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| Dr Rizwan |
Group: Administrators
Joined: 02nd Feb, 2007
Topic: 23
Post: 779
Age: 49
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| Posted on:19th Feb 2007, 2:08am |
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 Islam And Right Of Wife: Can She Take Out Money Without Permission Of Husband?
One of our website married female visitor asked me "salam D.r Rizwan' mera sawal yea hai k keya wife apne husbad k volit se 10 ya 20 Dhr(rupes)husband se bagar poche nikal sakti hai.yea guna to nahi.keya wife ka antna haq banta hai k nahi..Islam is bare mai kaye khata hai.Pz is sawal per roshi daleye ga...Thanks" Our visitors are request to give answer of this qustion.
Can a wife withdraw some amount of rupees from the husband's wallet without permission according to Islam?
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| khansaab |
Group: Members
Joined: 13th Feb, 2007
Topic: 5
Post: 94
Age: 30
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| Posted on:20th Feb 2007, 3:33pm |
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Re.Rights of wife in Islam? Dekhain baat 10 ya 20 ki nhee hay.Agar aap k husband aap ko khurch daitay hain ya is baat ki permission detay hain k zaroorat prnay pr ya ghar ki koi cheez mangwane pr aap is mein se paisay le sakti ho to aisa krna jaaiz hay.
2) Doosri soorat ye hay k aap ko khurch to milta ho mgar aap k khawand ne is baat ki ijaazaat nhee di k aap un se poochay bghair unke wallet se paisay lo to asia krna jaaiz nhee.Baishak aap ka haq apne khawand pr hay mgar unki nafarmani krna jaaiz nhee or is soorat mein wallet se paisay lena khayanat hay.
3) Teesri soorat ye hay k aap ko ghar k istamaal k liye ya apni koi jaaiz zaroorat k liye wallet se paisay lenay ki ijaazat hay mgar aap paisay kisi or maqsad k liye le rhi hain ya khawand ne jis kaam se mana kia us kaam pr spend kr rhi hay to aisa krna be-imaani ho ga or is pr gunah ho ga.
Remember! Beshak biwi honay k naatay khawand pr aapka haq hay mgar us ki nafarmani krna ya us ki ijaazat k bghait khuch krna qattan najaaiz hay.Isi tarah aap unse apna jaaiz haq ya jaaiz kharcha mang sakti hain mgar haq honay k natay unki ijaazat k bghair khuch bhi nhee kr saktein.Or unki ijaazat k bghair khuch bhi krna jaaiz na hoga.
(Wallah Subhana wa ta'la Alamo) |
| Hangama |
Group: Members
Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007
Topic: 37
Post: 1334
Age: 34
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| Posted on:20th Jan 2008, 12:44am |
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 All members
Lets share what u think. sawal interesting hai...
Mera khayal sai to nikal sakti hai. Laikin usko baad mai batadena zaror chahiya kiyu ka hosakta hai husband nai woh apisa kisi maqsad ka liya rakhain hon aur yah bhi zarori hai ka jab insan ghar sai bahir jai to paisa laika jai aur agar wife na paisa nikal liyan aur bahir jaka husband ko zarorat pari to pata chala ka paisa nahi hain...
Lets share members. |
| nikama |
Group: Members
Joined: 16th Oct, 2007
Topic: 57
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Age: 33
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| Posted on:20th Jan 2008, 1:44am |
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hmm wife can take but should be told to husband after if coulnt tell before.
Its not a matter of how much right wife has on her husband & reciprocaly rather than a matter of courtesy..
waiseey I dont mind these type of tiny things .... |
| Bili_miau |
Group: Members
Joined: 21st Oct, 2007
Topic: 18
Post: 1016
Age: 23
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| Posted on:20th Jan 2008, 2:11am |
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well i belive that if a wife wanna take money out regardless how much..she can take it out with his permission..however if it is a matter of huge amount than i would prefer her to ask him before hand to avoid any arguemnts or missunderstanding!!
now in my point of view..i cant imagine myself asking my husband or just taking it out his money! its just something which i wouldnt do ever ever ever ever!!! money is something which everyone needs...the husband should care about it..and if he dont than dont ask him or take it our..afterall its his business...i know after marriage u got to share things between eachother..but ppl like me ..r bit down when it comes to things like money!
