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Family Problems: Mere Wife Ki Bhabi Se Nahi Banti

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yasir21 Group: Members  Joined: 14th Jul, 2009  Topic: 1  Post: 14  Age:  37  
Posted on:14th Jul 2009, 12:26pm
 

Family Problems: Mere Wife Ki Bhabi Se Nahi Banti

mare shahdi ko 3 sal ho gaye hain, mare 4 bhai hain mera number 3rd he, mare do bhi bhi shahdi shuda hain, main joint family main rahata hon, mera Masha Allah 1 beta he, mera masla yah he ke, main ground floor per rehat hon, or mere 1 bahi bhi mere sath ground floor per rahta he, or mare 1 bare bhai 1st floor per rahte hain mare parents ke sath, mare wife ke mere bhabi ke nahen bante, wo buhut tez hain, khamoshi khamoshi se apna kam kar jate hain, aj kal ek masla yah he ke, mere beta unke room main jata he to unke bache usko marte hain lekin maine aj tak nahen suna ke unhon ne unko mana kiya ho, wo jab bhi unke room se ata he wo rota howa he ata he, is bat per mare wife buhut ghussa hote he ke, app kuch nahen bolte hain yah mare bete ko marte he, mare wife yah bolte he ke jis tarhan yah raota howa ata he usko lagta he ke mere bhabhi usko marete hain or room se nikalte hain, unke bache 1 beta 3.5 sal ka or 1 beti 2 sal ke he, wo kase itne zoor se mar sakte hain, main apne wife ko samjhata hon ke ahsa nahen he to mujh se he larna shru kar deti he apto unke sath detain he apni wife ke kabhi sath nahen diya, wo apke bete ko marte hain rahin or app unke himayat karete raho, mujhe in larai gharon se buhut tensin hote he, plz mujhe batain ke main kiya karon, kiya bachon ke laye unse ja kar laron, or bhabhi per kase sabit karon ke wo marte hain, mare ghar main to wo buhut ache bane rahte hain, lekin ek bat mujhe yad ate he jab main un married tha to wo mare bare bhai ke beti ko kai dafa mar choki hain wo maine khud dekha tha, lekin abb kase yaqeen karon ke wo marte honge, yah ab roz roz ka masla ban gaya he, beta chota he usko kase mana karen ke wo unke room main na jaye, plz guide main and help me in this regard.

Thanks
System Group: Members  Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008  Topic: 40  Post: 2284  Age:  36  
Posted on:14th Jul 2009, 2:38pm
 

yasir21

apni bhabi ke sath husan e salook se pesh ao.. unke bachon ko pyar karo.. aur unke bachon ko candy, khiloney khareed ker do.. aur apni bhabi ki sab logon se tareef karo take unko ehsas hojai ke dewar bhai bhut acha hai aur unke bachon ko pyar bhi karta hai to shaid unke dil main reham ajai...

otherwise dushmani ban jai ge aur phir tum unki nafrat aur zehmato ka nishana ban jao ge..

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Posted on:14th Jul 2009, 3:51pm
 

re:

i agree with the above post.

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Posted on:14th Jul 2009, 7:01pm
 

yasir21

agree system.

ap aisa kr k dekhlen q k ek pyar hi aisi chiz hy jo nafrat ko pyar me badal deti hy apne kaha k apki bhabi or apki wife ki apke waliden se ny banti to ny banti ok kia ap apne waleden k hokook pure krte hen? yad rakhe k agr in me se koi ek b ya dono naraaz howe to phr bhut bara khasaraa hy me ye iss liye bata raha hon q k mene bhut se casese dekhen hy jo k bv ki wajah se apne waliden ki huq talafii kr k dozakh ka endan bnte hen ap ka msla koi bara msla ny hy jo mujhe smajh me aaya wo bata diyaa salaam.

