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I Have Been Raped (when in 6th grade): Please help Me

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sairahanif Group: Members  Joined: 16th Jul, 2007  Topic: 1  Post: 1  Age:  34  
Posted on:16th Jul 2007, 6:43am
 

I Have Been Raped (when in 6th grade): Please help Me

mera name ...... hai  me facing a big problem     me jab 6th main thi to merey qari sb ney merey sath bohat dafa rape kia us waqt muje pata nahin tha that yeh kia hota ai ab meri shadi honey wali hai   and muje pata chala hai that woh bohat galat tha   me bohat pareshaan hoon meri health normal hai periods bhi theek hain sab kuch theek hai   bataye me kia keron kia merey husband ko pata chal jaye ga that merey sath kuch galat hoa hai plzzz mujhe batayeee  is sey kuch hoga to nahin muje plzz help me

I am facing a big problem. When I was in class 6th, I have been raped by me Qari Sahab several times. I did not know at that time that what was going on with me. Now I have realized all that have been done was bad and I am about to marry as well very soon. I am very much worried. My health is good and periods are also normal. Every thing is perfectly alright. Please tell me what should I do now? Let me know any thing so that my husband will not know about what has happened with me. Thanks.



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soul Group: Members  Joined: 14th Jul, 2007  Topic: 2  Post: 13  Age:  35  
Posted on:16th Jul 2007, 11:40pm
 

I dont think so its a big problem, coz jaisa apne batya k ap us wakt 6th class main thi, its mean unmature thi, aur apke sath kabi b panetration nahi ki ho gi, so yew are safe,  Ap bas Khuda p BAroosa Rakhe, do offer prays , INSHA ALLAH sab theek hi ho ga.

illusionst Group: Members  Joined: 08th May, 2007  Topic: 1  Post: 3  Age:  29  
Posted on:16th Jul 2007, 6:18pm
 

agar Qari shab nay vagina say rap kiya tha tu...hymen repture ho giya ho ga..may be app ka future husband yeah swal poch laay..k hymen ka kiya howa.....
peace full Group: Members  Joined: 16th Jul, 2007  Topic: 30  Post: 436  Age:  28  
Posted on:16th Jul 2007, 6:28pm
 

dont worry

suno g ab qari ko itna to dil mein rehem hoga k ye 6th class ki student hai ager es ko vegina mien sex karoonga to shayad es ki life ko khatra ho so us ne aap ko vegina mein sex nahin kya hoga try to remember.us ne shayad messag ki hogi srif baki itni choti bachi se rape kare to aap k ghar walon ko bhi asani se pata lag jata. so dont worry us ne aap k hymen ko koi nuksaan nahin pohchaya hoga aur Allah us saza dega es kaam ki k wo qari hoker aisa ker raha tha . ager wo ab bhi hai to aap foran us ko joote lagwao kya pata wo abhi bhi doosri bachiyon se aisa ker raha ho.
Kali Zuban Group: Members  Joined: 19th Sep, 2010  Topic: 30  Post: 1790  Age:  33  
Posted on:16th Jul 2007, 7:28pm
 

re: sairahanif

kuch nahi hoga. ap purani bat bhool jai. aur aj ke bad is topic par kisi se bat bhi na kare.
umais Group: Members  Joined: 10th Nov, 2008  Topic: 20  Post: 218  Age:  29  
Posted on:13th Nov 2008, 4:27pm
 

toba

ap agar jhot bol rahi hain tu ye buhtu bura kam kar rahi hain....
gustakh Group: Members  Joined: 27th Oct, 2008  Topic: 8  Post: 168  Age:  34  
Posted on:14th Nov 2008, 5:08pm
 

qari

afsoos------

ke aise kameni log qari ban jate hen

gustakh Group: Members  Joined: 27th Oct, 2008  Topic: 8  Post: 168  Age:  34  
Posted on:14th Nov 2008, 5:09pm
 

correction

kamine
sunny007 Group: Members  Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007  Topic: 44  Post: 4204  Age:   
Posted on:14th Nov 2008, 6:24pm
 

gustakh

aise Qarion ki darjanon misale de sakta hoon main,

Masjid k andar b ye kameene ye kaam karte hain, aisi misal b de sakta hoon main,

ye society b in jese Qarion aur molvion se ganda ho gaia hai

rajmallik Group: Members  Joined: 04th Jun, 2008  Topic: 23  Post: 750  Age:  32  
Posted on:14th Nov 2008, 8:53pm
 