so i wouldnt ever ask him for any money unles im dying |
| Hangama |
Group: Members
Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007
Topic: 37
Post: 1334
Age: 34
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| Posted on:20th Jan 2008, 12:41pm |
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Bili Bili mai sirf aik bat samajhta hon, shadi ka baad husband aur wife ka aik dusra per bohot haq hota hai aur agar husband wife aik dusra per apna haq nahi jataingai to kiya faida. Iam shock to see this
so i wouldnt ever ask him for any money unles im dying
well husband wife ka jo rishta hota hai woh bohot strong hota hai.. |
| josh |
Group: Members
Joined: 31st Jul, 2007
Topic: 53
Post: 2489
Age: 33
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| Posted on:20th Jan 2008, 1:04pm |
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Husband ko bata kar paisay lenay chahiyen! agree with hangama
it is a valid reason: "agar wife na paisa nikal liyan aur bahir jaka husband ko zarorat pari to pata chala ka paisa nahi hain..."
jis couple mai understanding or sincerity ho gi wo to bv apnay husband ko apni zaroorat bata kar paisay lay laigi,, lekin jis couple mai dikhavay ki understanding or sincerity hogi or larki mai ego problem bi hoga to phir wo batanay ki bajaey, husband say nazar bacha kar paisay nikal lia karay gi... jabkay aisa nahi karna chahiye....
aik ye ho sakta haih k jab husband ka mood acha ho to bv apnay husband ko keh day k kabi zaroorat paray to mai paisay lay lia karon khud hi ?? wo khud hi bata day ga k wo kia chahta hai... |
| raazdaar |
Group: Members
Joined: 18th Nov, 2007
Topic: 38
Post: 389
Age: 21
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| Posted on:20th Jan 2008, 10:20pm |
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MAIRA KYAAL SAI..... SALLAM TO ALL FRIENDS
Jinta kai mujai lagta hai HAQ ki baat aik side pai kar loo.Jin cheezon pai HAQ ho unai bi bagair ijazat kai nahin kiya ja sakta.Q kai khabi khabar insaan karta kuch aur hai aur ho jata kuch aur hai.HAQ laina nafarmani sai behtar to nahin.Nafarmani har jaga teeq nahin.
Chahai woo family ka koyee bi member hoo.Main nai shadi to nahin ki hai yai married ko zyada pata hoga.Lakin sab sai bari baat Nafarmani ki hai.HAQ bi agar zoor sai liya jayee to acha nahin hota.Jab kai wo cheez apki hai hi to us pai lar jagarnai ki kya zaroorat.
Waqt ko,Halat ko,neat ko aur zaroorat ko daik kai hi sab kuch karna chahiyai.Khabi khabaar insaan ko achi batain bi bori lagnai lagti hai.Wo apas ki baat hai shohar aur bivi ki.Kisi nai khuli ijazat di hoti hai bivi ko kuch karnai ya na karnai ka.Aur kisi nai controll main raka hota hai.Sab waqt hi bata sakta hai.
ALLAH hamain har borayee sai door rakai.Aur hamarai Dil kai har naik kwaishaat pori karain.Aur hamain apnai naik bandoo kai saat shamil karai.AMEEEEEEEEEEEN....
NOTE:-sorry if my words hurt anyone.
TAKE CARE
ALLAH HAFIZ |
| Hangama |
Group: Members
Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007
Topic: 37
Post: 1334
Age: 34
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| Posted on:21st Jan 2008, 12:16am |
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bili Pakistan mai abhi bhi har ghar mai aurat job nahi karti hai. Aur yaha pa husband hi ghar chalatain hain... Biwi ka haq hota hai husband ki kamai mai laikin husband ka haq nahi hota hai wife ki kamai mai according to islam.
Hairat hai ka ap kahti hai ka konsi biwi hai jo apna husband sai paisa mangti hai. agar husband sai nahi mangaigi to kiya parosiyon sai mangaigi.
Achi understanding hoti hai to husband wife dono aik dusra ko support kartain hain taqai unka ghar aur unka future acha rahai. Mujhai to bohot ziyada hairat howi apki yah bat sunka.. Shayad ap pakistan mai paida nahi howin hain yah phir ap pakistan ko bhool chuki hain... Bili lagta hai ap kuch ziyad ahi upset hain. u must need rest. take care . |
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