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Diversion Of Mind Towards Sex And Bad Dreaming: Are They Normal?

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A Shabbir Group: Members  Joined: 15th Jun, 2009  Topic: 1  Post: 4  Age:  35  
Posted on:15th Jun 2009, 1:58am

Diversion Of Mind Towards Sex And Bad Dreaming: Are They Normal?


i am new here but i read a lot from this sidee i just wanna know 1 thing. Actully main fiancilly problem ki waja se apne husband se alag rehti hun we live in a same city but main apni mother k pas rehti hun last 5 months se meri shadi ko 10 month huye hay... jab main apne husband k pas thi to wo week main 1 bar hi sex karte thay... jab muje peridods ane wale hote hay tab mera diyan sex ki taraf i dont know kyun jane lagta hay... or 2 din pehle maine sote main sex kia i mean dream main.... or muje asa feel h ua k main discharge huye hun...

kia asa hona thek hay... kia mian sochti hun is liye asa hua... ziayd anahi sochti but jab sone k liye letati hun to dil chahta hay k mere husband pas ho..... is se gunahh hota hay kia...

or kia asa dream dekhne k bad shower lena must hay nah?

reply me . i know stupit question hay par kia karun i cant talk abt this to my mom

Thank u

Due to financial constrains I and my husband live apart however we are in a same city. We married ten months back and since 5 months I am living with my mother. When I had been with my husband he used to do sex once a week. When I am near to my periods my mind diverts towards sex. I don't know why it does happen? 2 days back in the dream I have seen doing sex and I also got discharged.

  1. Whether it is fine to happen or it happens since I think a lot. Whenever I go to bed and lie down for sleep then I do have these thoughts.
  2. Whether it is necessary to take shower after seeing this dream?


H/dr_Qasim Group: Members  Joined: 10th Sep, 2010  Topic: 185  Post: 6533  Age:  40  
Posted on:15th Jun 2009, 3:02am

w salam

aslamoalikum sis

sub sy phyli bat tu ye hy k mali halaat ke waja sy ap husband sy alag hen ku ?

shadi abi abi hoi ek saal ni howa or mali haalat khrab howy ya keya howa ap mama k gur aaghi bot he bori bat

jub lurki ke shadi ho jati hy tu ap apna gur osy he jany jo ap k husband ka hy or achy or bory halaat meh ek dosry ka sath dyn

achay halaat meh sub sathi hoti hy pur bory halat meh husband wife ek sath hoty hen or hony chaieyen

abi mujy ni puta k gulti kis meh hey pur koshish kurin k apna problem solve kuri n or apny husband k sath ja k ry hen jo k sub sy achi bat hy

baki jaa tuk ap ka Question hy eska juwab ye he hy k ap shadi shoda ho es leye esy khiyal aty hen aj kul tu virgins b esa kur rhi hen pur ap ku k shadi shoda ho so try to solve your problem first with husband

Allah ny Quran meh ek achi bat btai hy k agur tom don meh narazgi ho ghi hy koi problem hy tu ek bunda lurki walo ke turaf sy or ek mohaazab bunda lurky walo ke turaf sy lao or bayth k problem ko sove kuro Allah ny cha ha tu dori khtam kura dy ga

so ap ziyada ursa mama k pas na rehn

baki ap ny shawer ka bola tu mery khiyal sy ap shawer ly leya kurin ye achi bat hy  es

System Group: Members  Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008  Topic: 40  Post: 2284  Age:  37  
Posted on:15th Jun 2009, 3:18am

A Shabbir

yes it is normal keh periods ke qareebi dino main aurat ko sex feelings ziada ho jati hain.. its a normal thing ... ager app Real main dishcharge ho jain dream ki waja se to shower lena zaroori hai warna koi zaroorat nahee... sex ki feelings aisi sorat e hal main bilkul hoti hain..  jab app sone ke lea letati hain aur husband ko miss karti hain to is main koi gunah nahee hai...   apne husband ke sath rehne ki koshish karen her hall main...   allah kare app ke problem door hojain...

yes you can talk to this forum begar kisi jhijak ke..  yeah forum bana hi isi lea hai...  you are always welcome to ask and welcome to this forum....

Neel Group: Members  Joined: 09th Jun, 2009  Topic: 0  Post: 94  Age:  56  
Posted on:15th Jun 2009, 9:50pm

A Shabbir



By bad dreams, do you mean erotic or sexual dreams involving sex act with graphic details?


Take a deep breath, smile and relax! These experiences are very normal. You are normal with an active mind and good reproductive health.  Dreams are often a way to let you know what you need for emotional and physical satisfaction. but are not getting during your waking hours.

The mind is so powerful and the brain is the ULTIMATE FRONTIER!  Brain is thought of as the SEXIEST organ in the body for obvious reasons.


You are experiencing normal sexual thoughts and feelings. Because of desires and not being able to fulfill you sexual desires, you are having sexual tension build up.  Dreams of sexual nature and sexual fantasies are a norm. And, you are having wet dreams and your mind is building this construct around that as you sleep. There is nothing to feel bad about this.