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Posted on:15th Jul 2009, 6:31am
 

yasi21

system bhai ne koi shukk nahi rukha apni post mein inn se mokamal tour per agree kerty hein hum sub .........

aap inn choti choti batoon se juld hi niqal ayein to aap k liye behatr ho ga warna agy chull ker aap k ghar ko ye hi batein apni lupait mein le ayein gi aur aap k liye bohat mushkil ho jaye gi ...aap apni bhabi se apni wife ki dosti kerwa dein aur aap sub log apny buchoon se jiss qadar ho piyar-0-mobhat se paish ana shuroo kerein issi mein aap sub ki bhulaee he.... 

zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13598  Age:  36  
Posted on:15th Jul 2009, 7:48am
 

yes

system aur raja bhai ne bht hi shaandar reply kiya hai

ye islam mein bhi hai k agar koi ap se nafrat kerye to ap usey jawab mein nafrat na kero balke khamosh raho, darguzer kero aur husne-salook kero

InshaAllah dekhna....ap ka dushman bhi ap ka dost bun jaye ga

is ka best solution yahi hai k ap un k sath bht bht acha bertao kero...

biwi ko Quranic references se samjhao

InshaAllah sub thik ho jaye ga

yasir21 Group: Members  Joined: 14th Jul, 2009  Topic: 1  Post: 14  Age:  37  
Posted on:15th Jul 2009, 9:59am
 

Thanks for your reply

ap log sahe kah raha hain, lekin main ap logon ke yah bhi batata hon ke main ek kids lover person hon, mainn kabhi bhi bachon ko nahen marta na apne samne kase ko marne deta hon, unke bache hamare room main he khelte the or abhi bhi ate hain lekin kabhi unke sath kuch nahen kiya hamesha piyar he kiya, job kabhi bacho main larai howe to bech bacho kara diya dant diya or alag kar diya, lekin jab se mere bete ne unke room main jana shoru kiya he wo wahan se rota howa he ata he, chahe bhahbi ne mara ho yah unke bachon ne lekin kabhi maine nahen sona ke unhon ne apne bachon ko danta ho yah daraya ho yah mana kara ho ke mat karo mat maro, yahi chez mujhe lagte he ke or mare wife bhi yahi bolte he kam az kam bacho ko mana kar yah danto take ayenda wo ahsa nahen karen lekin ahsa nahen hota, ek chote bache ko kab tak hum ek room main band kar ke rakhain, mare to kuch samajh he nahen ata, bhabhi pahle he hamain har jaga bura bana choke hain or khud khamoshi se harkaten karte rahte hain kase ko pata nahen chalte, chup chaitan hain or sab ke samne ache bane rahte hain, mare wife kai bate batate hain lekin main uske upper yaqeen nahen karata or notice nahen late lekin kuch baten or kuch chazen to mare samne bhi hote hain, phir wo mujhe bolte he ap to unke himayat karte hain dekh lain yah hain,

Or dusra wo bhabhi hamare close relatives bhi hain islaye family ke or log bhi unhain kuch nahen kahte ke unke ammi buhut tez hain sabke samne suna dete hain, islaye unhain koi kuch nahen bolta or dusra hamare bhi sahib bhi jo moon main ata he bol dete hain to koi unlogon ko kuch nahen bolta, or sara azab mujh he jhelna parta he, mare nature nahen he ke bat bat par main ja kar laron yah tension palta rahon, plz app log he guide karen ke yah laraye kahen barh na jaye main office main bhi ashe bare main sochta rahta hon khain ghar main koi garbar na hogaye plz guide me
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Posted on:15th Jul 2009, 1:36pm
 

