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Wife Misbehaves Parents: What Should I Do?

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objava2 Group: Members  Joined: 23rd Oct, 2009  Topic: 2  Post: 6  Age:  37  
Posted on:26th Oct 2009, 11:38pm
 

Wife Misbehaves Parents: What Should I Do?

mere shahdi ko 3 sal ho gaye hain mere 1 beta he or hum log joint family main rahte hain, 

mere wife 3 dafa ghar ja kar bath gaye he, wo mujh se nahayat badtamezi se pach ate he or na mere izzat karte he or na meri koi bat mante he.

first time yah baghair ijazat ghar se akele he chale gaye the phir main isko le kar aya us time maine iske ghar ja kar complain ke to iske ghar walon ne isko samjhane ke bajaye mujhe se badtamezi ke phir bhi main isko le kar aa gaya. akele ghar se nikalne ko koi seriuios nahe liya un login ne agar rashte main kuch ho jata to yahi log mera gala pakarte aa kar. lekin phir bhi main le kar aa gaya.

2nd time iske ghar wale aa kar le kar gaye or pure muhalle main baduayen or badtamei kar ke gaye even ke iske bhai ne mujh marne ke laye hat bhi uthaya wo logon ne pakar liya. or mujhe par ulte ulte ilzamat lagye ke mujhe marta he muhe jala de ga.

yah sab main sirf apne bete ke laye bardash karta raha, or mere ko or mare parents ko or ghar me bachon ke buhut baduyen dete or mujhe bolte inko ahsa ho jaye ga wase ho jaye ga.

mere apne parents se bat karna thore dair unke pas bethana haram tha phir yah mujh se badtamezi karte or tension dete the.

isbar bhi hum log le kar aye or iska kitchen mere ghar walaon ne is dafa alag kar diya isko main acha kitchen set kar ke diya, or har chez zarorat ke dilaye, lekin iske kuch samajh he nahen ata tha kuch din sahi guzarte phir wohe harkaten, itne bezati sahne ke bad bhi main sirf isko apne bache ke laye rkaha howa tha, or iske har zarorat pure karta, acha pahnaya, acha khalaya, acha ghmaya phiraya, lekin kuch din sahi rahte phir wohe, isda maine iske bhai or behnon per apne ghar ane per pabandi laga de the, sirf iske father aa sakte the jab chahte mil jate the, or isko jab milna hota jab ja kar chor kar ata jab rahne ka bolte jab chor kar ata, lekin jab main apne ghar walon se milon to bus azab he.

iske 2 bhai or 2 bahnen hain or kase ke bhi shahdi nahen howe, or dono bhai bhi job nahen karte sirf beth kar kha rahe hain abba ka yah ghar main sabse chote he.

Iske main har bat bardash karta raha lekin yah sahi nahen howe.

is dafa bhi yah log wohi harkat kar ke gayen hain or ulta mere khalaf ulte ilzamat laga kar mere khalf application Nazim ke pass jama kara de ab wahan per bhi aa kar badtameiz karte hain.

app log batyen ke ahse orat jiske laye itna kiya uska rawaya itna zillat amez or iske ghar wale bhi is se do hath age hain or apne behan ka ghar barbad karne main aga age hote hian, mere koi bat nahen sunnete but jo wo kahte he us paer yaqeen kar ke bath jate hain.

abhi bh wo ghar ja kar bath gaye he itne badtameizyaen kar ke or is dafa to uske mamo, khala or sab ghar waleon ne bhi badtameizi ke he, mujhe sirf apne bete ke fikar he wo wahan rah kar kharab ho jaye ga ya un logon ke tarhan zahni marez ban jaye ga, yah log mujhe mere bache se milne bhi nahen dete or mujhe har tarhan se blackmail karte hain unhain malom he ke main apne bete ko buhut chahta hon.

pls help me and guide me ke ab main kya karon, apne bache ke laye, wo mujhe abhi mil bhi nahen sakta, plz pary for him.