Your subconscious thoughts and feelings seek fulfillment when you sleep.


It could also be lucid dreaming. This is knowing or being aware of that you are dreaming, WHILE you are dreaming. It is, in a sense, becoming fully conscious in the dream state. During wakefulness, the body has physical awareness but has no awareness of consciousness. In the dream state, one is not having body awareness but consciousness or one is aware of one’s higher self, spirit or consciousness.


For starters, lucid dreams can serve a broad range of purposes, from erotic fulfillment to the practical. In lucid dreams, you can do anything! And that means anything – anything within the infinite power of your subconscious mind, including things like tackling the whole meaning of life problem, including, importantly, being able to enjoy sexually and experience delight, often in graphic sense with erotic details.  


Cool shower may help when you have dreams and you are sexually excited and your body feels warm.


According to a recently conducted University of Montreal study, it is estimated sex dreams make up about 8 percent of all dreams for both men and women. The most common kind of sex dream involves good old-fashioned intercourse, followed by propositions or flirting, kissing and fantasies. The results of the study, which was the first exploration into the subject in nearly 40 years, run counter to much of that past (and outdated) research, as well as the long-standing assumption that men think about sex far more than women, both consciously and subconsciously. This change doesn’t mean that modern women have spontaneously started dreaming about sex a lot more — it’s just that woman these days are much more comfortable discussing their sexuality and fantasies. When they have an inclination towards sex, it develops more and more.


Increased sexual desires, libido, urge to have sex, before period…Normal too.  


Physical and emotional changes (including sexual feelings, libido, sex drive, etc) that go through in a woman on a monthly basis are caused by hormones that interact and work together, communicating between the BRAIN and the reproductive system.  Women of reproductive age report fluctuations in their sex drive throughout their menstrual cycle. This well-researched topic of interest has resulted in conflicting information, making it difficult to reach definitive conclusions. The most well-known biological theory is that women feel their sex drive kick into highest gear during ovulation at mid-cycle, approximately 14 days before they get their next period. The changes in estrogen levels and the added testosterone bonus that accompany ovulation explain why some women experience heightened libido during this time. Testosterone, generally known as a male hormone (androgen) is also produced by women (example: in the ovary). Testosterone also has a big role in women’s sexuality.  Testosterone increases women’s sexual appetite as well as pleasure. Sexual pleasure is easy to achieve in women because of this hormone. 





We may be said to possess three minds, namely the conscious mind, the fore-conscious mind, and the unconscious mind. At times the term subconscious mind is employed; it is synonymous with the unconscious mind.  Of course, these divisions are made solely for explanatory purposes. Such a division is very convenient for understanding various mental phenomena.


DIVISION OF MIND…as you said. I do not know whether we can arbitrarily divide like this.  The realms of MIND and the vast ocean of DREAMING are fascinating areas, explored by intellectuals such as Carl Jung. Carl Gustav Jung was a clinician, psychiatrist and a scientist, and a forerunner of humanistic psychology.  Jung is considered as the first modern scientist and psychologist who  emphasized understanding the  psyche through exploring the worlds of dreams, art, mythology and philosophy (Eastern and Western).   

A Shabbir Group: Members  Joined: 15th Jun, 2009  Topic: 1  Post: 4  Age:  35  
Posted on:16th Jun 2009, 12:03am


tank u so much for reply meri mere husband se koi jagara nahi hay... bas shadi k kuch din bad hi wo job less ho gye apartment ka rent ziyada tha un ki family pak main hay un ki aik dor ki rishtadar hay jis ne shadi karwaye thi.... wo us orat ki family sath rehte hay... jagara kar k main nahi aye ami k ghar...... sohar ki marzi se hi aye hun ap jab un ko job mile gi ghar lain gay tab le kar jaye  gay... bas kafi arsa hoi gya alag rehte ab lagt ahay duriyan ziayda ho rahi hay.... aik 2 din k bad cal karte hay 2 m int hal chal puchne par Allha ki azamayesh hay kia kar sacte hay... wo acha karne wala hay.....pareshani to bohot hay par jis ne di hay wo kate ga b...khair  thank u ap ne reply dia

or muje WELCOME kia....

Neel Group: Members  Joined: 09th Jun, 2009  Topic: 0  Post: 94  Age:  56  
Posted on:16th Jun 2009, 12:17am

A Shabbir

You are most welcome, dear! Anytime!! Stressors/stress factors add more tension; however, you are coping well; you are healthy for lucid dreaming. Be positive and things will look up. I hope that I reasonably replied to you questions. 

System Group: Members  Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008  Topic: 40  Post: 2284  Age:  37  
Posted on:17th Jun 2009, 1:57pm

A Shabbir

you are most welcome
A Shabbir Group: Members  Joined: 15th Jun, 2009  Topic: 1  Post: 4  Age:  35  
Posted on:17th Jun 2009, 2:06pm

thank u

thank u members
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