yasir21

Dear

app ko system bahi nay acha mushwara dia tha lakin app ki reply kay baad or jesa k app nay appna sawal main lika hai k app nay hud deka hai k app ki bhabi nay app kay bahi ki behti ko b mara to is tummam kay baad yeh kehna kuch gulat nahin ho go k app ki wife teek kehti hain app ki bhabi zaroor app kay beta ko b marti hon gi kunk "CHOOR CHORI SAY JIA PER HERA PEHARE SAY NA JIA" is ka aik hal jo system bahi na betya dosra hal yeh hi k ager app afford ker sektay ho to alug ger main shift ho jao kounk is waja say app dono husband wife main aik kaleej hail ho jai g jo aga chel ker bari mushkilat ka subab ho gi or ho sukta hai k app kay betay ki turbeet main b negative rujhan upper hand rahay yeh bahut mushkil hai aj kay zamanay main k alag ger lia jai lakin yeh kabi kabi bahut zarori hota hai like your case.

 

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Posted on:15th Jul 2009, 4:52pm
 

yasir21

ap apni biwi ko bolo ke har bat ka negative matlab nai lia karay, aur wese bi bachon ki waja se apne ghar ka mahol kharab nai karna chahiye.Joint family system mai ye sab baten hoti rehti hain, bachay aik dusray ko martay peetatay rehte hain..ye normal hai. muje har pehlu pay tumhari wife galti par lag rahi hai, apne se baron ka adab karna chahiye,aur un ki maan kar sath chalna chahiye.

  Actually, har aurat ye chahti hai, keh wo family mai sab se ziada numaya ho, apni wife ko bolo, keh ikhlaq aur apne se baron ki izat karnay say tum bhabi ko mat de sakti ho, Bhabi agar tumhari nai banti, tou tum bhabi ki ban jao, jagra khatam.

   Joint family system chalana boht tuff hota hai,aur jo jhuk ke chalatay hain, wohi surkhru hotay hain.

   take care.

  Best wishes.

 Never mind.

 

yasir21 Group: Members  Joined: 14th Jul, 2009  Topic: 1  Post: 14  Age:  37  
Posted on:16th Jul 2009, 5:45am
 

Thanks for you reply Komos and Made4u

thanks for ur suggestion, lekin main apko yah bhi batata cholon ke pahle bhi inhe baton ke waja se mare or mare wife me larai ho chuke he or kafi had tak halat kharab ho gaye the lekin Allah Allah kar ke sahi howe, mare to kuch samajh nahen ata ke kiya karon mujhe apne bete ke khyal rahata he ke wo in chezon se khan disturb na ho gaye, yah urten khan kase ke sunte hain maine apne wife ko kafi samjhya or mare uncle ne bhi samjhaya lekin uske kuch akal main he nahen ata, wo mujhe office main bhi sms karte rahte he ke us ne yah kiya wo kiya main in chzon ka adi nahen ho or larai ghgre se door bhagta hon,, lekin mare wife har waqt yahi masle discuss karte rahte he or mare samjhane ka bhi kuch asar nahen hota, mian kiya karaon kisko samjhayon koi samajhne ko tayyar he nahen he, job main bhi main dara dara rahta hon khanen koi masala na ho jaye,

maine apne wife ko kafi samjhaya ke pahle bhi problem ho chuke he kuch ahtiyat karo lekin pata nahen kuch asar he nahen hota, bus apni he lagate he ke main sahe kah rahe hon wo ghalat he app bhi unke he himayat karte hain mare sath nahen dete wo apke wife ko tang karte hain apke bete ko marte hain or app unke he himayat karte hain app is tarhan khamosh rahenge to unko or shah mile ge or wo or karenge ap ko chaye ke unka demagh sahi kar dain, phi in logon ke himmat nahen hoge, main usko buhut samjhaya ke ghar main is tarhan nahen kar sakte bardash se kam lana chaye lekin wo bolte he app darte ho in logon se is laye nahen bolte.