qari

lanat ho aisa qari per 6th mai parhti thi umer kia hogi tumhara oska raham na aya ..edit....slang words are not allowed......... aisa logo ko jahanum mai b jaga na mily plz mari galiya edit na karain bashak mujha .... kar dain qari touba


thorntorn1 Group: Members  Joined: 14th Nov, 2008  Topic: 0  Post: 1  Age:  43  
Posted on:14th Nov 2008, 11:26pm
 

oral sex

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Maria_z Group: Members  Joined: 07th Mar, 2007  Topic: 28  Post: 259  Age:  30  
Posted on:15th Nov 2008, 7:09am
 

saira hanif

saira hanif the thing which u r telling, happened with me when i was kid. don't worry and never share this story with anyone even ur best friend.

If he didnot penetrate from front side then ur hymen is safe.

Think, intercourse is another thing and mostly ppl who do this nasty thing with kids they don't panetrate in girls vagina. Mostly do from back side so sperm will not go in vagina thats  way u are safe (preg) since that time.

Its sex assult not raped .. rape means penetration in girls vagina.

myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 133  Post: 8429  Age:  59  
Posted on:15th Nov 2008, 9:06am
 

lahaul walaa quwwat....

1. awwal to yeh aik fake story lagti hai... mahaz qari aur molvi ko badnaam karnay ki gharz say...

2. agar yeah real story bhi hai to kia class 6 ki barah salah bachi.... etni bay.khabar hoti hai k koi bhi oskay saath kuch kartaa rahay aur woh kissi ko nah batayee... agar aisaa ho to laRki bhi yaqeenan qasoor.waar hogi

3. agar qari ghar pay aataa thaa to parents bhi barabar k zimmah.daar / qasoor waar haiN k aik 12 salaah bachi ko qari k hawalay karkay tanhaa choR diaa aur woh bhi mosalsal... aur agar masjid bheja to bhi ghalat kia k aisee jagah bhej dia jahaaN onki bachi ghair mahfooz ho

4. zeyadah imkaan yehi hai k story fake hai, soni sonayee hai (poster ki apni nahee hai)... yaa phir woh, oski family aur qari teenouN barabar k zimmah daar haiN

Allah maaf karay... aur sab ko aqlay saleem ataa karay... baqi above replies durust haiN jo story k real honay ki soorat maiN likhay gaye haiN....

zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13598  Age:  37  
Posted on:15th Nov 2008, 9:07am
 

tauba tauba

Allah muafi dey
Maria_z Group: Members  Joined: 07th Mar, 2007  Topic: 28  Post: 259  Age:  30  
Posted on:15th Nov 2008, 11:06pm
 

myrizvi: everything is possible

myrizvi aap lagte toa aqualmand he thai lakin es post ka baad aap ko bi bewaqoof he samajhwo gi.

ya story fake ni hai mere sath es sai bi kam umar mai esa howa tha aur es sai bare umar tak chala tha (but he was not molvi) lakin mujhe ni malom tha ka ya sub kia hai sirf inta jante the ka sub gunda kaam hai

and one of my friend told me about her cozn .. her issue was same as saira's problem.

abh koi es story ko such manaye ya na manyae i belive ka larka kisi bi umar ki bachi sai kuch bi ker sakte hai

sunny007 Group: Members  Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007  Topic: 44  Post: 4204  Age:   
Posted on:15th Nov 2008, 12:16pm
 

myrizvi

ji nahi ye story qari aur molvi ko badname karne k lie nahi post ki hai, ab ye to nahi maloom k ye story fake hai, lekin itna maloom hai k qari aur molvi kameene ho sakte hain, aise darjanon misale main pesh kar sakta hoon, aur 2, 3 jaghon par main ne aise bachion ko deka hai jin ko bachpan main ye kaam karwaie jaate hain, aur jab wo bahchian buzargon ki nazar se bach kar bari ho jaati hai to wo in kaamon main itni aage jati hain k wo khood larkon ko apne ghar bulati hain aur ..................................,

jo waqiat main ne deke hain ya sune hain, un ko mud-e-nazar rakhte hoie main es story ko fake nahi keh sakta

myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 133  Post: 8429  Age:  59  
Posted on:16th Nov 2008, 4:37am
 

