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Love: We Want To Live Few Minutes With Each Other

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Fouzia Group: Members  Joined: 21st Apr, 2008  Topic: 2  Post: 7  Age:  41  
Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 4:50am
 

Love: We Want To Live Few Minutes With Each Other

I am still confusing how to start.

My age is 32 and since last 12 or 13 years, I am in love with someone from my family. About 7 years back our families stop seeing each other because of us. At that time we have two options either to hurt our parents and get married or hurt ourselves and stay apart. We both don't want to hurt our parents and decide to stay apart. Two years ago we again met by chance and since then we are in contact and we don't talk on phone we are only send sms to say hello and in four  or five months he pay a visit to my office and we had a cup of tea together. One thing I want to tell here which most of the readers won't believe (I guess) but its true that we never even hug in all those years. Its only hand shake or a kiss on hand. He never tries to take advantage he always respected me by all means that's why I have a deep love for him and decide not to marry. But now our love getting desperate for each other. And since last few months he is asking me to see him alone. I also want to see him at least once, I guess we deserve that once, I want to hug him, touch him, feel him once in my life time and I want to honor his request, I say No to every body for him now I don't want to say No to him but at the same time I am totally blank what Islam says for this. If I see him would it be a sin?

I have nobody around me who could properly advice me on this. Now I am here to seek your advice. My only request is not to advice me to get married. I can't with him and I don't want to with anybody else. In this situation I really wish suicide won't be Haram. Dua karahin Allah mujhey wapis bula le aur ic takleef se nijat de Ameen

goodman Group: Members  Joined: 11th Oct, 2007  Topic: 66  Post: 7815  Age:  36  
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Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 6:52am
 

ZENDGAI ZENDA DELI KA NAMM HA

It is very good that u did not any sin and i hope u will also not do in future any sin .U must demand everything with Allah.Because everything is Hand in Allah.

And i will only say these words:

ZENDAGI ZENDA DELI KA NAME HA MURDA DIL KIYA KHAK JIYA KERTAY HA.

sunehri76 Group: Members  Joined: 04th Aug, 2007  Topic: 100  Post: 4632  Age:  41  
Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 7:02am
 

Fauzia

I wish you all the best,Allah talah se dua mange ho sakta hai wo apki Kismat me ho,lekin Allah chahta ho ke use Duaon se mange...

and both try that,apke parents man jayen unhe razi karne ki koshish karain..

lilly swee Group: Members  Joined: 17th Mar, 2008  Topic: 24  Post: 177  Age:  32  
Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 7:04am
 

jisay cho lia jaia usay poja nahi kartay

waisay i m suprised k abi tak log aisi mohabatain kartay hain. ap ne ye to bata dia k ap kisi or se shadi nahi karna chatain hain but ye nahi bataia k ap k lover ne kia kia. he is still alone 4 u ye, unho ne shadi ki ye nahi? ap coincidence se dobara mil gay hain laqin itna arsa unho ne b ap ki ghuzara ha ye kisi or k sath?

agar to wo b ap ki thara unmarried rahanay k decision k chukay hain to ap dono apni umar barbad mat karay plz shadi kr lein.jb ap k affair start hoa tha to tab ap unmature thay ap dono mature hain ap ni zaidagi k decision khud le. ap ne apnay parents ko or apnay ap ko bohat time dia ha. ap taqlaeef me rehanay ki bagay final decision le.

or agar wo kisi or k sath ap k bad relation rakh chukay hain to ye shadi kr chukay hain. to ap un ko chor de or aik bar dil se faisla kr lein k ab ap ne un se koi relation nahi rakhani. bas khatam

ap un se kyun illegal relation rakhana chati hain kia ap ki mohabat un se aik din ki sex ki motahag thi ye sirf un ko aik bar privacy me mil lainay se ap ko sakoon a gay ga. bas sirf is aik kam k liay ap ne apni zindigi k itnay kimati sal barbad kr diay hain ?ye to ap dono phelay b kr saktay thay

plz final decision kr lein ye to unko zindagi k sathi bana le ye hamesha k ley chor dey. ye waqti ghuna jo ap kr cha rahi hain is se na to un k dil me ap ki respect rakhay ga na ap k dil ko sukoon de ga. balkay ap ko un se mohabat nahi rahi gi sirf aik ehasas e ghuna he raha gay ga.

or un ko b samgain k wo ab aisa kyun chatay hain jb mard muzboot ho to wo sab kuch hasil kr sakta ha. meri life me b aik aisi stage ai thi me ap jitni mature or experienced nahi ho laqin me ne aik decision lia tha. ye to mohabat ko legal hasil kr ha warna hamesha k liay chor dena ha or me aj tak apnay decision pr stick ho or skoon se ho koi pachtawa nahi ha.

i hope ap samaj gain ji i ll wait 4 ur response.

goodman Group: Members  Joined: 11th Oct, 2007  Topic: 66  Post: 7815  Age:  36  
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Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 7:09am
 