mujhe yah sab tane bhi sunne ko milte hain, kiya main in baton par roz roz larta rahon bus mera yahi kam rah gaya he, main na job per sukun se rah sakte hon na ghar per ab app log he batain ke main kiya karon is condition main, kase samjhyon apne wife ko, wo to kuch sunne ko or kuch manne ko tayyar he nahen, mujhe ulte tane sunne ko milte hain,

plz guide me and help me
zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13598  Age:  36  
Posted on:16th Jul 2009, 8:33am
 

hmmm

yasir i think ap ki wife ka bhi kasoor hai

balke i think ziada kasoor ap ki wife ka hi hai

wo chahti to shuru se hi apni jaga sub k dil mein banati

lekin us ne aisa nahi kiya

wo her bat ko dil mein rkhti hai aur usey khatam ekrney ya us ko positive solution mein solve kerney k bajaye us ko negative leti hai aur lambaaaaaaaaaaa khainchti hai...means bat ka  batangar banana

ab ap ki bhabi se us ki nahi banti to ...as u said k bhabi shuru se hi aise hai,,....us ki maan bi aise hai...to ye sub ap ko pehle hi pata hai na un ki aadat ka/....to ap ki biwi ko chahiye tha k wo adjust kerti....usey makhan laga laga ker us k dil mein apni jaga banati...pr nahi us ne aisa nahi kiya...ulta us ki baton ka batangar bana ker ap ko ap ki amily se bi dur ker rhi hai

abi bi kuch nahi bigra ...apni wife ko samjhao k rehna hai to yahin rahey aur un k dil mein jaga banaye...

main ap ki bhabi ki nature samajh gya hun...wo aisi aurat hai k jis k sath pyar kero to wo pyar kerye gi....she is selfish....sensitive and emotional...apki wife ko bi samajh gya hun...ap ki wife bi sensitive aur emotional hai....

i think yahin per ap ne control na kiya sub kuch...to ap ghar walon se bi dur ho jayen gay aur un k dil se bhi

zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13598  Age:  36  
Posted on:16th Jul 2009, 8:34am
 

hmmm

yasir i think ap ki wife ka bhi kasoor hai

balke i think ziada kasoor ap ki wife ka hi hai

wo chahti to shuru se hi apni jaga sub k dil mein banati

lekin us ne aisa nahi kiya

wo her bat ko dil mein rkhti hai aur usey khatam ekrney ya us ko positive solution mein solve kerney k bajaye us ko negative leti hai aur lambaaaaaaaaaaa khainchti hai...means bat ka  batangar banana

ab ap ki bhabi se us ki nahi banti to ...as u said k bhabi shuru se hi aise hai,,....us ki maan bi aise hai...to ye sub ap ko pehle hi pata hai na un ki aadat ka/....to ap ki biwi ko chahiye tha k wo adjust kerti....usey makhan laga laga ker us k dil mein apni jaga banati...pr nahi us ne aisa nahi kiya...ulta us ki baton ka batangar bana ker ap ko ap ki amily se bi dur ker rhi hai

abi bi kuch nahi bigra ...apni wife ko samjhao k rehna hai to yahin rahey aur un k dil mein jaga banaye...

main ap ki bhabi ki nature samajh gya hun...wo aisi aurat hai k jis k sath pyar kero to wo pyar kerye gi....she is selfish....sensitive and emotional...apki wife ko bi samajh gya hun...ap ki wife bi sensitive aur emotional hai....

i think yahin per ap ne control na kiya sub kuch...to ap ghar walon se bi dur ho jayen gay aur un k dil se bhi

yasir21 Group: Members  Joined: 14th Jul, 2009  Topic: 1  Post: 14  Age:  37  
Posted on:17th Jul 2009, 6:41am
 

Thanks Zeb

Jee apne bulkul sahe kha ke mare wife ka bhi kassoor he, usko maine buhut samjhya lekin kuch samajh nahen ate he, wo mare bat ko bhi negative late he, ke main bhabhi ke ya apne ghar walon ke himayat karta hon, or mare wife sensetive bhi buhut he, usne kafi pareshanyan dekhe hain pane ghar main, lekin main usko buhut samjhata hon lekin pata nahen kyen uske kuch samajh he nahen ata, app log he batain ke main uske negative soch ko positive kase karon, wo chote chote bat pakar ke beth jate he or wo uske zehan se nahen nikalte ke usne mare sath yah kiya use mare sath wo kiya,

