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Sexual Desire: How Can I Fulfill My Sexual Desire?

Married Women Problem   >>  Sex Relationship
mezaraji. Group: Members  Joined: 12th Mar, 2008  Topic: 12  Post: 20  Age:  33  
Posted on:28th Apr 2008, 9:14pm
 

Sexual Desire: How Can I Fulfill My Sexual Desire?

Hi

Every body i wanna discuss somthing that i am married my husband live abroad he went abroad after three months of our marriage now he's there for 1 year and i miss him and i feel too much that i want sex but then to relax my self i mustarbate but i can't survive like this.

Pls sugesst me some ways of masturbation through which i can satisfy myself.

PLS PLS Help me PLS.

Thanx

Sooth Group: Members  Joined: 18th Jul, 2007  Topic: 303  Post: 1937  Age:   
Posted on:28th Apr 2008, 9:34pm
 

well everyone will have his/her own opinion in this regard

but i'll say that its bad habbit so its better u leave it.thnx

Aag Group: Moderators  Joined: 21st Nov, 2007  Topic: 22  Post: 1130  Age:  35  
Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 4:19am
 

mezaraji

Masturbation is not good, its a bad habbit. But i understand your feelings. ITs very hard to stay alone just after 3rd month of marriage. Well i advice u to pray ALLAH and ask ALLAH to give saber to you. May ALLAH bless you and give u a right way and give ur husband right way.

I think its better to move further u can do masturbation. Please dont do illegal sex cause its haram. It better to do masturbation.

nadeem AOL Group: Members  Joined: 26th Nov, 2007  Topic: 8  Post: 265  Age:  31  
Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 6:06am
 

Zara !

Its difficult to survive without masturbation being a single and we can justify it atleast. But you are married and even after being married you have to masturbate then its totally bad and does not make sense to do this act after marriage. If people have to masturbate after marriage then why should i get married, for example.

You must discuss this very important issue with your husband in strong words, whatever pretext or geniun reason he has to tell you even then your masturbation or (May ALLAH protect you) leading toward adultry are the most serious issues to resolve. You can ask him to call you over there where he lives or whatever but please don't let yourself be induldged in masturbation which atleast doesn't suit married people. InshAllah you will come across a better solution after discussion with your husband.

Cheers.


Seemi Group: Members  Joined: 11th Sep, 2007  Topic: 14  Post: 3817  Age:  28  
Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 6:30am
 

Nadeem Bhai... Zara

Nadeem bhai, aap kaisi baat kar rahay hien. Aap abhi unmarried hien, is waja se aap yeh sab itnay araam se keh rahay hien. Abhi tak Hamari society mein aik larki ke liye itna asaan nahin hai k woh apnay husband ko is tarah sex k baray mein bol sakay. Hamari societyk larkay kitnay bhi advace ho jaayein, but biwi k moun se sex ka word sun kar us per shak karna shoroo kar detay hien. or agar saad nandoon ko is baat ka kisi tarah pata chal jaye tu larki ka jeena azaab ho jata hai...

Zara! I understand your feelings. Aap atleast apnay husband ko yeh kaho k aap un ko bohat miss karti ho, woh aap ko apnay pass bula lein. After marriage, without sex rehna kaafi mushkil hai. Jab larkay apni biwi k periods k 4 ya 5 din tak bhi wait nahin kar atay tu aap tu aik saal se wait kar rahi ho. Mein sirf yehi kahoongi k illegal sex ka kabhi mat sochna.. Aap koshish kar k apnay opper control karo, rozay rakho or phir bhi agar control na ho paye tu masturbation is much better than illegal sex...

BeautyStar Group: Members  Joined: 16th May, 2007  Topic: 52  Post: 3586  Age:  27  
Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 11:36pm
 

Dear Sister Me-ZARA-Jee

Buhat hi complicated situation hai app ki k Shadi k sirf 3 months baad hi app k husband app ko chordh kar aborad chaley gaey hain... I can understand your intensity of Sexual Desires... Aaisey surat ma buhat hi mushkil hai apne app ko control karna... Islamic Point of view se 4 months ma eak bar husband aur wife ko zaroor milna chahiyah.. Unless k wife uss ko maaf kardey.. Otherwise yah Husband & Wife ka eak dosre per haq hai.

Aaisey surat ma app ne apne app ko 1 saal tak Illegal-Acitivities se bachaey rakha yahi buhat bardey baat hai... ALLAH bhi gafoor-ur-raheem hai.. app ko woh Masturbation k sin se maaf kardey ga (Ameen).