is dafa mare dil nahen ke isko wapis laon wo mujhe par itne sangeen ilzamat lagte he or mere itne bazattte hote he ap main usko nahen rakh sakta apne sath.
H/dr_Qasim Group: Members  Joined: 10th Sep, 2010  Topic: 185  Post: 6522  Age:  39  
Posted on:26th Oct 2009, 1:52pm
 

dear brother

apka problem koi nieya problem ni life meh hur kisi ko esa face kuran purta hy shadi khana abadi burbadi bun jati hy abi jo sorat hal ap ki hy esy puta chulta hy ap kitni azeyaat meh hen abi esaka huk ek dum divorce b ni kuk apka baby hy or agur ap divorce kur b dyain tu ap baby ko 7 saal say phally lay ni sukty

so ap apni wife ko sumjany ki koshish kurin Quran meh bura acha tureeka btaa ghiya hy k ek bunda apni family sy mohuzab or ek bunda wife ke family sy layin or bat kurin or Allah ny cha haa tu koi rah nikaal dy ga,

agur pher b bat ni bunti tu dosri shadi kurna ap ka huq bunta hy ku k jo wife husband ki ezzut na kury wo wife kesi .. so ap dosri shadi kur sukty hen mugar ye tummam batin dil sy ni dumagh sy soch k kurin gosaa meh ni ana ap ny Allah sy dohaa kurin numaz purin or wife ko b numaz ki tulkeen kurin

wife ko gur layin sumjayin thori sukhti kurin ,,, bed alag kur layin .,, muagur sumjoty ki koshish kurin mugar agur wo buttumezi sy baz ni ati apki respect ni kurti tu pher ek fasila apko kurna ho ga or apny baby k futur ka b sochna ho ga mugar agur baby bot chota hy tu adaalat sy b baby ap asaani sy ni lay sukty jub tuk baby khod sumajdaar ni ho jata

any how ap apni ek wife k hoty howy b dosri shadi kur sukty hen first ye hurba azmaa k dykhin agur ni sodurti repectni kurti apka kaha ni manti gurdaari ni kurti tu ap dosri shadi ki warning dy dayin

 

 

objava2 Group: Members  Joined: 23rd Oct, 2009  Topic: 2  Post: 6  Age:  37  
Posted on:27th Oct 2009, 5:56am
 

Thanks Dr. Qasim

Sir, app sahi kah rahe hain main kafi azyat main hon, maine kafi koshish ke jase ke apne bola ke apne or uske khandan ke baron ko bech main dal kar sulah karao yah bhi kar ke dekh lliya uske han bare bhi sirf name ke hain or wo log apne khala or mamo ke alewa kase se milte bhi nahen he or khala or momo bhi ushe ke tarhan hain. jo woh kahte he usko sach man laite hain itne zhamat nahen karte ke mujh se bat kar ke tasdeeq to kar lain ke kiya masla he.

yahe harkat uske ghar wale bhi karte hain, isdafa phir usne or uske ghar walon ne mujhe se or mare ghar walon se buhut badtamezi ke he or hamre ghalaf jhote application bhi de he Nazim ko.

is harkat ke bad to mare ghar wale buhut he naraz hain or ab wo log samajhte hain ke ab yah ghar nahen base ga unke yahi harkat khatam nahen howe jab nazim ne bulaya to wahan per bhi unlogon ne buhut badtamezi ke. ab wo log alag ghar ke mutalba kar rahe hian,. kiya main inke har dafa koi na koi bat manta rahon or itne bazati bhi sahon wo log mare muhalle mai bhi shor kar ke gaye wahan per itne bazatti howe.

phir wo log mujhe blackmail karna chate hain yah waqai ghar alag kar ke ghar basana chate hain. or rahi apke bat ke ghar la kar samjho to ab is condition main to ghar nahen la sakta.

Mere or mare ghar walon per itne ilzam lagaye hain, phir wo dubara is ghar main kase adjust ho sakte he. masla yahi he ke uske ghar wale usko support karte hain har ghalat bat per na sochte hain na samjahte hain ke iska kiya nateja nikle ga.

mujhe laga he koi na koi masla he mare sath 3 sal se kafi pareshani chale aa rahi he mere dhiyan dusri tarfi bhi jata he khain koi kuch kara to nahen raha ke yah masla hal hone ko he nahen aa raha itne koshish kar le har tarhan se.

