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| who |
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Joined: 30th Nov, 2007
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Age: 20
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| Posted on:29th Jan 2008, 2:11pm |
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 Back After A Long Time...
Assalam-o-Alaikum,
I hope all of you are fine... I am sorry i've been busy in my personal life so i couldn't give time to this cool forum... Which i always like to be a part of...
Right now i have a question... When all the Muslim females are asked for Hijaab and all the Muslim males are asked not to look at the females... With a strong concept of Mahram and Na-Mahram. How come a girl will choose his life partner if she won't see her and usually the males are more concerned about the beauty and sexual appeal of a woman. How they will choose their life partner? Isn't it unjustice that you marry an unseen person... even if you see him/her you are not specifically sure that what kind sexual appeal he/she has. Looking at the face only is not enough i guess. Waiting for Response.
Take really good care of yourselves, have a very nice time, Allah hafiz.
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| Bewaqoof |
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| Posted on:29th Jan 2008, 2:42pm |
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re: shaadi se qabal larki ko dekhna shaadi se qabal larki ko dekhne ki ijazat hai. larka rishta tai hone se qabal larki ko dekh sakta hai. pasand na aane per rishte se inkar ker sakta hai. |
| nadeem AOL |
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Age: 27
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| Posted on:29th Jan 2008, 3:06pm |
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 Salam Who !
Welcome back lady, hope you are doing well too !!
In Islam you have been given the chance to see your life partner before marriage in the presence of a Mahram of both (boy & girl) and a cross questions and answers session could be held to get to know each other well. Regading face and shape of other parts of body i think a little glance could solve your this problem. Prophet (PBUH) said that "there must one thing appealing in your life partner", be it his/her face or anything else to help you to get and remain attracted towards him/her.
Unfortunately, we could not develop such maturity and character in our young generation to get involved in these good and easy ways to select our life partner of our own choice. Being a father or mother of a daughter first thing which would come in to our mind is the "Character of the boy (espacially)" who is going to see our daughter. We would not feel comfortable to let this young boy to see our daughter even in the presence of a Mahram. So, Characters are needed to be built.
Secondly, parents are the best judges of our choices and needs as they know ur from the time when we were able to do nothing and were just senseless BUT in elderly age of a boy or girl there may be some misunderstandings between parents and children which may be get cleared through proper communication. Otherwise, Fortune is there to be relied on.
Regards. |
| BeautyStar |
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Topic: 68
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| Posted on:29th Jan 2008, 4:09pm |
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 I agreed to Nadeem AOL
You replied it beautifully brother , I really like your post .
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| BeautyStar |
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| Posted on:29th Jan 2008, 4:11pm |
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 WHO
As'salam - O - Aluikum ,
Welcome Back Who , We all are fine here and hope the same for you.
Take care,
ALLAH Hafiz.
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| zeb |
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| Posted on:30th Jan 2008, 12:43pm |
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:-) WELCOME BACK :-) |
| josh |
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| Posted on:30th Jan 2008, 2:08pm |
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pasand ki larki say shadi karna! asalamoalaikum!
welcome back who. khushi hui apko dubara forum par dekh kar. aapnay bohat acha question kia hai. ye mere zehan mai bi confusion hai k pasand ki shadi kaisay ho sakti hai, jabkay larki ko dekhna aur bat karna mana hai..
Bewakoof: agar larki pasand na anay par larka usay reject kar deta hai to wo larki hurt nai hogi ? aur shaed complex ka shikar bi ho jaey..
nadeem: first paragraph mai jo bataya hai k larki dekhna , cross questioning , agar ye wakaee sach hai to muje iska nai pata tha,, ,, muje yehi pata hai k hindu is bat par amal kartay hain, aur larkay larki ki mulakaat bi hoti hai , thori bohat baat bi hoti hai, balkay tanhaee mai bat karnay ka moka bi dia jata hai, ta k thora bohat aik dosray k khayalat jaan sakain...
I am still confused, islam mai to na-mehram ki awaz sun-na, usay dekhna, ye sab mana hai... Kindly ye islamic batain reference k sath post karain.. |
| goodman |
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| Posted on:30th Jan 2008, 3:56pm |
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Welcome back Ms Who welcome to come back.First i would like to ask with you what happened with your FIANCE.When your marriage is happening.
Thanks |
| who |
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Age: 20
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| Posted on:31st Jan 2008, 12:48pm |
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 Thanx...
Assalam-o-Alaikum...
Thanx all for your comments and wishes... good to be here again...
But i still am so confused... i didn't get the answer of the question i asked... and what i wanted to know... please read my question carefully and then answer me... thanx so very much for your time anyways...
Take care, Allah hafiz.
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