Abb aaise surat ma app k pass 3 raaste hain:
  1. Rozana Roza rakhein
  2. Sexual-Desires peak per hoon tou Masturbation kar lein takh Illegal-Activities ki taraf dheehaan bhi na jaey
  3. Apne Husband ko yahan bula lein ya phir khudh wahan chaley jaein
App apne Husband ko yah tou nahi kah sakte hain k you need Sex being a Pakistani Girl.. But app k Husband ko bhi yah baat samajhne chahiyah k Hunger , Thrist , etc ki tarah Sex bhi basic need of life hai.. App indirectly iss tarha apni khuwaish zzzahir kar sakte hain:
  • Mujhey app ki buhat yaad aate hai
  • Mujhey raat bhar neendh nahi aate hai
  • Mujhey app k pyar ki zaroorat hai
  • Maiyn app k bina abb aur nahi reh sakte hoon
  • Maiyn din raat app k pyar k liyah taraste rehte hoon
  • etc etc
Shayad un sab batoon ko woh understand kar sakein aur app ki need ko samajh sakein... ALLAH app donon ko hamesha eak dosre k saath rakhey (Ameen)

BeautyStar Group: Members  Joined: 16th May, 2007  Topic: 52  Post: 3586  Age:  27  
Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 11:49pm
 

Re: Nadeem AOL

Its difficult to survive without masturbation being a single and we can justify it atleast.

It is much more difficult to survive without masturbation being a Married and to live apart from 3rd months of marriage.

One shoud understand the basic needs of life :
  • Oxygen
  • Food & Water
  • Sex
  • Security
  • Etc....
It's hardest to live for being a newly married person to live without having sex for a year.

BeautyStar Group: Members  Joined: 16th May, 2007  Topic: 52  Post: 3586  Age:  27  
Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 11:51pm
 

Re: Seemi

I agree with you... Being a married female.. you can better understand her situation so gives her more suggestions, It would be beneficial & fruitful for Zara-Ji... Thanks!
z4u Group: Members  Joined: 23rd Mar, 2008  Topic: 13  Post: 199  Age:  34  
Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 12:09pm
 

husband problem

shayad aapke hasband ko aisee feelings naa hoti ho...aur woh sex ke mamle main itne strong na hon...jitni aap hain..
pappumelon Group: Members  Joined: 22nd Apr, 2008  Topic: 2  Post: 31  Age:  33  
Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 1:29pm
 

Difficult Situation

I agree with seemi bibi that being a female she knows better, we male cant feel what is the situation with me-zarz-ji. lakin aik baat hay allah nay aurat ko saabar himatwala, or sharmo haya ka paekar create kya hay, female can control themselves well than males. tu mezaraji sabar or sabar ka fruit mitha and time will prove it u! GOD BLESS YOU!
nadeem AOL Group: Members  Joined: 26th Nov, 2007  Topic: 8  Post: 265  Age:  31  
Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 6:47pm
 

Beauty Star !

My point to say that, was just to tell her that

If even being married you have to masturbate then what's the purpose of marriage. I insisted her to talk to her husband regarding this issue because being married it's harder to control herself than an unmarried person, i understand that.

Seemi told that if a woman tells her husband her desire of sex then what happens......its just surprising because if a wife can't talk to her husband regarding her sex desire openly then who else is there to talk about her desire.

There are many cases in our society and even i have seen some that married girls are having boyfriends in the absense of their husbands when they go abroad. Its a must happening because if we can't keep our legal relationship alive then illegal relationship would not take time to get started.

Cheers.
Seemi Group: Members  Joined: 11th Sep, 2007  Topic: 14  Post: 3817  Age:  28  
Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 7:49pm
 

Nadeem bhai... Zara

Nadeem bhai, in some aspects, you are right. Sex desire leads a persons towrds illegal sex. or aap ki yeh baat sahih hai k jab husband abroad chala jaye tu aik married larki k liye akelay rehna mushkil ho jata hai or woh illegal sex ki taraf mayil ho jati hai, boyfriend bana leti hai. Mein kod is baat ki witness hoon k Karachi mein hamaray neighbours mein aik lady rehti thi jin k husband 5 saal se Dubai mein thay or aik dafa bhi wapas nahin aaye thay, jab ke un khatoon ki aik 2 saal kiaiti bhi thi.

Yeh sab baat apni jaga er hai, lekin jaisa k Zara ne bataya k n k husband sirf 3 mahenay baad hi chalay gaye thay, tu mera nahin khayal k in ka relation 3 months mein itna strong develop ho gaya ho ga k yeh apni sex desire k baray mein openly baat kar sakein. Larkay khod jo marzi kartay rahein, lekin biwi un ko farishta chahiye hoti hai. Larki ki yehi tu pareshani hoti hai k aaz dafa woh apni pareshani kisi se discuss bhi nahin kar sakti,na apnay maan baap or behnon se or na hi husband or susraal waloon se.

