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Divorce Due To 2nd Marriage Of Husband: Is It A Right Decision

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Bewaqoof Group: Members  Joined: 19th Sep, 2010  Topic: 264  Post: 4717  Age:  42  
Posted on:27th Dec 2007, 1:20am
 

Divorce Due To 2nd Marriage Of Husband: Is It A Right Decision

hamare forum ki aik member reeba ki dukh bhari kahani --

mera tamam membran se request hai keh thande dil se ghair jazbati ho kar jawab de keh reeba ka yeh faisla sahi hai ya nahi.

aurat ke andar yeh khoobi hai keh woh shohar ke beghair barso zindagi guzar deti hai, jaisa keh pakistan ki lakho aurta jin ke husband barso se mulk se bahir ya city se bahir hai, kuch log sal mai aik mahina ke liye, kuch do sal mai aur kuch tu 5 sal se bhi oopar ho gaye hai lekin ghar nahi aaye.

lekin reeba alaihda hone ka soch rahi hai. mera zati khial hai keh areeba apne shohar ke beghair bhi zindagi guzar sakti hai, lekin woh iss liye alaihda hona chahti hai keh on ke shohar ki doosri bivi on se bardasht nahi ho rahi hai. aur woh apne husband ko share nahi kar pa rahi hai. doosri taraf os ka shohar bhi areeba ke saath insaaf nahi kar paraha hai.

mera tu zati khial hai keh agar tu areeba ko koi aur munasib shohar mil jaye jo ke namumkin tu nahi lekin kuch mushkil zaroor hai, tab tu alaihdgi ka faida hai. warna mera zati khial hai keh woh shohar ke beghair zaroor zindagi guzar de lekin divorce na le.

agar bap ma alag alag ghar mai rah rahe ho tu yeh bachcho par otna bura asar nahi karta jetna ke divorce lene ke baad ho ta hai. aur agar ma doosri shaadi kar le tu bachche ka tu bera hi gharq ho jaata hai.

lehaza mera zati khial hai keh reeba apne shohar ki ziadti par sabar kar le, aur tasawar kar le ke os ka shohar ghar se door hai jo kai barso ke baad aaye ga. iss tarah bacho ko nafsiati jhatka nahi lage ga keh os ke ma bap divorced hai.

divorce na hone ki soorat mai, mai yaqeen se kahta hoon keh 5-10 years ke baad sab aik ho jaate hai aur sab aik doosre ko maaf bhi kar dete hai. aisi soorat mai bachcho ko ma aur baap dono ka piar milta hai, warna abhi ma baap dono ki khahish ho gi keh bachche onhai favour kare jab keh mera zati mashwarah hai keh bachcho ke dil mai ma aur bap dono ki mohabbat rahni chahiye.

mera post lamba ho gia, lekin kia karoo, mujhe aisa lag raha hai keh yeh aik emergency masla hai jis par jald se jald discussion honi chahiye.




pinky7861 Group: Members  Joined: 06th Oct, 2007  Topic: 44  Post: 1348  Age:   
Posted on:27th Dec 2007, 4:36am
 

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   Main sirf aik baat kahna chahti hoon kay allah nay jahan alahdgi ki ijazat di hay wahan saber ka hukam bhi dia hay.  Ab ager bacchay houn tu alahdagi say itnay maslay paida ho jatay hain kay yahan sab ko shumaar bhi nahi kia ja sakta. 

     Iss soortahaal main ager khudanhasta main hooti tu main saber ker laiti.  Kayounkay kabhi na kabhi tu husband wapis aa hi jay ga aur phir say bachay apnay walid ko paa lain gay lakin talaaq ki soorat main un ka koi mustaqbil nahi ho ga.  aur loag itna zaleel kertay hain asi soorat main kay bas. 

      Jab ham apni problem main phans ker bachoun ko bhoal jatay hain tu phir un ki sari zindgi herab ho jati hay.  Iss lliay main tu yahi kahti hoon kay bayshak reeba alahda ho jay lakin divorce na lay.