Future female editory

Future Female Editor of this Forum is LILLY JEE.VERY GOOD.....after DEAR MISS PNIKY EE.NEXT NAME is LILLY
Fouzia Group: Members  Joined: 21st Apr, 2008  Topic: 2  Post: 7  Age:  41  
Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 7:46am
 

he is also still single

one thing i want to clear here that he is also single and he wants me to get married first. secondly there are 0% chances that our parents get agree on this. it is one of impossible things of my life.
sunehri76 Group: Members  Joined: 04th Aug, 2007  Topic: 100  Post: 4632  Age:  41  
Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 7:47am
 

Faizia

i agree to lillys replay...apko us se ab shadi kar leni chahye..
Fouzia Group: Members  Joined: 21st Apr, 2008  Topic: 2  Post: 7  Age:  41  
Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 7:52am
 

he is also still single

one thing i want to clear here that he is also single and he wants me to get married first. secondly there are 0% chances that our parents get agree on this. it is one of impossible things of my life.
zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13598  Age:  36  
Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 8:48am
 

fauzia

agreed to lilly swee

bohat acha reply kia hai unhon ne

Hina rizvi Group: Members  Joined: 04th Apr, 2008  Topic: 0  Post: 29  Age:  35  
Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 9:01am
 

fOUZIA

Allah Taullah se dua karien aur apne parents se aik dafa khull kar baat kar k dekh lain phirr jesa woh kahein kar lein aUR -ve na sochain. Khudkushi ka Islam main koi jawaz nahi hai. Agar khudkushi halal hoti tu Allah Taullah hamein zindgi kyon ata kartey aur iss imtihan gah(Dunia) main kyon bhejte. Akher main yehi khoongi k Allah Taullah aur phirr apne parents pr believe karein aur haan mUSLMAN larki ka kisi na mehram larrkay se muhabbat karne ka koi jawaz nahi baNTA.

BeautyStar Group: Members  Joined: 16th May, 2007  Topic: 52  Post: 3584  Age:  30  
Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 11:02pm
 

Interesting Love-Story

Zindagi issi Ups & Downs ka naam hai... Zindagi ka graphs eak Samandar k Lehar ki tarha hota hai joo kabhi upaar jaatah hai or kabhi neechey.... abhi app ka graph neechey hai tou iss ka matlab yah howa k abb yah upar ki taraf jaey ga... ALLAH se dua karein k yah tou app ko Sabar daey dey ya uss se milwa dey...!

Milne Milaney se koi faidah nahi hai.. yah sab Temporary Solution hain... App ko koi Permanent Solution dhoondna hoga.. Either Get Marry or Stay Apart Forever...!!!!

App khudh Samajhdhar hain Mature hain.. Final-Decision app ko hi lena hoga... aur yahi app ki Problem ka Permanent Solution hoga.

May ALLAH bless You... (Ameen)
BeautyStar Group: Members  Joined: 16th May, 2007  Topic: 52  Post: 3584  Age:  30  
Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 11:04pm
 

One more Advise...

App ne apne zindagi k 11 se 12 saal pehley hi iss Love ma barbaad kardiyah hain... app aur years waste na karein aur Instant & Spontaneous Decision laey lein.. I hope ka app khudh se acha decision ley sakte hain since you are Mature enough..!!!
zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13598  Age:  36  
Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 11:11pm
 

fauzia

agreed to beautystar

apni mother se bat discuss kereyn...aur is k ilawa aise admi se like ur close or best friend or sister or brother, jo ap k bohat kareeb ho, un se ye bat disuss keryen then take a final decision....milney milanay se kam nai chalay ga, is tarhan ap illegal activities mein bi mubtala ho skti hain...

u should take only one decion

ya shadi

ya phir hamesha k liye contact khatam

lilly swee Group: Members  Joined: 17th Mar, 2008  Topic: 24  Post: 177  Age:  32  
Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 3:14pm
 

phir ap ne kia soacha

fouzia ap ne bataia nahi k ap ne kia soacha ha.

ye abi kuch or advice chati hain. if u both r single then try your best to marry him.ye ap k legal right ha. ap k mazahab ,mashara duniya koi b ap k against nahi ho ga.

kia ap dono k parents or families ko ap ki single life pr koi interaz nahi? plz answer.

agar ap dono shadi na karay or sari zindagi single rahay to ap ki families khush hain kia? mera khayal ha wo kabi khush ni ho gay ap k is decision pr

Fouzia Group: Members  Joined: 21st Apr, 2008  Topic: 2  Post: 7  Age:  41  
Posted on:23rd Apr 2008, 9:18am
 

Final Conclusion

I am surprised on replies who advised to get married. What do you think we did not try? Who else can imagine how much we tried and when I say we cant, what are the reasons and efforts behind.

 

Deep down in my heart I was not convinced with the idea to see him thats why I came to this forum. Thanks to all who replied and helped me to fix my mind on the right thing. I have made up my mind that I will wait for him to get married in next life in heaven. I lived all my life without him so I will manage for the rest. And lilly what else I can do for my parents that I dont see the one I love the most in their respect.

