Dr sb. I am really tens and worried now a days....its like 3rd week of my married life and i am facing the problem of soft errection and errectino for very little time and then suddenly become emotionless, I m 34 now and i have never been in any sextual relationship with anygender. earlier, like when i was 25 or more i felt a lot and small event pic or talk makes my penis errected but now even i could not respond to my wife. I feel that sometime she is intended but........ yes one bad thing in the entire situation is that i was sufferring from drops with urine or other waste discharge. which increased overtime and i did not took any proper remdy as i belived that this will be ok once i got married.......
Now a days wht happens, i wait for the errection in the night while sleeping and then suddenly i wakeup my wife and make intercourse, again that is with problems of quick discharge, etc. and i feel bad on the entire situation. even if sometime if my wife is intended i can not get myself started. I want the errection should be on my desire whenever i want. How can i get back my old feelings.....and escape from this akward situation.
Physically speaking, apperantly the size of penis and tests are seems to be ok with relatively smaller width at the root of the penis.
One of my friend consulted my situation with some of his homeo dr friend and he suggested some medicine like damiana and acid phos... i tried to use this but due to my habit of not taking any medicine i missed it. I really want to cure it in a safeway without having any prob .....i felt that the urine frequency has also reduced due to this so i m tens from everyside.....i am affraid it may not effect my kidney or something like that....... Also worried that does it a sign of impotence?
I have also used 3-5 days some homeo medicine for quick response and i did and feel better by those but i want to do everything in a very natural way also quickely.
Please treat it very urgent and suggest a good remedy...i am also feeling ackward sometimes on some comments from my partner. you please suggest a quick psychological, physical and pharmasutical remedy. I am also not in Pak and in a country where homeo medi are not used/allowed, perhaps banned. So please keep in mind this situation while suggesting appropriate remedy...
Your quick response can turn my tens life to happiness with the grace of Allah.