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What is the Suitable Age for Marriage?

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haroon4u Group: Members  Joined: 23rd Mar, 2007  Topic: 7  Post: 35  Age:  34  
Posted on:24th Mar 2007, 6:28am
 

What is the Suitable Age for Marriage?

Dear Friends & Dr Sahib i Have a serious problem please guide me...... Mera sawal yeh hai kay ek larki kay liyee us ki shaadi ki umar kaun si saheh rehti hai ..... meri umar is waqt 23 saall hai aur meri jis larki say shadi honain wali hai jokay meri cousin hai us ki age muskil say 15 saal hai .... kya yeh umar us ki shaadi kay liyee saheh rahai gi ?

I mean agar woh jaldi pregenant ho gayee ya during the intercourse us ko koee khatra tu nahin....!! meri problem yeh hai kay mera us say shaadi kerna saheh rahay ga ya nahin.! Main nain aisay kafi cases sunain hain aur dekhain hai un larkiyoon ki ages 12 say 13 kay hain aur un kay bachay bhi hain.! Aur main nain yeh bhi suna hai kay it's natural.....!!! plzzzzzzzzzzz reply me!!! main app logoon ka buhat shukar guzar rahoon ga.!
Dr Rizwan Group: Members  Joined: 19th Sep, 2010  Topic: 1  Post: 511  Age:  50  
Posted on:24th Mar 2007, 12:51pm
 

medically marriage under 18 not allowed

A man can marry with a girl who is 8 years younger than him. But medically marry with a girl under 18 not encouraged.


haroon4u Group: Members  Joined: 23rd Mar, 2007  Topic: 7  Post: 35  Age:  34  
Posted on:24th Mar 2007, 1:26pm
 

why after 18 years?

Please sir mujhay batain kay larki kay larki kay liyee us ki shaadi ki umar kam as kam 18 saal tak honi chahiyay.....

medically agar koee larki 15 ya 16 saal ki umar main shaadi kerti hai tu usay kon si problems ho sakti hai.....

please mujhay guide karain aapp ka jawab ... meri bohat bari tension khatam kerday ga allah app ko khush rakhay....... !!

aur is case main mujhay kya kerna chahiyay................!!!

 

haroon4u Group: Members  Joined: 23rd Mar, 2007  Topic: 7  Post: 35  Age:  34  
Posted on:24th Mar 2007, 1:27pm
 

PLEASE SIR SUGGEST ME...... WHAT CAN WE DO??????

khan_80 Group: Members  Joined: 09th Mar, 2007  Topic: 8  Post: 2591  Age:  37  
Posted on:24th Mar 2007, 3:29pm
 

both aspects....

from medical point of view, we donot encourage marriage before 18 years of age b/c there are some problems in the sexual life as well as there are certain diseases which are more common in females who are married at an early age.also if she gets pregnant at this young age, there are certain risks to her own health as well as to the baby.

also if u consider the social aspect, usually girls are not so mature at this age and they cannot fulfill the responsibilities of husband, inlaws, relationships, households etc. resulting in social problems and chaos in life.

u better talk to ur parents in detail regarding the whole situation and convence them to delay the marriage for the better future of u and ur family.

semi Group: Members  Joined: 15th Feb, 2007  Topic: 1  Post: 6  Age:  32  
Posted on:24th Mar 2007, 4:22pm
 

islamic point

mere bhai jehan tak age ka sawal hai to ladki 18 se kam nahin hone chahye ....ladki wase bhi beche hote hai ................. well yeh to thi secince batien ........... islam ki roshni main jab ladki balag ho gae then us ka nikha ho sakta hai chahe woh balag 13 main ho ya 18 main ja ker............... well aap dont worry ager aap ki futur wife balag hai then u can nikha.................... ok

khush rahen aur us ka kheyal rekhna

khansaab Group: Members  Joined: 13th Feb, 2007  Topic: 3  Post: 82  Age:  37  
Posted on:24th Mar 2007, 4:46pm
 

It Depends!

Dear Haroon,

Both things are right.According to Islamic point of view you can marriage and according to medical point of view you can't.

But this thing depends on certain other features.If your future wife is quite healthy and had a good puberty then you can marry her because Girls achive puberty then the boys of same age.But in case of marriage you implement birth control at least for 3 years. Because pregnancy in under 18 years of age might become hazardous for both mother and child.