ab ap log he kuch batayen ke koi rashta nikal aye yah ab koi gunjaish nahen he.
objava2 Group: Members  Joined: 23rd Oct, 2009  Topic: 2  Post: 6  Age:  37  
Posted on:27th Oct 2009, 9:03am
 

pls guide me

pls tell me, my family ab yah nahen chate ke wo wapis aye,  or yah rishta kaim rahe, plz guide me, ke koi ahsa tarqa he ke kuch masla hol ho.

dua or namaz to parh raha hon plz help me.
H/dr_Qasim Group: Members  Joined: 10th Sep, 2010  Topic: 185  Post: 6522  Age:  39  
Posted on:27th Oct 2009, 12:39pm
 

obhava2

hul tu ap ko btaa deya hy abi ap gur walo ko choro ap apna socho ap keya kurna chaty ho sath rukhna chaty ho? sath rehna chaty ho? ruk sukty ho? nib sukti ho nibhaaa sukty ho ap tu pher ap ko sumjoota tu kurna ho ga baki hul ap ko bta deya
H/dr_Qasim Group: Members  Joined: 10th Sep, 2010  Topic: 185  Post: 6522  Age:  39  
Posted on:27th Oct 2009, 12:42pm
 

dosri bat

ap ko du batoooo ka khiyaal kurna ho ga

baby ka futur

dosra apni life

or ye mother baby ko achi turbiyaat dy sukti k ni ?

apka sath day gee k ni ?

ap ko meh ny dosri shadi ka option dy deya hy?

pur esy divorce ni kurna.

H/dr_Qasim Group: Members  Joined: 10th Sep, 2010  Topic: 185  Post: 6522  Age:  39  
Posted on:27th Oct 2009, 12:55pm
 

dear brother

ap ki batin pur k lugta hy k apka prob kafi pacheeda hy ap first dosri shadi ka bolo agur dosri shadi sy b sodurti ni tu pher ap dosri shadi kur lo or aasi wife jo but tumeezi kurti ho , na furma burdaar ho , apni zimadaariyooo or hukook ko na sumajti ho fusaad phyaalaati ho tu pher osy ap one by one dovorce kuro

ap osy ek dirvorce kur du

or eddut meh intzaar kuro agur wo thek ho jati hy tu rujoh kur lo ni tu pher dosri divorce kur daynaaa pher wait kuro eddut meh agur pher b ni sodurti tu pher araam sy third divorce b kur dana

mugur  divorce gosssy meah ni kurna soch sumaj k

wife k pas jao osy aram say sumjao ni tu pher litter meah ek divorce likh k du or sath likh du k agur sath rehna hy tu insaano ki tura achi wife ki turaa raho ni tu raahin joda jodaa ho jayn gee

teenoo divorce ek sath ni dana

H/dr_Qasim Group: Members  Joined: 10th Sep, 2010  Topic: 185  Post: 6522  Age:  39  
Posted on:27th Oct 2009, 1:01pm
 

kisi ny khuch b ni keya howa

ye life meh aazmayshin hoti hen Allah ki turaf sy , dosri shadi kurna ap ka huk bunta hy agur wo ni sodurti tu ap dosri shadi kuro sub sy acha hul.

os wife ko b divorce ni kurin agur meri bat manin tu wo waa he ku na ray apny parants k pas haa agur wo divorce mangti tu day dayin.

husband ek esaaa saayaa hota hy k phul na b day tu saayaa zroor daata hy or bina husband wife gozarna bot moshkil hy es period meh

puryshaani ni ho ap gur walo ko bolin dosri shadi ka or apny parants say mushwara kurin , dosri shadi b ek muslaa hoti hy ku k ek wife k hoty howy bot moshkil hota hy rishta milna esa jo tiyaar ho second wife k leye

objava2 Group: Members  Joined: 23rd Oct, 2009  Topic: 2  Post: 6  Age:  37  
Posted on:28th Oct 2009, 6:58am
 

Thanks for ur Reply

Sir, app sahe kah rahe hain ke, lekin ab mare ghar wale kafi gusse main hain, 4 dafa pahle bhi wo compromise kar chuke hain, lekin har dafa yahi harkat kar ke jate hain, chalo khmoshi se ja kar bath jao or baron ke bech main dal kar kuch bat ban sakte he phir bhi, lekin yah log jo harkaten karte hain baduan dena ilzamat lagana ghar se bahar or khandan me ulte baten kar batamezi karna sab se pure muhalle main tamasha banana or is dafa to un logon ne hamre complain UC office main bhi kar de ho ulte ilzam laga kar humain phansane ke laye or pressure dalne ke laye.