Main usko samjhata hon ke Allah par chor do jo jase kare ga wo wahse he paye ga, bus apna or apne husband or bache ke fikar kiya karo, lekin kuch akal main nahen ata, sirf apne matlab ke batain samajh main ate hain bus.

pls app log is problem ko solve karne main mare madad karen, or main apne wife ka buhut khayal bhi rakhata hon , Allah ka shukar he acha khana acha pehanna sab he lekin phir bhi uske yah adaten nahen khatam  hoten, or wo apne ghar main sabse chote he to usko kam ka bhi experience nahen he to wo agar koi kam sahe nahen karte to main uske bata ta hon ke ahse karon wo uska bhi bura mante he ke main karte to hon or kase karon, or mare parents bhi kabhi kabhi usko bolte hain to unka bhi buhut bura lagta he, agar koi shaks kam ko sahi karne ka treqa bata rahe he to wo bhi nahen sunnna, or jawab yah ke sab ahse he to karte hain, jase main karte hon bulke dosron se ziyada acha main karte hon.

Bhabi to ahse karte hain app ja kar dekh lain unka kam wo kase karte hain, ab kiya blon or kase samjhyon, main to ab thag gaya hon .

Pls guide me.
zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13598  Age:  36  
Posted on:17th Jul 2009, 7:50am
 

hmmm

ap pyar se smajahya keryen aur ziada apni bhabi se compare na kiya keryen

aurat kabhi bi khud ka comparison kisi aur aurat se bardasht nahi kerti

wese to mard bi nahi krta ye bardasht

ap khud hi batayen

agr ap ki wife ap se kahey k ap ka bhai to ye kam aise kerta hai aur a aise nahi ekrtey ...to ap ko bi to bura lagay ga na

to plz avoid kiya keryen aisi chezon ko

aisi baton ko bari tricks se handle kerna chahiye

yasir21 Group: Members  Joined: 14th Jul, 2009  Topic: 1  Post: 14  Age:  37  
Posted on:20th Jul 2009, 5:31am
 

Urgent reply plz plz plz

mare wife ne mujhe buhut he tang karna shoru kar diya he, roz ya har dosre din koi na koi masla khara kar ke mujh se badtamezi karte he, jabke main kuch nahen bolta or talta rahta ho ignore karta rahat hon. mujhe apne bete ka buhut khayal he wo dar badar ho jaye ga lekin uske kuch samajh nahen ata, pata nahen usko kiya mil raha he mujhe tang or pareshan karke or mujh se badtamezi kar ke.

Kiya wo istarhan mujhe tang or pareshan karke khud sukoon se rah sakte he, or dosre bat wo kase ke bhi nahen sunte, na kase ko khate main late he, pahle bhi 3 dafa ahsa kare ke badtamezi kar ke ja chuke he phir baron ke bech main la kar wopis le kar aya hon wo bhi apne bete ke laye, lekin pata nahen uske demagh main kiya sawar he wo muhe pareshan karte rahte he or mujh se intehaye badtamei karna shoro kar di he, wo apne ghar main bhi baron se ahsa he sulook kar chuke he mare samne kai dafa, wo apne ghar ke  chote he shayed islaye.

ab ek naye chez yah ke mare bhabi jo mare cousin bhi hain, unke sister se mujhe invlove kar rahe he kabhi kase se invlove kar rahe ho mare mobile check karte he, lekin main kabhi bhi ahse harkat nahen ki, ghar se office or office se ghar ata hon or family ko time deta ho acha khana pilana or acha pahnana or ache jage ghumana phirana, lekin pata nehen usko kiys chayen.

