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Painful Intercourse: Please Help Us?

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aleeshy Group: Members  Joined: 24th Mar, 2007  Topic: 2  Post: 3  Age:  37  
Posted on:24th Mar 2007, 3:14pm

Painful Intercourse: Please Help Us?

I and my husband are in trouble, we have been trying to do sex many times but we were failed I always feel pain and push away him, I always say him just make me unconscious & then did it I cant tolerate this pain, we are very worried, plz give me suggestion to solve this, I will b thankful to u.
khan_80 Group: Members  Joined: 09th Mar, 2007  Topic: 8  Post: 2591  Age:  38  
Posted on:24th Mar 2007, 3:44pm

dont worry.

  • just relax.
  • be comfortable.
  • positioning is very very important.
  • place 1-2 cushions under ur back for support.
  • ask ur husband for a long foreplay
  • during foreplay, don't think "what is going to happen"
  • donot think that intercourse is very painful.
  • during foreplay, participate actively.
  • the key point is ''THINK SEXUALLY"
  • ask ur husband to do the things which give u intense pleasure.
  • during penetration, attain a comfortable position.
  • ask ur husband to be gentle.
  • do it slowly.
  • bear a liitle pain. u r married brave.....every woman has to pass through this phase.
khansaab Group: Members  Joined: 13th Feb, 2007  Topic: 3  Post: 82  Age:  38  
Posted on:26th Mar 2007, 1:13pm

It's right!

The Steps told by Khan_80 are quite right.

I think you are having pain due to 2 reasons.

1) You are psychologically assuming that you may feel intense pain during intercourse.So you dominated these thoughts on your mind and when it comes practically you start feeling pain.*****(Solution)*****You can solve this problem just by thinking intercourse has a highly pleasureful job.Ask your husband to stimulate your clitoris and breasts before straight intercourse.When you are highly aroused ask him to penetrate slowly and gently.In this way you might feel no pain.

2) The other reason of this thing is that your vagina might not getting naturally lubricated during intercourse.For this reason ask your husband to lubricate your vagina with a water based lubricant (Honey Lotion , Cleansing Milk etc) before intercourse.

3) For instance and further improvement read the books by Dr.Rizwan @


usdesi Group: Members  Joined: 27th Mar, 2007  Topic: 0  Post: 2  Age:  36  
Posted on:27th Mar 2007, 4:04am


use lubricant that will reduce the pain and increase the pleasure....i hope u will find it somewhere....
greatvirgo Group: Members  Joined: 21st Jan, 2009  Topic: 2  Post: 35  Age:  34  
Posted on:7th May 2009, 11:43pm

same problem

i have also the same problem, i have love marriage and cant enjoy full sex life because when my husband put his penis my muscles are tight we do sex but like simple like he lying on me and put hi penis in the opening of vigina and discharge semen on it but i want full insertion bc i want to be pregnent and i think with full insertion it might be possible, so plz give tips to me that this process should success. i am six month married women

love bird Group: Members  Joined: 06th Nov, 2008  Topic: 73  Post: 1177  Age:  42  
Posted on:9th May 2009, 12:39pm

Great virgo


no problem ,its lack of confidence of your husband ,may be he was in pressure so relax him and give him long foreplay just do love and play with his penis then he will feel more confidence and when you feel it is too hard then ask to put in your vigina.

Dont give him water /tea or any liquid before doing sex

Also give good foods then you will get more wet he will easilly put penis.




newid06 Group: Members  Joined: 11th May, 2009  Topic: 1  Post: 27  Age:  33  
Posted on:11th May 2009, 8:56am

many reasons

It is suggested that
there are many reasons
- vaginal problem/infection (Main reason why one feels severe pain during sex)
- lubrication problem
- not doing it correctly
- mental
so many other reasons
Most of these problems can be solved/fixed depending upon what is the exact problem

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koyal Group: Members  Joined: 17th Dec, 2008  Topic: 0  Post: 500  Age:  31  
Posted on:11th May 2009, 7:11pm

aleeshy n virgo

first n foremost stop worrying about it this is a natural phenomena u have to let go of yourself feel romantic forget about the pain.

Longer foreplay could be ur solution or you could ask your husband to take you to the climax stimulating your genitals this way the vaginal muscles would contract n relax opening the entrance to a certain bit easing insertion. You could use vaseline for further lubrication.

If the problem stays consult a gyno

dom_man Group: Members  Joined: 13th Mar, 2009  Topic: 80  Post: 1430  Age:  39  
Posted on:11th May 2009, 7:30pm

pain is a helpfull enemy

we cant learn without pain.Aristotle.

pain is a very important and in fact a pleasurable part of female sexuality.before marriage gals think about pain without sexual feelings thats why they r afraid of it.

in female psychology,pain is a pleasurable thing.U feel the pleasure of pain and pain of pleasure.women are naturally masochistic(who like yo have pain) provided they are properly stimulated before sex.after some time of first intercourse,most women "miss" that pain and desire harder strokes from husband.that is why its always helpfull to spank woman during intercourse.she would love it.

