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Fouzia: I Request You To Read This

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Cheeku Group: Members  Joined: 16th Apr, 2008  Topic: 12  Post: 35  Age:  36  
Posted on:24th Apr 2008, 4:21pm

Fouzia: I Request You To Read This

even if she is insisting to meet him, ask her to go ahead, i bet that after meeting him, this will be climax & end of love.

utlimately she has to come to marriage n that man will also get married with some one.

i suggest that a person should be realistic in its thoughts. real life is not that of novelistic life. we should face the realities. basically she (Fouzia) is ignoring the reality. she is trying to justify her wait of 12 years. and keeping herself in status quo, she is only justifying her inself. 

how many people are there in life who are comprosing and ultimately they settled down.

i have a question from FOUZIA. did she even think k kitnon logon ko us ke zaroorat hay. nobody in the world is waste. each person has its purpose of existence.

i would like to share a real story i read:

same isi tarah cousins thay. they loved but eventually they didnt get marry each other. but the girl married with someone else as the parents forced. now what happened. both were so upset on their sides. however, the person was pious. ak din khawab main us ko khawab main ak buzarag nazar ay. un k sath kuch paralyzed children they. the man asked who are they. the old man said, they are ur children. the person went to someone k khawab ke tabeer kia hay. unhon nay bataya k agar tumhare shadi us larki say ho jati to tumharay bachay paralyzed honay thay and result would have been the seperation n divorce. the person get verified from doctor by taking his blood test & that girl. doctors verified that this is their 4th genration of cousin marriage and agar tumhare marriage ho jati to yehi result hona tha.

HAR KAM MAIN ALLAH KE HIKMAT BHE HOTI HAY. actually QURAN PAK main bhe hay k insan bohat BAY SABRA AUR NASHUKRA HAY. man actually wants to get short term benefits whereas the decision lies with ALLAH.

hamzi Group: Members  Joined: 24th Mar, 2008  Topic: 11  Post: 1070  Age:  32  
Posted on:24th Apr 2008, 5:12pm


well very good judged comments i lik ur thinking n philosphy
josh Group: Members  Joined: 30th Jul, 2007  Topic: 47  Post: 2282  Age:  41  
Posted on:24th Apr 2008, 11:16pm

request to fouzia......

wah cheeku bohat acha likha hai..

i hope that fouzia will read it with positive mind..

Fouzia Group: Members  Joined: 21st Apr, 2008  Topic: 2  Post: 7  Age:  42  
Posted on:25th Apr 2008, 7:12am

Fouzia Read Your Request

Thanks to all who reply to my post and share their thought.

I read your request. Thats what I am convinced with the purpose of my existence and it meant to wait. I am not justifying myself, dunya main her terhan ke log hotey hain, main bhee on main se aik hon. Simple. Aur kia pata yehee meray liye Allah ki murzi ho.


I decide not to see him. I might not happy with the idea but I am satisfied which is far more important. Thanks and kind regards


One thing i would like to request all reading my message please always use capital letter for Holy names. Dont rather Never wrote Allah or Muhammad with small letters, pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease. It shows casual behavior towards our religion and to Those we love the most.

sunehri76 Group: Members  Joined: 04th Aug, 2007  Topic: 100  Post: 4632  Age:  42  
Posted on:25th Apr 2008, 7:51am


Mai apko kisi cheez ke lye convens nahi karna chahti.ap khu dbohat mature hain samajhdar hain,aur apne Halaat ap sab se behtar tor pe janti hain...

ap ye bhi janti hain ke is Rishte ke na hone me main Problem kya hai ya kis ki taraf se hai...

Lekin..mera phir bhi ye khayal hai ke agar apko apne cousin se pyar hai,aur unko bhi apse pyar hai(if you are sure ke wo apke sath sensire hai)to apko unhe ek chance dena chahye...

ap unhe Time dain,unhe kahain ke if he loves you to apne Parents ko pehle Rishta bejhne ke lye Razi kare...aur agar unki Taraf se Rishta a jata hai to apko bhi apne Parents ko convens karna hoga..

agar uski taraf se koi reselt nahi ata,to ap bhi unse khamoshi se taluk khatam karlain...aur kisi munasib jaga shadi karlain...

apni Pasand se Shadi karna humare mazhab me Gunnah nahi hai....meri cosuin ne bhi apni pasand se shadi ki hai,aur ladke ne 2sal ki mukhalfat ke bad apne parents ko razi kar liya...thats mean wo in two years me zara bhi piche nahi agar apke cousin me itni willpower hai apko hasil karne ke lye to use qadam uthana chahye,.aur agar wo bhi Halat ke hath sab kuch chod raha hai to use apse akaile me milne ki batain nahi karni chahyen...

ap Khuda pe chod dain,iska Faissla inti jaldi na karain ke apko kya karna chahye..khuda se Rehnumayi ki Dua mange..aur Halaat ke hisab se jo ho use exept karlain...

age ap zyada behtar samajhti hain---i wish you all the best

zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13598  Age:  37  
Posted on:25th Apr 2008, 9:40am


agreed to sunehri
razi_82 Group: Members  Joined: 16th Apr, 2008  Topic: 6  Post: 369  Age:  36  
Posted on:25th Apr 2008, 9:48am

bilkul sahi

sunehri aap ne bohat achha mashvara dia hay mera bi yahi kehna hay k pehle larkay ko chahyay rishta to bhejay fouzia k ghar walay kia kartay hain ye fouzia ka problem hay pehle larka to zahir karay k wo kia kar sakta hay......
nadeem AOL Group: Members  Joined: 26th Nov, 2007  Topic: 8  Post: 265  Age:  35  
Posted on:25th Apr 2008, 10:11am

Fouzia !

You have chosen the right option not to see him alone, cheeku rightly said.

I don't know why people here r suggesting you to meet with him n give him a chance for what ?? what have you been doing for 7 or 12 years, just giving him chances and trying to make your parents agreed upon it, what else is left there to be him alone ?????????????????????>>>

f my cousions have got married in love and their parents agreed after 2 years then it never mean that the same case would happen to you.

To say that "I love you"......"Lets get married"......does not need you to go with him alone where nobody can see both of you.....simply not.....

Stick at your decision Fouzia !

BeautyStar Group: Members  Joined: 16th May, 2007  Topic: 52  Post: 3584  Age:  31  
Posted on:25th Apr 2008, 12:07pm

Cheeku-Bahi (Thank you)

Buhat hi zabadasrt Real-Story present ki hain app nee.. app ne tou BeautyStar or tamam members ki aankhein khool dein hain... Abb tou Sister-Fouzia ko convince ho hi janah chahiyah... once again thank you for sharing with us such a Though-Provoking Real Story...!

Fouzia-Sister... remember one thing Time is the best healer.. and hopefully it will compensate all of your worries & 12 years of Sarification.... Always rely on ALLAH... I will pray for you.. May ALLAH bless you Sister... (Ameen)
logic Group: Members  Joined: 26th Sep, 2013  Topic: 1  Post: 20  Age:  41  
Posted on:26th Sep 2013, 5:18am


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