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Is Sex After Nikah But Before Rukhsati Allowed In Islam?

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honey_92 Group: Members  Joined: 22nd Nov, 2008  Topic: 5  Post: 6  Age:  31  
Posted on:22nd Nov 2008, 1:19pm
 

Is Sex After Nikah But Before Rukhsati Allowed In Islam?

AOA  every one

mera nikha ho gay hay meray husband out of country hain main abhi phar rehi hon meri study ki waja sa meri rukhsti nahi hoi . ab meray husabnd aa rahay hain. aur hum kuch din sath main bhi guzarin gain. mujage pooch na ya hay ka ger meray husband mujage sex ker na ko kahin toi kya ya humain kerin chahayislamic point view ya hum pay jayzay hay ab.

plz gave me ans as soon as possible

aliramzee Group: Members  Joined: 19th Nov, 2008  Topic: 3  Post: 18  Age:  26  
Posted on:22nd Nov 2008, 1:27pm
 

ali

ager app ka nikkah hai tu i dont think ke is mein koi gunnah hai
azzi Group: Members  Joined: 15th Oct, 2008  Topic: 4  Post: 288  Age:  43  
Posted on:22nd Nov 2008, 3:32pm
 

honey-92

Islamic point of veiw se to aap dono husband wife hein aor sex bhi kar sakte hein. lekan sex k baad aap pregnant ho gaee to aap ki badnami hogi, abortion karen gi to un islamic hoga. No.2 Suhaaq raat ab hi mana li to rukhsati k baad attraction nahi rahe gi. to behtar hai sex rukhsati k baad hi karen abhi sirf romance se hi kaam chala len.
s4u Group: Members  Joined: 18th Mar, 2011  Topic: 99  Post: 5402  Age:   
Posted on:22nd Nov 2008, 3:59pm
 

honey_92

bilkul aap ker sakti hain.Bcoz he is your husband.

is me koi badnami nahi hai.ye koi illegal to nahi hai k badnami ho.

kher munasib ye rahe ga k aap log rokhsati ka wait krein.aagey aap donu ki apni marzi hai.
Kali Zuban Group: Members  Joined: 19th Sep, 2010  Topic: 30  Post: 1791  Age:  29  
Posted on:22nd Nov 2008, 5:54pm
 

re: sex before rukhsati

Islam mai tu allow hai, koi guna nahi hoga. lekin hamare culture mai allow nahi hai. hamare culture ke mutabiq rukhsati se qabal sex kerna bare sharam ki baat hai.

rukhsati se qabal larki virgin hi tasawar ki jaati hai. isi liye rukhsati se qabal shohar ka inteqal ho jaaye ya woh bivi ko talaq de de tu os ka iddat nahi hota. jab keh sex kerne ke baad inteqal aur talaq ki soorat mai iddat bhi guzarna hota hai.

lehaza mera mashwarah hai keh aap apne shohar ko saaf saaf mana ker de, agar woh naraz bhi ho tu perwa na kare, yeh narazgi permanent nahi ho gi.
azzi Group: Members  Joined: 15th Oct, 2008  Topic: 4  Post: 288  Age:  43  
Posted on:22nd Nov 2008, 6:03pm
 

s4u

s4u agar larki rukhsati se qabal pregnant ho jaye to kia is mein badnami nahi hoti?
s4u Group: Members  Joined: 18th Mar, 2011  Topic: 99  Post: 5402  Age:   
Posted on:22nd Nov 2008, 6:20pm
 

Azzi uncle

kiu kia oska Nikkah nahi hoa?Nikkah k bad donu husband & wife hain.aur aap jante hain k nikkah hi sab kuch hai...pehle zamane me to esi koi rasam nahi thi jo aaj kal hain...
azzi Group: Members  Joined: 15th Oct, 2008  Topic: 4  Post: 288  Age:  43  
Posted on:22nd Nov 2008, 6:35pm
 

s4u

I agree keh woh sex karen to its no illegal, magar rukhsati se qabal dunya ki nazar mein unka milap nahin huwa. aor rukhsati se qabal pregnancy ko koee kuch b matlab le sakta hai.

myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7755  Age:  55  
Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 3:51am
 

rukhsati karaa li jaye

nikaah aur rukhsati k darmayaan zeyadah gap nahi hona chhaiyeh... koshish karaiN k rukhsati jald az hojaye takay koi social issue paida nah ho...

after rukhsati bhi laRki apni education jari rakh sakti hai aur laRka bahar jasakta hai... nikaah k baad dounouN ko milnay nah denaa yeh bhi aik zulm hai. laRkaa bhi israr karkay jald az jald rukhsati karaa lay.

goodman Group: Members  Joined: 11th Oct, 2007  Topic: 65  Post: 7710  Age:  33  
Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 4:17am
 

ok

i agree with s4u ...........legally both are husband and wife...........
almahdis Group: Members  Joined: 18th Nov, 2008  Topic: 2  Post: 8  Age:  36  
Posted on:23rd Nov 2008, 11:50pm
 

kashif

I heard this Masla from one of our Mufti and he said sex is not allowed after Nikkah u must have to wait till rukhsati and all ullama are agreed on it .

thanks

sahilkasht Group: Members  Joined: 20th Nov, 2008  Topic: 0  Post: 2  Age:  35  
Posted on:25th Nov 2008, 2:12pm
 

yes u can do

Offcourse u can do sex after nikah and before rukhsati. There is no harm in it. When he becomes ur husband he has the right to do sex with u.

