsed this decision...i get everything i want from him...and on top of that i can carry on with my studies....wht a life ....aahhhhhh
Seemi Group: Members  Joined: 11th Sep, 2007  Topic: 14  Post: 3812  Age:  31  
Posted on:15th May 2008, 4:41pm
 

Bili Baji

Bili baji, aap ka point of view bhi theek hai. lekin aap ko picture ki dosri taraf bhi dekhna chhaiye.. Hamein hamesha achay k liye sochna chahiye lekin buray k liey bhi tayar rehna chahiye.. Halaat hamesha aik jaisay nahin rehtay. ALLAH mian khod kehta hai k hum sab ke din badalty rehtay hein. ALLAH ka shukar hai k aaj aap ko koi mushkil nahin, lekin kal ka kisi ko nahin pata.. Is ki simple example shoaib akhtar bhai hien... Jo 4 mahenay pehlay tak Pakistan k sab se zaroori player thay, lekin chairman PCB k aik ghalat faislay se un ka career tabah honay wala hai...  So agar aap is point of view se sochein or dekhein k agar aap bhi job kar rahi hoon tu aap kisi bhi buray time mein apni family ko sanbhal lein gi.. Agar aap ko extra earning ki zaroorat nahin tu aap Pakistan mein mojood ghareeb logon ko financial support de sakti ho, Kisi ghareeb ki bachi ki shaadi karwa dein, kisi ka ilaaj karwa dein, kisi ka ghar banwa dein.... Or in naik kaamon ki waja se ALLAH mazeed aap ke rizq or zindagi mein barkat de ga...
Bili_miau Group: Members  Joined: 20th Oct, 2007  Topic: 17  Post: 871  Age:  30  
Posted on:15th May 2008, 4:43pm
 

hmm

it can be a valid point for some families..but i dont think its really practical...yea women can do some part time jobs if they r dying to do anything..otherwise up to them
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