Maria_z & sunny007

 main yeh nahi kahtaa k society maiN iss qism k haadsaat nahi hotay... dunyaa bhar ki society maiN hotay haiN... azal say hotay rahay haiN... muslim society maiN bhi hotay haiN.. aur hindu, christians k pandit o father ki tarah baaz bad character molvi allama, qari o zakir bhi aisee ghanowni harkat maiN molawwas hotay haiN....

lekin aik baat wazah rahay k all such cases (kamsin girl's rape) maiN mulzim k saath saath oss laRki k parents bhi barabar k 'zimmah.daar' hotay hain aur agar laRki 10 saal say baRi ho to (art least more than one time cases) maiN woh bhi 'hissah daar hoti hai k oss nay parents ko kiouN nahi batlayaa... hadsaa to aik do yaa chand baar hota hai ... maaN baap nay apni kamsin bachi ko naa.mahram mard (khaah molvi ho yaa allamaa yaa pindat yaa father) k saath aakhir chora hi kiyouN aur woh bhi mosalsal ... beghair kissi supervision k ... kahtay haiN k chor ko maarnay say pahlay chor ki maaN ko maaro k maaN ki tarbiat maiN kami ki wajah hi say koi chor bantaa hai...

Allah maaf karay... agar poster k saath yeh zulm howaa hai to Allah oskay saath insaaf karay aur zaani ko sazaa day... magar poster ko apnay aap say yeh zaroor poochna chahiyeh k oskay saath iss zulm ki wajoohaat maiN oskay ghar ka mahul aur oskay parents "khataa" ketni hai... coz issay bhi mother banna hai.. apnay kidz ki parwarish karna hai... agar iss nay apnay saath honay walay zulm k real causes ko nah samjhaa to (meray mouNh maiN khaak) tareekh apnay aap ko dohra bhi sakti hai...

in discussion ka aik maqsad yeh bhi hai k probs k real cause ko identify kia jaye aur ayandah onsay bachnay ka ihtemaam kia jaye... Allah hum sab ko deen par chalnay ki taufeeq day aameen...

Maria_z Group: Members  Joined: 07th Mar, 2007  Topic: 28  Post: 259  Age:  30  
Posted on:16th Nov 2008, 10:31am
 

myrizvi

ya baat aap na bahat asani sai kah li hai ka bachi na maa baap ko kyon ni batiya .. kia baatyae woai jub ka woai khud bi theek sai na jante ho ka ya sub kia hai.

awal toa es kisam ka loog dara dayite hai ka batawo gi toa tumhe dant perhe gi mar perhe gi.

take my example, i never tell my parents and same thing happened with me many times. I just know its a nasty act. He was not my qari but they were my close relatives and when young boys offer gift like chocolateor whatever then what is the mistake of little girl, who get sex edu in 19 years of age and raped when she was 4-11.

mujhe aaj bi es baat ki samajh ni atyi ka kis tarah ya baat kahi ja sakte hai ya kis tara baat batana choro ki ja sakte hai, in my case meri maa la parwa ni hai albat baz oquat insan ko dekh ker bi eyes band rakhne perhte hai sirf apna ghar bachana ka laye (mere baatye sirf wohi samajh sakta hai jis per guzari hai)

umais Group: Members  Joined: 10th Nov, 2008  Topic: 20  Post: 218  Age:  29  
Posted on:17th Nov 2008, 3:24pm
 

qari sahab

larkio ki tu bar chore app aj kal k qari sahab bechare larko ko bhi nahi chorte hain. mene buhut se aese cases dekhe hain. asal me hamare degaar ulama hazrat kehte hain k wo bhi bechare kia kar sakte hain. hamari govt ne un k liye kuch kia hi nahi hai. mahino tak wo apne gharo ko nahi jaty or salary bhi buhut kam milti hai. is waja se ye harkat kar bethte hain.

meri tamam hazrat se request hai k apni larkion ko kisi aadmi se na parhwaen. bas Allah rehem kare hamare halon per.

System Group: Members  Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008  Topic: 40  Post: 2284  Age:  37  
Posted on:17th Nov 2008, 3:52pm
 

umais

ok now this is a good reply....
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