Any way Thanks again and Allah Hafiz
razi_82 Group: Members  Joined: 16th Apr, 2008  Topic: 6  Post: 369  Age:  35  
Posted on:23rd Apr 2008, 10:52am
 

fouzia sister sirf ek baat maanain plz

main sirf aap se ek request karonga k aap meri batayi hoi ek book read karain agar aap karachi main hain to ye book aap ko gulshen chorangi k paas jamia ashraful madaris k paas se mil jaye gi......main aap ko book ka naam bata deta hun....

book name : alamaat-e-mohabat ( arsalan bin akhtar memon )

aap plz ye book zaror parhain inshAllah aap ko zaror kuch na kuch rehnumai aur sukoon milega........inshAllah

razi_82 Group: Members  Joined: 16th Apr, 2008  Topic: 6  Post: 369  Age:  35  
Posted on:23rd Apr 2008, 10:57am
 

ek buzrig ka khowab

main un buzrig ka naam bhool gaya hun laikin mujhe ye qisa yaad reh gaya hay.......ek buzrig thay unhon ne khowab main qais ( majnoo ) ko dekha aur majnoo se pochha k Allah ne tumharay sath kia mamla kia ? buzrig farmaty hain k khowab main qais ne mujhe kaha k Allah ne meri magfirat kar di aur mujhe kaha k........."a qais mujh se jo mohabat ka dawa kartay hain wo mujh se kam se kam itni to mohabat karain jitni tu ne ki thi"..........
asusual Group: Members  Joined: 28th Mar, 2008  Topic: 2  Post: 27  Age:  31  
Posted on:23rd Apr 2008, 11:34pm
 

aap nikah kr lein

assalam o alekum
FOUZIA
main aap ki aur aap ki muhabbat ki dil se ehtaram krta hn, k aap ne sach main ek dsre ko pyar kiya hai..muhabbt ki hai..aur nibhaya  b hai..jo k aaj kal aesa nahin hota..
ap ne jo b faisle liye hain..sare faisle ache the ...
itna arsa door rehkr  b aapne apne pyar ko nibhaya...
bas main ap se ek baat kehna chahunga k ALLAH ne ap donon ko phir se milaya hai..zaroor uper wale ki koi nah koi marzi hogi..isliye aap un se kahen k woh apne parents baat krein..agr kar skte hain tou..aur aap b apne sis  wagairh ya parents krein ag kr skte hain tou..!!!
aap ne likha hai k aap zindaghi mai kam se kam ek bar use mehsoos krna chahte hain aur aesa woh b chahte hain...
main yeh kahunga ..aap taaa qayamat ek dsre ko mehsoos krein ..muhabbat krein Aameen...
but yeh mashwira nahin dunga k illlegal way se karein..kiyn k isse ALLAH naraz ho jayga.
aur aap ki muhabbt k mayne ek min me badal jayegi..
aap ki barson ki muhabbat...ek gunaah ban jayega..
Gunah krne se behtr yeh hoga k aap ghr wale ko naraz kr dein.....aur ayqeen maaniye ghr wale jiyada din tak apne aulad  se naraz nahin rehte..
aap mature hain aur smjhdar b...
aap nikah kr lein....
phir aap ek bar kiya jb chahein ek dsre k qareeb aa skte hain...
.............at last main yeh kahunga k aap nikah kar lein...
Allah aap ki MADAD kre..Aameen
meri Dua aap k saath hai...
Fi-amanillah



sunehri76 Group: Members  Joined: 04th Aug, 2007  Topic: 100  Post: 4632  Age:  41  
Posted on:23rd Apr 2008, 12:06pm
 

Fauzia

plzz ap unse shadi karlain..ap ka ye faissla sahi nahi hai ke ap age ki life bhi akaili manage kar lengi...ap kis cheez se ghabra rahi hain?? jab apko unse pyar hai wo apse karte hain to whats the problem?? agar gharwale nahi mante to mujhe lagta hai apke gharwale bohat selfish hain jo ye nahi sochte ke ap donon ne apni life tanha guzar rahe hain...ap plz unse nikaah karlen ap mature hain apka haq hai,agar apke gharwale nahi mante to ap unse phir bhi Nikah karlain...akaile aurat ka life guzarna asaan nahi hai.
BeautyStar Group: Members  Joined: 16th May, 2007  Topic: 52  Post: 3584  Age:  30  
Posted on:23rd Apr 2008, 12:09pm
 

Re: FINAL-CONCLUSION (Fouzia-Sister)

App convince issliyah nahi howey kyun k app ne apni life k 12 years sirf uss shaks k liyah devote or sacrifice kardiyah hain.... but don't forget app k Parents ne app k liyah apni porey zindagi devote ki hai.... Anyways I will pray for you... ALLAH app k liyah behtare kare (Aameen)

Maine suna hai k Mohabbat saachi hoo tou zindagi k kisi ne kisi mordh per mil hi jaate hai... I hope app ko app ki mohabbat zaroor miley (Aameen)
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