BeautyStar Group: Members  Joined: 16th May, 2007  Topic: 52  Post: 3584  Age:  30  
Posted on:27th Dec 2007, 9:34am
 

Re: Bewaqoof (Reeba)

As'salam - O - Aluikum,

Reeba Sister app yah qadam uthaney se pehley 2/3 Divorced Woman ko dekhlein kiya woh khush hain Divorce laey kar ...... Maine ajj tak kisi Divorced-Woman ko khush nahi dekha woh uper se tou hans letey hain lekin andar se kurtey rahtey hain.... Maiyn app ko yahi kahoon ga jo Bewaqoof or PInky7861 ne kaha hai kah Talaaq mat lein ... kyun kah Talaq na honey ki suroorat ma koi umeed tou hai lekn Talaq leney ka baad tou sarey ummedein hi mar mith jaein gee ....

Ajj na sahi ho saktah kuch saal baad app sab mil jul kar rehney lagein gee (InshaALLAH) app bhi compromise karein thoradh dosrey wali bhi compromise karley gee ..... Divorce tou ALLAH k nazdeeq bhi eak na pasandedah faael hai .... Divorce buhat hi extreme situation ma hi lena chahiyah .... app ki situation extreme nahi hai .... App ko mai bhi yahi kahoon ga kah Divorce mat lein or eak dafah 2/3 Khatoon jin ki Divorce ho chukey hai un se milein app khudh hi phir faislah karlein gee kah kiya app sahi kar rahein hain ya ghalat ???

Abhi tou app ko rishtadar or Baqi loog support kar rahein hoonge ... Lekin 1 years baad app ko koi nahi poochey ga phir app kiya karein gee ??? Saach tou yah hai kah Parents k ilawah ajj kal k dour ma koi Saacha nahi hai .... App apna decision leney se pehley yah sab sooch samajh lein aur eak nazar in bachoon per zaroor dal lein jo Baap se mehroom ho jaein gae ....

ALLAH app k liyah behtar rah daey dey AMEEN

Take care,
ALLAH Hafiz
Seemi Group: Members  Joined: 11th Sep, 2007  Topic: 14  Post: 3812  Age:  31  
Posted on:17th May 2008, 12:39am
 

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Bewaqoof bhai, bohat acha issue raise kiya hia aap ne... it should be discussed.
Divorce aik napasandeeda amal hai... ALLAH k NABI HAZRAT MOHAMMAD SAW ne aik muslaman mard ko 4 shadion ki ijazat di hia. Is se yehi zahir hota hai k agar aik mard apni biwion mein insaaf qayim rakh sakta hai tu biwi ko bhi apnay husband ke is decision ko accept karna chahiye.
Tamam members Islamic point of view se is maslay per roshni daalein.
josh Group: Members  Joined: 30th Jul, 2007  Topic: 47  Post: 2282  Age:  40  
Posted on:17th May 2008, 6:07am
 

divorce due to 2nd marriage..

in my opinion

suggestion for husbands:
second marriage ki agar koi valid reason hai to 2nd marriage say pehlay apni first wife say baat kar lena behtar hai, aur husband ko chahiye k wo bv ko waja bataye k wo dosri shadi kyon karna chahta hai... Ya convince kar lay ya phir convice ho jaey,, ziada tar pakistani khavateen husband ki dosri shadi ki waja say hurt ho jatin hain,, to kisi ko hurt kar k shadi karnay say wo khushi nai mil sakti jo kisi ko raazi kar k convince kar k shadi karnay ya na karnay say mil sakti hai..

suggestion for wives:
agar husband chori chhupay shadi kar lay, to maar dhaar aur laraee jhagra karnay say behtar hai k us rishtay ko accept kar lia jaey... apkay laraee karnay say husband ko jo thora bohat ehsas hoga k mainay pehli bv k sath galat kia, wo ehsas aur hamdardi khatam ho sakti hai aur wo ye sochay ga k acha kia ye bv to museebat hi hai, naee wali ziada achi hai.... aur apki value ahista ahista kam hoti jaeygi...

sirf is waja say divorce lena k husband nay dosri shadi kar li hai, meri nazar mai ye ghalat faisla hoga....

baki i agree with other members who has already replied on this topic.

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