If your future wife is not quite healthy and has a weak apperance then you are strictly adviced not to marry her before at least an age of 18.

The ideal age of a girl's marriage is 19-21 years.

haroon4u Group: Members  Joined: 23rd Mar, 2007  Topic: 7  Post: 35  Age:  34  
Posted on:25th Mar 2007, 8:41am
 

Thank you very much

Thank you very much dear friends & i will be very thankful to you & Dr Rizwan for their constant support and encourgement throughout this website God Bless all of you specially Dr Rizwan doing gr8 Job...... it's very great effort...!!! aur is ki jitni ta'areef ki jayee kam hai....!!!Dr rizwan doing gr8 job.....!!!!

 

haroon4u Group: Members  Joined: 23rd Mar, 2007  Topic: 7  Post: 35  Age:  34  
Posted on:25th Mar 2007, 8:41am
 

Thank you very much

Thank you very much dear friends & i will be very thankful to you & Dr Rizwan for their constant support and encourgement throughout this website God Bless all of you specially Dr Rizwan doing gr8 Job...... it's very great effort...!!! aur is ki jitni ta'areef ki jayee kam hai....!!!Dr rizwan doing gr8 job.....!!!!

 

Mehmood Group: Members  Joined: 23rd Feb, 2007  Topic: 1  Post: 15  Age:  36  
Posted on:26th Mar 2007, 12:51pm
 

Question to Khansaab

plz do reply to my question...i have a same sort of situation... i want to know that what islam says about such sort of birth control?

what are the issues on which one can ask the imam/mufti regarding the birthcontrol? Is it harmful for the girl for having child in such age? or any other reason?

What r ur concepts regarding birthcontrol in such situation?

plz do reply

khansaab Group: Members  Joined: 13th Feb, 2007  Topic: 3  Post: 82  Age:  37  
Posted on:26th Mar 2007, 1:37pm
 

Re.Birth Control!

Dear Mehmood,

I , Dr.Rizwan,Khan_80, give the answers towards the member's post just on Medical point of view and a bit Islamic point of view.

As all of us are not in the category of "Ulema" or religious scholars.So i can't say anything in Islamic point of view on the topic of birth control.

While as regarding the matter of pregnancy in less age could be very hazardous to Mother as well as child as girl before the age of 18-20 isn't so healthy to conceive.Thats why i asked to implement birth control in such case.If the girl seems to be quite healthy and strong according to her age ,she can conceive successfully as the women of villages who hardwork for their crops and take pure and healthful diet so you can see that the girls become mothers in those areas at the ages of 17-18.But according to the lifestyle of Matropoliten cities where the lifestyle is luxury and women are delicate it can be hazardous.

For Islamic point of view on birthcontrol you can consult any Aalim near you.

Thanks

usmaaan Group: Members  Joined: 13th Jun, 2013  Topic: 4  Post: 7  Age:  24  
Posted on:5th Jul 2013, 8:21am
 

age diffrence

Salam Dr shb and frnds... kaisy ho aap sub umeed hai sb theek hon gen.. main ne aap se aik sawal pouchna hai k kia koi larka apny se 2 saal bari larki (cousin) se shadi kar skta hai agr boy ki age 23 aur girl ki 25 ho aur dono me achi undrstanding ho.. kia shadi normal ho gi ya larki ka larky se age me chota hona zaruri hai aur physically aur sexually koi brblm tou nhi hoskti... kindly give me answers under the lights of ur expreince...
Saif.Ullah Group: Members  Joined: 19th Feb, 2013  Topic: 3  Post: 17  Age:  25  
Posted on:30th Aug 2013, 10:22am
 

@haroon4u

Asalam O Alikum! in my opinion 14-17 is the Perfect age time for girl and 17-22 for Boys. Early marraige has so many POSITVE EFFECTS on your life.
ALLAH app ko sakoon wali zindgi atta fermaye :)
alone but happy Group: Members  Joined: 11th Dec, 2012  Topic: 8  Post: 883  Age:  25  
Posted on:2nd Jan 2014, 3:55pm
 

Usman bhai je han ye normal ho gi.

Ye post to thora purana ha par jwb ma phr b de rha hun .Agr understanding ha to normal e ho gi or islam mai b age nasal zaat ki koi pabandi nai .Allah pak hamen naik hadayt de ameen.
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