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What Are The Wife Responsibilities?

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MaNoBiLLi Group: Members  Joined: 06th Sep, 2009  Topic: 2  Post: 17  Age:  27  
Posted on:7th Sep 2009, 2:18am
 

What Are The Wife Responsibilities?

mein app sab se yeah puchna chahti hoon k wife ki kia responsibilities hoti hain apna husband aur apna ghar ka liyan

plz mujhay bata dain
bcoz mein eik honest,achi,obdent wife bana chahti hoon

mein app logon ka reply ka wait karo gi
ok
Allah hafiz
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H/dr_Qasim Group: Members  Joined: 10th Sep, 2010  Topic: 185  Post: 6560  Age:  36  
Posted on:7th Sep 2009, 2:36am
 

salam

bot achi bat hy sis jo ap ny ke ap articals meh ja k husband and wife releation and Quran study kurin or wesy ap k husband k hukook ap k furayz or ap k husband k furayz ap k hukook hen.

mujy abi dyr ho rhi hy sham ko ap ko link b send kur donga articals k laykin ap abi articals meh ja k read kruin

zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13607  Age:  33  
Posted on:7th Sep 2009, 9:18am
 

hmmm

agreed to qasim
MaNoBiLLi Group: Members  Joined: 06th Sep, 2009  Topic: 2  Post: 17  Age:  27  
Posted on:7th Sep 2009, 3:06pm
 

w/salam

thx qasim bhai mein intezar karo gi app ka article ka

aur zeb bhai mein bhi agree karti hoon qasim se
H/dr_Qasim Group: Members  Joined: 10th Sep, 2010  Topic: 185  Post: 6560  Age:  36  
Posted on:8th Sep 2009, 3:54pm
 

salam

ap articals meh ja k read kurin na
~~HITMAN~~ Group: Members  Joined: 09th May, 2011  Topic: 122  Post: 4259  Age:  29  
Posted on:9th Sep 2009, 6:26pm
 

Husband and Wife: Mutual Rights and Obligations

The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, says, "The best Muslim is the one who is best to his family." Also, he says, " and the most blessed joy in life is a good, righteous wife." (Reported by At-Tirmidhi)

The role of the wife is summarized in the verse that women have rights even as they have duties, according to what is equitable; but men have a degree over them. Allah Almighty says, "And they (women) have rights similar to those (of men) over them in kindness, and men are a degree above them. Allah is Mighty, Wise." (Al-Baqaraqh: 228)

that men are trustees, guardians, and protectors of women because Allah has made some of them excel others and because men expend of their means. Allah Almighty says: "Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath men the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend of their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah hath guarded. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them. Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Lo! Allah is ever High Exalted, Great." (An-Nisa': 34)



A-The Wife's Rights; The Husband's Obligations:

Because the Qur'an and the Sunnah of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, have commanded kindness to women, it is the husband's duty to:

1- Consort with his wife in an equitable and kind manner. Allah Almighty says, " and consort with them in kindness." (An-Nisa': 19)

2- Have responsibility for the full maintenance of the wife, a duty which he must discharge cheerfully, without reproach, injury, or condescendence. Allah Almighty says: "Let him who hath abundance spend of his abundance, and he whose provision is measured, let him spend of that which Allah hath given him. Allah asketh naught of any soul save that which He hath given it. Allah will vouchsafe, after hardship, ease.‏" (At-Talaq: 7)

Components of Maintenance:

Maintenance entails the wife's incontestable right to lodging, clothing, nourishing, and general care and well-being.

1-The wife's residence must be adequate so as to provide her with the reasonable level of privacy, comfort, and independence. The welfare of the wife and the stability of the marriage should be the ultimate goal.

2-What is true of the residence is true of clothing, food, and general care. The wife has the right to be clothed, fed, and cared for by the husband, in accordance with his means and her style of life. These rights are to be exercised without extravagance or miserliness.

Non-Material Rights:

A husband is commanded by the law of God to:

1- Treat his wife with equity.

2- Respect her feelings, and to show her kindness and consideration.

3- Not to show his wife any aversion or to subject her to suspense or uncertainty.

4- Not to keep his wife with the intention of inflicting harm on her or hindering her freedom.

5- Let her demand freedom from the marital bond, if he has no love or sympathy for her.

B. The Wife's Obligations; The Husband's Rights:

The main obligation of the wife as a partner in a marital relationship is to contribute to the success and blissfulness of the marriage as much as possible. She must be attentive to the comfort and well-being of her mate. She may neither offend him nor hurt his feelings. Perhaps nothing can illustrate the point better than the Qur'anic statement which describes the righteous people as those who pray saying: "Our Lord! Grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the joy and the comfort of our eyes, and guide us to be models of righteousness. (Al-Furqan: 74)

This is the basis on which all the wife's obligations rest and from which they flow. To fulfill this basic obligation:

1- The wife must be faithful, trustworthy, and honest.