 

zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13607  Age:  33  
Posted on:26th Nov 2008, 8:00am
 

sahil sahab

lekin bhai rukhsati tak agar ruk jayen gay to kia ferk perta hai

thora aur sabar ho jaye to behter nahi?

main ne ye kahun ga k agar rukhsait mein kafi time hai aur nikkah ho jata hai to phr na keryen sex...lekin agar rukhsati 1-2 din bad hai to phr nikkah k bad sex ker sktey hain..phr koi herj nahi ahi

Maryam Group: Members  Joined: 17th May, 2008  Topic: 27  Post: 4679  Age:  30  
Posted on:25th Feb 2009, 2:42am
 

after Nikkah before Rukhsati

jahan ziada time sabar kar sakte hain wahan 1, 2 din bhi sabar kar liya jaye to ziada acha hae:) koi bhi baap ya bhai yeh pasand nahi karta k un ki behan ya beti ghar bethay huwe (khwah nikkah hogaya hae) apnay shoshr k haqooq poore karti rahe. jab shoshr bv k haqooq O faraiz adda karta hae tabhi bv bhi us k haq adda karne ki zimmadar hae. rukhsati se qabl munasib nahi . baad mein yehi shohar sahib taane bhi detay hain .

myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7755  Age:  55  
Posted on:25th Feb 2009, 3:29am
 

2 reply

1. islamic point say to iska jawaab hai k YES. It is allowed (but NOT necessary / Fard) in Islam.

2. samaji etbaar say nah sirf yeh k yeh mayoob see baat hai... balkay before rukhsati, miyaN biwi k freely milnay julnay say bahoot say degar social problems paidaa hosaktay haiN. lehaza normally aisaa karnay say avoid hi karna chhaiyeh... aur jald az jald rukhsati ka ehtemaam karna chhaiyeh...

ALBATTAH, agar koi "special" sooratay haal pesh aa jaaye (yahaaN misaal denay ki zaroorat nahi) ... aur dounouN khandaan walay yaa at least laRka aur laRki k ghar walay, rukhsati say qabal dounouN ka milnay /yakjaa honay ko encourage karaiN to koi harj bhi nahi... masla to sirf samaaj hi kaa hai.... agar samaj ko etraaz nahi to shariyat nay to pahlay hi allowed kia howaa hai...

 

chaman0078 Group: Members  Joined: 26th Jan, 2009  Topic: 31  Post: 192  Age:  29  
Posted on:25th Feb 2009, 8:12am
 

Nikha or Rukhsati

ap ki bat bilkul theek ha k,  Nikah k bad wife or husband ka aik dossray per hak ha,   

Lakin aik bat jo bohat ahem ha,   hmain sab say pehly Rukhsati k meaning samjnay hoon gay.     

Nikah or Rukhsati  Haqiqat main aik hi cheez ha,  Lakin Baz oqaat  Rukhsati main kuch gap hota ha kabi 1 month ka kabhi 1 sall ka.   (Aqad-ul-Nikah) us wakat pora hota ha jab wife apnay husband k sath Rukhsat ker di jati ha,  Lakin Rukhsati say pehly   Nikah-e-Kamel nieh kaha ja sakta,  or jab tak Rukhsati nieh ho gi,  wife apnay parents k pass aik Amanet ha. or Nikah k bad parents ko ye haq nieh k wo (Aqed-ul-Nikah) ko Tore dain (without any special circumstances) ,  or na hi  husband amanet main khiyanat ker sakta ha.

Ye maray apna nazriya ha----------      (but I am not sure)

Buzerg kehtay hain,  jo bat ap ko sehi lagay dosrron ko batani chaya. 

aHsaN519 Group: Members  Joined: 09th Feb, 2009  Topic: 4  Post: 23  Age:  26  
Posted on:25th Feb 2009, 10:14am
 

:)

oye kis ne kaha ye gunnah nahi hy ? bhai  gunnah hay ye b...

 

ruksati se pehle sex bht gunnah hay... islam is ki ejazat nahi deta hay... nikah honay k bad.... ruksati tk to shohar apni bv ko dekh b nahi skta hay...

sunehri76 Group: Members  Joined: 04th Aug, 2007  Topic: 100  Post: 4646  Age:  38  
Posted on:25th Feb 2009, 10:29am
 

i agree

to mayrizvi
zaki_khan Group: Members  Joined: 26th Feb, 2009  Topic: 2  Post: 37  Age:  25  
Posted on:26th Feb 2009, 12:46am
 

kali zuban

i do agree with kali zuban, she said true, and according to our culture point of view, i'll advice be patience, and w8 till rukhsati, till then u guyz can romance, ,,

 

wish u all the best

 

doctorpk Group: Members  Joined: 19th Sep, 2010  Topic: 25  Post: 591  Age:  42  
Posted on:5th May 2009, 10:13pm
 

New Topic No 13808 by dashingduk deleted (Repeated Topic)

Doctor sahab

Meray aik aziz dost ka abhi kuch din pehlay nikah Hua hai abhi rukhsati mein aik saal hai, usay apnay jazbat ko control kernay ka sirf ek he tareeqa samajh araha hai k woh masturbation kerta rahay. Woh or us ki Biwi ( jo k abhi us k ghar rukhsat ho k nhi ayi hai) dono rukhsati se pehle sex kerna chahtay hain kia yeh sahi hai.
Aik aalim sahab ne kaha hai k jaiz hai magar agar kisi ko pata chala to badnaami ho jai ge larki ki werna yeh jaiz hai kyun k woh sharai husband wife hain.

Aap please jald az jald comments ya satisfactory answer di jiay
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