Lekin hamein Zara k husband ka bhi sochna chhaiye k kis majboori ki waja se woh unhein wahan nain bula pa rahay. Lets assume, woh bhi tu aik saal se without sex reh rahay hoon ge. Agar un ki financial conditions abhi biwi ko wahan bulanay ki ijazat nahin deti tu woh bhi masturbate se hi kaam chalatay hoon ge. Tu yehi baat aik mard k liye tu theek hia lekin aik aurat k liye forbidden, yeh kya baat hoi? Simple baat yehi hai k illegal sex se behtar hai k masturbate pe guzara kiya jaye.

@Zara, beauty Star bhai ne bohat acha reply diya hi, aap us ko follow karnay ki koshish karo.

mezaraji. Group: Members  Joined: 12th Mar, 2008  Topic: 12  Post: 20  Age:  33  
Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 8:58pm
 

Thanx but i need more help

Hi

every body thanx for ur comments.

The thing is that my husband has filed my imigration case but it will take some time out of which 1 year has passes and we r hoping to get imigration soon.INSHALLAH

And ALLAH maaf kare i'm not saying that i wanna do Illegal sex,TAUBA TAUBA.

But i'm saying that to satisfy i mastarbate,so tell me any usefull ways of mastarbation through which i can satisfy myself.

How to mastarbate to enjoy and satisfy fully PLS tell me.

By the way thanx to all of u.

Thanx

zara

Seemi Group: Members  Joined: 11th Sep, 2007  Topic: 14  Post: 3817  Age:  28  
Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 9:29pm
 

Zara

Its good to hear, your immigration case has been filed and you would be with your husband soon. At this stage, aap ko yehi mashwaa doon gi k jahan itna sabar kiya hia, wahan thora sabar or sahih. manzil bohat qaeeb hai. :) I can't help you how to masturbate as I have never done it, but books available on Noorclinic website would be helpful to you. Or some expert memebers can suggest you better who are better aware of atonomy of male/female body. Only susggestion from myside would be to  rub clotiris and get satisfaction instead of inseting something into vagina. Read availabl books on site.
goodman Group: Members  Joined: 11th Oct, 2007  Topic: 62  Post: 7599  Age:  33  
Posted on:30th Apr 2008, 4:29am
 

Tooba tooba keray

zara jee app bawazoo raha karay aur TOOBA TOOBA kiya karay Allah say app inshallah theek hoo gain gee.
nadeem AOL Group: Members  Joined: 26th Nov, 2007  Topic: 8  Post: 265  Age:  31  
Posted on:30th Apr 2008, 6:21am
 

Zara !

Good luck for early immigration to abroad. Regarding masturbation i think you should read books available on this website.

Cheers.
aamer1978 Group: Members  Joined: 13th Apr, 2008  Topic: 0  Post: 5  Age:  36  
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Posted on:30th Apr 2008, 2:59pm
 

frequently

ye to buhat mushkil kaam hy k shadi k 3 month k baad husband k baghair rehna.masterbetion kooi achi cheez nahi es sy sehat khrab hoti hy.Allah sy dua karain to sabar a jaye ga.agar munasib samjhain to es number par mujh sy baat kar sakti hain. ...edit phone number ....

me waiting

Moderator Note: Blocked due to posting of phone number




My Reply Group: Members  Joined: 19th Sep, 2010  Topic: 2  Post: 2318  Age:  46  
Posted on:30th Apr 2008, 3:13pm
 

re: female masturbation

medical point of view se husband ki ghair mojoodgi mai masturbation kerni chahiye. is se na sirf frustration mai kami aaye gi balkeh illegal sex ke bhi chances nahi rahe ge. masturbation se kisi qisim ke jismani aur jinsi nuqsan ka bhi andeesha nahi hai.

lekin afsos keh ham log yaha per masturbation ka koi proper tareeqa nahi bata sakte, hamare forum ke members ose aik bahut bara issu bana de ge.
imperial Group: Members  Joined: 26th May, 2007  Topic: 2  Post: 62  Age:  40  
Posted on:30th Apr 2008, 10:59pm
 

Try this Zara

go to google.com...

and type how to masterbate as a female ....

and u will get too many links...

BeautyStar Group: Members  Joined: 16th May, 2007  Topic: 52  Post: 3586  Age:  27  
Posted on:1st May 2008, 1:03am
 

Nadeem AOL

ok Brother , I got your point... You were saying right that... what's the purpose of marriage....If you still need to masturbate...!

I strongly agree with you... If both the partner cannot fulfill the needs of each other.. then there is no purpose of marriage... and I strongly disrecommned this sort of marriage.... It's better to sit being un-married... rather than living like a dead body... What do you say brother...???
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