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| Dr Rizwan |
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| Posted on:26th Feb 2007, 5:44pm |
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 Islam and Marriage
Islam aik mard ko 4 shaadi tak ki ijazat deta hai jabkeh yeh ijazat aurat ko nahi. iss ki kia logic hai?
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| Hot Fun |
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| Posted on:26th Feb 2007, 9:14pm |
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Multiple marriage 1. Who is father of the coming child?
2. All 4 husbands will qurell each other........ meri waari hay. |
| Dr Rizwan |
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| Posted on:26th Feb 2007, 10:38pm |
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But why 4 But why 4. why not 5 or more. Also why not only one like women.
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| khansaab |
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| Posted on:27th Feb 2007, 8:00pm |
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Serious Reply! The permission of four wives is given to all muslims by the Great Prophet Hazrat Muhammad (Salalla-ho-Alihe Wasallam).Being a Muslim this argument can't be challenged.
Now i'll come towards the logic of permission for four wives in Islam.
1) Generally the growth ratio of male and female children is same.But due to some reasons (Low immunity,Accidents,Diseases) the death ratio of Males is very high.So the existing mass of women is always greater than the men.In this way if the man is just restricted to only one women then the remainig women find difficulty to mary.
2) In case of multiple wives (1-4)(WE ASSUME) if one has pregnancy,the other is having menses and the other one gets tired the husband still has a wife for his care.In this way the man is saved from illegal relationship.(Summerized from a Hadis)
3) If women would allowed for multiple marriage,how could she say that who is the father of this child??
4) If man marreys more than 1 women he gives them separate rights.In order to fulfil the sexual desire of one the other women need to stay.In case of multiple husbands how this thing can be managed?? (Because men lacks the patience like women)
So these all the reasons! |
| Mehmood |
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| Posted on:27th Feb 2007, 8:35pm |
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Your opinion? waiting for Dr. Rizwan's personal opinion.... what he thinks about it.... !!! |
| Dr Rizwan |
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| Posted on:28th Feb 2007, 12:21am |
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re: Your opinion?
Agree with khansaab with all 4 points
I think the main logic behind it is Islam knows that number of men will alway be less than the number of women due to war and other reasons. So if it is restricted to have onle one wife then there should be problems with remaining women. Like this if women have more than one husband then the condition will be more worse.
The same situation is with the people of our country too. Men are less than women; that's why a large number of women have no husband. In this situation what will you advise to men and women of our country.
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| faisee |
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| Posted on:28th Feb 2007, 2:57pm |
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Multiple marriages of a woman Main nai kaheen yeh parha ya suna tha kai HAZRAT IMAM ABU HANIFA ka actual name kuch aur hai ( Nauman bhin saqib I remember), but he is famous with the name of her daughter. Yeh kaisay hua, is kai background main aik waqiah hai. Us waqiah ki kuch tafseel yun hai(as I remember): aik dafa kuch khawateen Imam sahib kai paas aeen aur poocha kai mardon ki tarah aurton ko 4 shadion ki ijazat kion nahin? Unhon nai kaha kai main baad main jawab doon ga, aur ghar tashreef lai aye aur apni beti sai is ka zikar kia jis ka name Hanifa tha. She said kai i can reply this. aur us nai aurton ko bulaya aur un sai kaha kai woh apnay apnay ghar sai doodh ka aik glass lai kar ayen, woh jab doodh lai kar ayeen tu sab ko kaha kai apnay doodh ko aik piyalay main daltee jayen, jab sab nai aik hi piyalay main doodh daal dia tu phir She said kai ab apna apna doodh alag kar kai nikal lain. Woh aurtain boleen kai yeh kaisay possible hai? Bibi Hanifa replied kai jis tarah tum log apna apna doodh alag nahin kar sakteen, isi tarah agar multiple husbands hon gai tu apni aulad ko kis tarah pehchano gi kai yeh kis ki aulad hai? Hazrat Imam Abu Hanifa ko yeh jawab ka andaz itna pasand aya kai unhon nai hamesha isi "KUNIAT" ko use karna shuru kar dia aur Imam Abu Hanifa (Hanifa ka baap) sai famous hue ( yeh incident meri memory kai hawalay sai hai, may be I have done any mistake, but mafhoom yahi hai). May Allah forgive us for any mistakes.ameen |
| Dr Rizwan |
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| Posted on:1st Mar 2007, 3:32pm |
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re: faisee Yes! it is clear that why women are not allowe multiple husband at a time.
Now why men are restricted up to 4 at a time. why not restricted 3 or 2 or 1?
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| khansaab |
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| Posted on:1st Mar 2007, 4:42pm |
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Restriction to 4 only! I also given the answer of this question (point 2) of my post.However I Repeat;
(According to a Hadis) When one wife is pregnent,The other is having her menstruation period,3rd one is ill or not available for every reason the man could has one wife for his care and his any desire.
Now this is the answer of permission of four wives.Now a question arises that if fourth wife becomes ill too or is not available? The answer of this question is that for any day among four of them at least one wife will be available for man for his care and sexual desire.
(Wallah Subhana wa Ta'ala Alamo) |
| Riasat Ali |
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| Posted on:4th Mar 2007, 10:30am |
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ISLAM & 4-MARRIAGE
Islam mein 4-shadion the ijazat es lay ha ta k aurat to tahfaz dey jay, aurat ko 4-shahion ke ijazat es lay nahi kun k islam byhaye ko rokta or neki ko pehlata. Agar aurat ko 4-shadion ke ijazet hoti tu es tara buri ziada phelnay k chances thy. Murd ka kam mahnat karna or ghar ko chalana ha aik murd 4-aurton ko khala skta ha jub k aurat k lay ye mushkal ha. Islam ju k aik mukamal zabata hayat ha hum ko naki phlanay or buri ko roknay ke dawat deta ha agar aik aurat ko 4-murd say shadi the ijazat hoti tu es say mashray ka tawazan begar jata. At last islam mein surf murd ko es laya ijazat ha k wo ghar ka kafeel hota ha wo mushkal kam kar sakta jub k aurat in chezon ko bardasht nahi kar skati. Muhammed (PBUH) K dour main buht se aurtain b sahra ho jati the jung k dino mein ye kesi or waja say tu es lay b aurat ko protection deny k lay murd ko ijazat the k aik time mein 4-bivian rakh skta ha. Akar kar masharay k tawzan ko barqrar rakhnay k lay murd 4-shadian kar skata ha jub k aurat nahi.
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