TheRock Group: Members  Joined: 24th Aug, 2008  Topic: 33  Post: 768  Age:  34  
Posted on:17th May 2009, 10:16pm


pain ki waja hai tmhara wehan sex aik natural cheez hai sab karte hain duniyaa hai just relax and enjoy pain islye hota hai qk u r not taking interest in sex and making love with ur husband ok,,,,,if u fully interested in ur husband and truly love him then u will lost in his love during foreplay and u will not feel any kinda pain ok

BEST OF LUCK and enjoy ur married life :)

kitchen Group: Members  Joined: 28th Jun, 2010  Topic: 0  Post: 3  Age:  33  
Posted on:28th Jun 2010, 9:50am


dr sb mari shahdi howay 4 month howa ha lakin mara husband muj sa bohot kuch demad karta ha, jis sa ma bohot tung hoo, osay kah b ani sakti. plz muja koi tareka bahtaha ta ka hum aik achi life ghuzaar sahkay.
kitchen Group: Members  Joined: 28th Jun, 2010  Topic: 0  Post: 3  Age:  33  
Posted on:28th Jun 2010, 9:52am


mara husband muja apna penis suck karwata ha, muja bahtah ma kia karoo?



sochta Group: Members  Joined: 24th Dec, 2010  Topic: 0  Post: 15  Age:  25  
Posted on:26th Dec 2010, 1:33pm


mai ALLAH guide ur hubby ,,,,, 

cause wife is a partner nt a slave,,,,,,
guljee Group: Members  Joined: 25th Feb, 2011  Topic: 0  Post: 1  Age:  30  
Posted on:25th Feb 2011, 12:41pm


meri sis ki shadi ko 1 month hoa he.jub b sex kerte he bohat shadeed pain plus bleeding hoti he.har bar bleeding aur pain q hota he
Imalone Group: Members  Joined: 27th Mar, 2013  Topic: 1  Post: 7  Age:  28  
Posted on:27th May 2013, 6:45am


I am married girl. am I right here????
Imalone Group: Members  Joined: 27th Mar, 2013  Topic: 1  Post: 7  Age:  28  
Posted on:27th May 2013, 7:04am

Very Pain, Pleazzzzzzzzz help me

Dear all Married Men & women!

meri ek mah pehly shadi hui hy, mujy humbstri me bahut takleef hoti hy, bahut position try kei, kabi side pe letata hy, kabi guod me kabi nechay, laki me bardash nahi kar sakti.... mehubby ko kehti hun kh apka P... bada hy (7 inch) wo kehty hy kh apka V... Tang hy aur position sahi nahi hy. mery 2 SAWAL hy.

1. Kia 7inch Penis normal hy??

2. Mujy koi aisa position bata dy kh mujy pata b na chaly aur wo andar kary, kion kh wo dakhool k waqt bahut zoor lagata hy aur pora andar karny ki koshish karta hy. Plzzzzzzz Help me....

gulalai Group: Members  Joined: 04th Apr, 2013  Topic: 7  Post: 41  Age:  26  
Posted on:15th Jun 2013, 8:28am


meray shadi ko 3 years ho gaye hay kal rat jab hm intercourse kar rahay thy to buht dard ho raha tha aesa kabi nahi hwa even first time intercourse kartay hwe bhy nahi hwa vagina may buht jaln ho rahy thy aur aesa feel ho raha tha kay vagina bilkul shrink ho gya hay may nay wazo bhy kia phar 1 hour tak buht dard ho raha tha kia masla ho saktha hay plz guide
gulalai Group: Members  Joined: 04th Apr, 2013  Topic: 7  Post: 41  Age:  26  
Posted on:16th Jun 2013, 4:16am


koi toh reply karo mujhy kal rat phir say aesa hwa buht zyada pain feel ho raha tha vagina may plz reply karo new topic start na karo aur puranay topic phar koi replly nhi kar raha hay plz reply
gulalai Group: Members  Joined: 04th Apr, 2013  Topic: 7  Post: 41  Age:  26  
Posted on:16th Jun 2013, 1:47pm


koi toh reply karo mujhy koi bhy maslay ka jawab nahi mil raha hay yaha phar plz reply karay koi
R Nawaz Group: Members  Joined: 01st Jun, 2013  Topic: 3  Post: 22  Age:  31  
Posted on:19th Jun 2013, 8:28am


me ne apka tareeka apply kia, lakin mery hubby is sy jald farigh ho jata hy, wo ke ta hy keh me back pe late jaon to jald farigh ho jata hun, jab me ny us k penis pe vagina rak de to todi se andar honi k baad wo farigh hogaye.. koi aisa position bata dy jis me wo khud andar kary lakin asani se..
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