Mare se kal usne buhut badtamezi ke  or bhabhi ke sister ko unke family ko buhut bura bhala bula, main buhut pareshan ho, wo larki shadi shuda he uske bache hain, kabhi is tarhan ke bat nahen suni, ab yah ahse harkat kar rahe he kon ahsa ilzam bardash kare ga pane wife or beti ya behan ke layen.

ab to mujhe or tenstion ho rahe or agar yah sab baten mare bhi or bhabhi ne sun le honge to ek hangama khara ho gaye ga, lekin usko koi ahsas he nahen he ke apne in harkaton se apne ghar barbad kar rahe ho, yah baten kon bardash karega, usko apne bache ka bhi khayal nahen he.

ap yaqeen karen main 102 fever main tha phir bhi usko shopping karwai or mare himmat nahen ho rahe the phir bhi usko le kar giya, lekin uske dil main kiya he usko kase chez ka ahsas he nahen pata nahen kis chez ke bani he, or jab in baton par main usko chup karata hon to bolte he tum in logon se darte ho usko apne izat ke fikar to nahen or mare bhi nahen he,

plz mujhe batain ab main kiya decision lon kis tarhan is mushkil ghari se nikon, ab ke dafa masla bhar to is bar seperation se koi nahen bacha sake ga, usko is chez ka ihsas he nahen he mare samajh se bahar he, uske bari 2 sister pahle hi ghar bethe hain unke shahdi nahen howe lekin phir bhi isko ahsas nahen , bhi hain wo job he nahen karte bus abba ka kha rahe hain, mujhe apne bete ke fikar he plz help me and guide me urgently.
yasir21 Group: Members  Joined: 14th Jul, 2009  Topic: 1  Post: 14  Age:  37  
Posted on:20th Jul 2009, 5:31am
 

Urgent reply plz plz plz

mare wife ne mujhe buhut he tang karna shoru kar diya he, roz ya har dosre din koi na koi masla khara kar ke mujh se badtamezi karte he, jabke main kuch nahen bolta or talta rahta ho ignore karta rahat hon. mujhe apne bete ka buhut khayal he wo dar badar ho jaye ga lekin uske kuch samajh nahen ata, pata nahen usko kiya mil raha he mujhe tang or pareshan karke or mujh se badtamezi kar ke.

Kiya wo istarhan mujhe tang or pareshan karke khud sukoon se rah sakte he, or dosre bat wo kase ke bhi nahen sunte, na kase ko khate main late he, pahle bhi 3 dafa ahsa kare ke badtamezi kar ke ja chuke he phir baron ke bech main la kar wopis le kar aya hon wo bhi apne bete ke laye, lekin pata nahen uske demagh main kiya sawar he wo muhe pareshan karte rahte he or mujh se intehaye badtamei karna shoro kar di he, wo apne ghar main bhi baron se ahsa he sulook kar chuke he mare samne kai dafa, wo apne ghar ke  chote he shayed islaye.

ab ek naye chez yah ke mare bhabi jo mare cousin bhi hain, unke sister se mujhe invlove kar rahe he kabhi kase se invlove kar rahe ho mare mobile check karte he, lekin main kabhi bhi ahse harkat nahen ki, ghar se office or office se ghar ata hon or family ko time deta ho acha khana pilana or acha pahnana or ache jage ghumana phirana, lekin pata nehen usko kiys chayen.