2- She must not deceive her mate by deliberately avoiding conception lest it deprive him of legitimate progeny.

3- She must not allow any other person to have access to that which is exclusively the husband's right, i.e. sexual intimacy.

4-She must not receive anyone in his home whom the husband does not like.

5-She may not accept their gifts without his approval. This is probably meant to avoid jealousy, suspicion, gossip, etc., and also to maintain the integrity of all parties concerned.

6- The husband's possessions are her trust. If she has access to any portion thereof, or if she is entrusted with any fund, she must discharge her duty wisely and thriftily. She may not lend or dispose of any of his belongings without his permission.

7- With respect to intimacy, the wife is to make herself desirable; to be attractive, responsive, and cooperative.

8- A wife may not deny herself to her husband, for the Qur'an speaks of them as a comfort to each other. Due consideration is, of course, given to health and decency.

9- Moreover, the wife is not permitted to do anything that may render her companionship less desirable or less gratifying. If she neglects herself, the husband has the right to interfere with her freedom to rectify the situation and insure maximum self-fulfillment for both partners. She is not permitted to do anything on his part that may impede her gratification.




Source: http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?pagename=IslamOnline-English-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaE&cid=1119503544152
sunny007 Group: Members  Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007  Topic: 44  Post: 4204  Age:   
Posted on:10th Sep 2009, 10:23am
 

manobilli

wife k faraiez k lie following link click kare

Duties of wife: Respect of husband
Duties of wife: Wrong expectations
Duties of wife: Complaints and Grienances
Duties of wife: Forgive your husband's mistakes
Duties of wife: Kindness
Duties of wife: Be a mother to him
Duties of wife: Men's hobbies
Duties of wife: Living wigh husband
Duties of wife: Be appricative
Duties of wife: Pleasant dispositions
Duties of wife: Keep the secrets
Duties of wife: Be a comfort for your husband
Duties of wife: Do nor look for shortcomming
Duties of wife: Be clean and beautiful at home
Duties of wife: Remain silent when he is angry
Duties of wife: Do not pay attention to the slandrous talks
Duties of wife: The trustee of the house
Duties of wife: Be resource ful when times are hard

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Duties of husband: Do not go after other women

H/dr_Qasim Group: Members  Joined: 10th Sep, 2010  Topic: 185  Post: 6560  Age:  36  
Posted on:10th Sep 2009, 6:49pm
 

Husband and wife releationship and Quran

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haideri Group: Members  Joined: 29th Aug, 2009  Topic: 12  Post: 114  Age:  30  
Posted on:19th Sep 2009, 10:01am
 

answer

achi wife bannay k asan tarika he apne husband ki har bat mano or jis cheez main tum ko takleef ho us ki bat manne main wo bat tu lazmi manu chahay wo kuch b ho

or han apne husband k ghar walon ka or un ko sex k time bahut pyar do un k sath do ye nahi dhilay par jaho murdaar logon ki taran bat samaj jayain aap ka husband aap se bahut kush hoga or achi zindagi guzre gi

or pyar etna karo tumhara pyar dekhay ye na ho dekhay nahi tumhara mager etna zada pyar b mat karna tumhara husband ye na samaj jaye main kuch b karta pherton meri wife muj se naraz na ho kuch log hote hain pyar k galat matlab le kar kuch b karte hain or pher jab kuch b karte tu bahut kuch b kardate hain

maine assa waqiyaat dekhain ek wife apne husband se bahut pyar karti thi jan se b zada pyar karti or bolti thi main mar jahon gi mager tumhara sath kabi nahi choron gi

tu us ka husband samja us ki wife us ko kuch nahi bole gi main kuch b karon tu us pagal ne kisi larki se dosti karli or us ko apne ghar laa kar us k sath zana ki us doraan us ki wife ne dekh liye tuba tuba ab socho kya guzre gi us par khud socho tuba tuba or wo aaj taq apne husband se nafrat karti he mager us k 3 bachay hone ki waja se us ne apne husband ko nahi chora

or nafrat b karti he pata naih kya hoga aaj kal k logon ka

naive Group: Members  Joined: 19th Oct, 2009  Topic: 0  Post: 23  Age:  31  
Posted on:19th Oct 2009, 11:31pm
 

My suggestion

wife ki duties kay barey main yehi kahon ge
k husband ki care karo unki needs ka khayal rakho har bat per HAAN kehna b  galat ho ga jahan lagy k husband galat hai ya koi aise chez hai jo agy chal kar unkay ya unki family k leye buri sabit ho ge bohat pyar aur narmi say samjhao unko logically,unko importance do agar join family main rehna hai ap nay to jab huby office say ayen to sirf unko attension do baqi time main sasural walon ka khayal rakho ku k aik achi bahu hi achi biwi ho sakti hai,kuch simple steps hain jo life ko aur zeyada khubsurat bana dety hain in baton per amal karo inshallah aik achi beti ap hon ge hi achi bahu biwi n maan b ban saken ge.best of luck take care.
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