Where are modurators... please edit the post firewater!!!!
Sorry firewater.... but let me tel you one thing brother.... two wrongs do not make a right and you are telling him to do 5 wrongs..... please be serious...
and for tariq sab!!!
1. Keep away from the things that make it easy for you to fall into this sin and remind you of it, such as: Porn, Movies or Being alone with any man or woman.
2. Always keeping yourself busy with things that will benefit you in your religious or worldly affairs, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“So when you have finished (your occupation), devote yourself for Allaah’s worship”[al-Sharh 94:7]
3.Compare the pleasure you feel when committing this sin with the regret, anxiety and confusion that follow it and stay with you for a long time, and then the torment that awaits the one who does that in the Hereafter. Do you think that any wise man would give precedence to this pleasure which vanishes after an hour over the regret and torment that follow?
4.The wise man does not give up a thing that he loves except for something that he loves more, or for fear of something he dislikes. This evil action will cause you to lose the blessings of this world and the Hereafter, to lose ALLAH’s love for you, and will incur the anger, wrath and punishment of ALLAH.
5. More important than all of the above is making du’aa’ and seeking the help of ALLAH to ward off this evil from you. Make the most of the times and situations in which prayers are answered, such as sujood (prostration), before the tasleem at the end of prayer, the last third of the night, when it is raining, when travelling, when fasting, and when breaking the fast.
Ref:islamawareness . net