Mare se kal usne buhut badtamezi ke  or bhabhi ke sister ko unke family ko buhut bura bhala bula, main buhut pareshan ho, wo larki shadi shuda he uske bache hain, kabhi is tarhan ke bat nahen suni, ab yah ahse harkat kar rahe he kon ahsa ilzam bardash kare ga pane wife or beti ya behan ke layen.

ab to mujhe or tenstion ho rahe or agar yah sab baten mare bhi or bhabhi ne sun le honge to ek hangama khara ho gaye ga, lekin usko koi ahsas he nahen he ke apne in harkaton se apne ghar barbad kar rahe ho, yah baten kon bardash karega, usko apne bache ka bhi khayal nahen he.

ap yaqeen karen main 102 fever main tha phir bhi usko shopping karwai or mare himmat nahen ho rahe the phir bhi usko le kar giya, lekin uske dil main kiya he usko kase chez ka ahsas he nahen pata nahen kis chez ke bani he, or jab in baton par main usko chup karata hon to bolte he tum in logon se darte ho usko apne izat ke fikar to nahen or mare bhi nahen he,

plz mujhe batain ab main kiya decision lon kis tarhan is mushkil ghari se nikon, ab ke dafa masla bhar to is bar seperation se koi nahen bacha sake ga, usko is chez ka ihsas he nahen he mare samajh se bahar he, uske bari 2 sister pahle hi ghar bethe hain unke shahdi nahen howe lekin phir bhi isko ahsas nahen , bhi hain wo job he nahen karte bus abba ka kha rahe hain, mujhe apne bete ke fikar he plz help me and guide me urgently.
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Posted on:20th Jul 2009, 5:49am
 

yasir

aisa treeban hr ghar me hota hai me apni mama ki baat btati hu meri tayi ami b bht taiz trar aurat he he b relative mere abu ki ch cha zad hai hua ye k tb abhi hum 2sis hi hoti thi aur ek bhai..........hua ye k me aur meri tayi ki beti sath sath school jati thi ek din usne ek pregnant aurat ko daikha ghar akr us ne apni ma ko btaya k ami hsna ne mjy btaya k saima us aurat ka baby ane wala hai phir kia hona tha meri tayi mere hilaaf bolny lgi aur bolti chli gai ahir meri ami ka sabar ka daman choot gya meri wo cousin mjse 2saal bri hai...........hmare ghar me bht jgra hua phir isitra choti sis per ilzam lgana k ajj aisa hua ye kia.............aj halat ye he k hmari us tayi ne meri ami abu per jado krwa dia hua hai mere parents bimaar he 2din skoon k aur 4din bimario me gurty he mere bhai behn abhi bht choty he chota bhai 7saal ka hai..............mera mshwra hai k ap apni wife ko khay k apki bhabhi se mu mari krny ka sochna chor dy kio k ye achi baat nhi hai aurat aurat ki dushman hai ghalt apki bhabi hi shi mgr ye sb uski fitrat hai mgr apki wife b usky jaisi bn na chahti he phir dono me koi frq nhi rhy ga...................zeb bhai ne theek kha hai k aurat kbhi b dosri aurat ko brdasht nhi krti hai khas kr bhabi ko,,,,,,,,,,,,ap api bhabi ka hyal rkho usy hush kro to ise apki wife bhrak skti hai aisa kre jb apka beta unky room me jaye to sath apki wife b chli jaye dostana mahool me wo apki bhabhi ko keh b sky gi k bchy ko nhi mare aur bura b nhi lgy ga abhi ye sb apki wife per depend krta hai aik baat yaad rkhe k apki wife b apky bhai ki bhabi hai kia apka bhai apki wife ka yu hyal rkhta hai apny bcho ko nhi apky bchy ko candy la kr dy..............apki wife ko aur bura lgy ga k ek to wo marty he oper se ap unky nkhre b uthate ho apko yha bht se friends ne jo kuch kha hai wo sahi hai mgr as a girl me apki wife k jzbaat b smj skti hu jo apky liye apki bhabi se khi ziada important hai ap apny bchy ko aisi cheeze dy k wo unky room me nhi jaye blky unky bchy apky pas ajaye.......................ok preshan nhiho ap bs wife ko smjaye k wo preshan nhiho aur na hi ap ahir wo maa hai us se nhi brdasht hota k koi usky bchy ko mare agar wo baat ka batanger bnana chahti to kbhi b apko nhi btati blky wo b waisa hi krti jaisa apki bhabi apky bchy k sath.....................
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Posted on:20th Jul 2009, 6:51am
 