Lekin kiya is tarhan ke harkaten kase larki walon ke zeb dete hain, dosri shahdi ke to ap sahi kah rahe hain, agar main dusri shahdi kar lon to mere bete ko maan nahen mil sakte or agar wo dusre shahde kar le to usse dusra father nahen mil sakta.

ap sahe kah rahe hain mujhe apne bache ka future he pareshan karta he, wo log to ahse he hain, 2 bhai he jo job nahen karte, 2 sisters hain jinke shahdi nahen howe he na ummed lagte he ke itne age main ab ho sake ge, or dusra koi earning ka zarya bhi nahen he unlogon ke chalo ache family he to kuch itmenan ho.

main aj kal buhut tension main he yahi sab baten mere zehan main ghomte rahte hain, job per jana bhi bara bhari or time pass karna bhi bara bhari lag raha he. bus main dua kar raha ho Allah Talah kuch rasta nikal de.

Dusra yah bhi sochta hon ke itne bezatti ke bad or khandan or mehalle main itne badnami ke bad kiya phir mil kar rah sakenge, kiya ghar wale yah sab bhul jayenge.

or uske zehan main yah pata nahen khan se beth gaye he ke main dusri shahdi kar longa, jo shaks 4 dafa wapis la chuka ho or mere jaga agar koi or hota to ab tak shayad dusri kar bhi chuka hota.

Bus dua karen ke Allah yah sab masla hal kar de or mere beta mere pass aa jaye.

mere ghar wale ab to mujh par pressure dal rahe hain ke, bus ab kuch samjhota nahen ho sakta ab tum bus faisala karo.

Main kase faisala karon yah sab baten sochta hon, wo log faisal ke laye jaldi kar rahe hain. or mare parents bhi kafi pareshan hain , ek taraf parents hain or dusri tarf mere bete, yah ajeeb imtham main dal diya he, pls pls
samajh nahen araha kiya faisla karon help me plzzzzzzzz
H/dr_Qasim Group: Members  Joined: 10th Sep, 2010  Topic: 185  Post: 6522  Age:  39  
Posted on:28th Oct 2009, 12:56pm
 

dost

ap ki puryshaani bujaa hy ,,,,, pur apni bati or apny future k leye ap ko koi fasila kuran ho ga mugur ap ko bati ek dum on sy ni mil suky ge wo mother k pas he ray gee adaalat sy b jub tuk wo buri na ho jay yaa khod fasila na kur suky

 parants sy muswwara kurin ku k dosri shadi meh wo he ap ki help kurin gy so apny parants ko sath ly k chulin or ek fasila kurin .

objava2 Group: Members  Joined: 23rd Oct, 2009  Topic: 2  Post: 6  Age:  37  
Posted on:29th Oct 2009, 6:37am
 

Pls or log kyen reply nahen kare rahe

Thanks Dr. Sahib, yahi to masla he ke main koi faisala nahen kar pa raha,

ek taraf mere beta he uske zindage ka sochta hon
or dusre tarf mere parents hain or gahr walen hain unka sochta hon,

ab tak jo hal isk mare samne he isdafa yah to mujhe apne family chorne parege yah apne bache ko chorna parega.

main buhut pareshan hon or Allah se Dua kar raha hon app logon se bhi darkhawast he ke app log bhi mere liye dua karen.


is dafa un logon ne buhut bat barha de he mujhe or mere ghar walon pur jhote ilzamat or pure ghar ke khandan main or muhalle main bezatti kar de he.

main yah bhi sochat hon ke wapis ane ke bad bhi halat sahe honge yah nahen kyen agar maine wapis lane ke faisala kiya to phir main bulkul akela ho jayonga. agar phir dubara koi bat hote he to mare pass koi or option nahen ho ga.

or mare ghar wale yah bat samajh nahen rahe hain mere taraf se double pressure he ek taraf ghar walon ke or ek taraf wife or bete ka.

pls guide me and suggest me what i have to do.


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