Thanks Hasna

Ap thek kah rahe hain , lekin main na apne bhi or bhabhi se bat karta ho na unke bachon se, phir bhi mare wife mare peche pare rahte he, abto naya drama he ke bhabhi ke shahdi shuda sister se mujhe engage kar rahe he, yah to koi bardash nahen karega, or main jo uska itna khayal karta ho wo mujhe se bhi itne he badtamezi karte he, ap yah batayen aj kal kon itne badtamezi bardash karta he wo to main apne bete ke laye bardash kar raha hon, shayad wo islaye iska faida utha rahe he.

Mujhe roz koi na koi tension dena or koi na koi bhana dhondh kar mujh se badtamezi karna, main subha ka office jata hon or 7 ya 8 baje tak wapis ata hon or ghar ane ke bad yah sab to main kase job karon or kase zindage guzaron, mare sehat bhi kharab ho rahe he din ba din weak hota ja raha hon, lekin iske masle hi khatam nahen hote,

itne mushkil se iska 3 bard ghar basaya he yah main he janta hon, kon apne ghar main larai ghagra bardash karta he, lekin usko meri postion he samajh nahen ate, or har waqt purani baten le kar bath jate he, isne yah kiya wo kiya, main usko bolta hon ke kiya marte dam tak yah sab yad rakho go or mujhe sata kar or tang kar ke tumhain kiya hasil hota he.

main tumhara khayal rakhata hon apne zindagi hanse khushi guzaro apne bete ka khyal karo uske ache tarbiyat ke bare main socho, lekin kon usko samjhaye usko har bat buri lagte he wo samajhte he ke mujhe sab ata he sab malom he, koi kam bhi sahi karne ko kaho to wo badtamizi karne shuru kar dete he chaye kitne piyar se he kaho.

now im in very tension pls help and guide me, aj main apne chahcha se bhi bat karonga or unko sari bat batonga, ap log batyen ke wife ke mamo se bhi bat karon jab 3rd time baron main bat cheet howe the to wo the unhaon ne mujhe apna number bhi diya tha ke ko bat ho to phone karna, lekin uske bad se unhaon ne bhi palat kar nahen pocha se wo kase chal rahe he kase rah rahe he, ab mujhe unse bat karna chaye ke nahen, shayed wo bhi apne he bhanji ke side laainge, aj kal kon sahe or haq ke bat karta he, sab apne mofad dekhte hain.
zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13598  Age:  36  
Posted on:20th Jul 2009, 7:38am
 

yasir

dear brotehjr is sari situation ko dekhtey huye main isi nateekay per pohncha hun k sara kasoor ap ki wife ka hi hai

ap us k parents se kion nahi bat kertey

ya phir aisa kero k pehle apni biwi se bat k wo chahti kia hai...aur us se kaho k agar tum aise hi kerti rahi to main tumhare parents se bat kerun ga k isey samjhayen....bcoz ye meri bat to samajhti nahi hai

yasir21 Group: Members  Joined: 14th Jul, 2009  Topic: 1  Post: 14  Age:  37  
Posted on:20th Jul 2009, 7:53am
 

dear Zeb

yar uske family to sahi nahen he, koi bhi kuch nahen bolta, pahle jab yah bat howe the to uske bhai aye or ulta samjhane ke bajaye mujhe se badtamezi ke or mujhe marne ke uthe, wo to muhalle walon ne bech bacho kara diya.

yahi to pareshani he mare wo sunnti nahen or koi unke traf se dosra samjhane wala nahen or unke kse relative se banti bhi nahen he.

mare uncle or phophi samjhate he lekin unke bhi nahen sunte karte apne he he.
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