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Pehla Pyar Kia Waqt Ke Sath Bhol Jata Hai?

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H/dr_Qasim Group: Members  Joined: 10th Sep, 2010  Topic: 185  Post: 6560  Age:  36  
Posted on:8th Sep 2010, 9:30am
 

keya howa maryam

meri koi bat bori lug gahi ?/
zeb Group: Members  Joined: 18th Aug, 2007  Topic: 114  Post: 13607  Age:  33  
Posted on:8th Sep 2010, 9:30am
 

jee bilkul

yar log to apne parents ko bhul jatey hain..i mean khuda na khwasta ksi k maan ya baap mer jaye to to waqt k sath sath insan sambhal jata hai aur phr ahista ahista daily routine mein aa jata hai

isi tarhan pehla pyar bi insan bhul hi jata hai...han kbhi yad zaur ata hai...but us ka hmari zindagi pr koi khas ferk nahi prta

Maryam Group: Members  Joined: 17th May, 2008  Topic: 27  Post: 4679  Age:  30  
Posted on:8th Sep 2010, 9:59am
 

kiya huwa ?

aap ko aisa kyun laga Qasim bhai ?

Emeraldine ne mujhay mukhatib kar k kaha tha k maine islamic perspective main baat nahi ki to maine unhaiN reply kiya hae .
aap ka reply to bohat acha practical aur reality se qareeb tar hae . insaan jab luv fantasy se nikal kar practical life maiN ata hae tab hi haqeeqi aur majazi ka farq bhi pata chalta hae.
Diplomate Group: Members  Joined: 18th Oct, 2009  Topic: 53  Post: 3436  Age:  37  
Posted on:8th Sep 2010, 11:12pm
 

g g bilkul

Emeraldine Group: Members  Joined: 05th Sep, 2010  Topic: 5  Post: 27  Age:  30  
Posted on:8th Sep 2010, 1:39pm
 

great

great so many answers quickly, i will participate later. thanks to all
Naznainnazli Group: Members  Joined: 31st Jul, 2010  Topic: 8  Post: 196  Age:  26  
Posted on:8th Sep 2010, 1:49pm
 

Sacha peyar ya aik adat.

I agree with doctor qasim.larke aur larki ka peyar shadi k bad start hota hay aur jo larke aur lrkian shadi se pehle peyar karte hain aik k bad dusra ya teesra or kbi kbi to bar bar pyar ho jata hay wo peyar nhi blk aik adat hoti he life me peyar k ilawa bhy karne ko baht kuch hota he peyar to Khuda ki taraf se bnaye jane wale qudarti rishto me b hota hy jese perents ka aulad se, behn bhaio ka apis me or agr Khuda na khawasta in me se koi apna kisi se bht dor chala jata he to waqt k sath wo zakham b mandmal ho he jata he r ap kis peyar ko le k beth gye hain jiska koi vajud he nhi ye sub apni apni zrurat pori krne ka dhong rachaya jata he pyar k nam pe rahi bat suche pyar ki to agr Ishqe majazi bhy had se brh jaye to insan ko Ishqe haqiqi se ja milata hay jis se insan ka taaluq siraf Allah ki zat se jur jata he.waqt insan ko sab kuch bhulane pe majbor kr data hy bare se bre dukh ko bhy.
Emeraldine Group: Members  Joined: 05th Sep, 2010  Topic: 5  Post: 27  Age:  30  
Posted on:8th Sep 2010, 2:15pm
 

your answers

yes you are right miss maryam,i think after real love is actually that one jo after breakup bhi wohi ho jesa breakup se pehle tha,the difference is only one which is breakup otherwise same things remaining for some period of time for each other until they forget and settle down in their lives

zaviyai ki baat is way mai ki hai main nay kay kisi ek aspect ko dekh kar love karna basically us person se love karna nahi uski quality se love karna hai, aur har tarah k zaviyai se dekhne k baad love karna hi mere nazdeek real love hai because ismain app us person ko ye kehsaktay hain k ye to har tarha se acha hai sirf ek tarha se nahe.

its my common observation that after breakup love ki reality malom parti hai,i mean those peoples jo real love main involve nahi hotay wo after breakup change hojatay hain kuch he dino main and those people jo real main love main involve hotey hain change nahi hotay kuch long time lete hain change honay mein because yakdum change mumkin nae ek real love karne walay k liyain because main marhala bhulanay ka hota hai jiski waja say sab kuch phika par jata hai

for your question i think when somebody see that her love is change after breakup and react differently then he/she comes to know that kay wo ek aese person se mohabbat kar raha tha jo us say pyaar karta hi nahe tha aur after breakup uski asliyat samnay agae hai,thats why i think badgumani create hojati hai jo kay hate mai badal jati hai

i dont agree from your this line, Allah miyan ney insan ko akal di hai wo ishk hakeki k liyai dil phair sakta hai wo bhi if you wish,but wo ishk majazi k liyain dil nahe phairta ye love wala mamla basically insan k apne control main hota hai aur wohi apne apko love se phair sakta hai aur wohi apne apko love main daal sakta hai,thats what i am thinking, but pray can change everything, dont forget this also.

ms.shoaib Group: Members  Joined: 20th Aug, 2010  Topic: 1  Post: 24  Age:  27  
Posted on:8th Sep 2010, 5:09pm
 

doc qasim

app ksy keh saktay hai agr parents ko na pata ho tu woh illegal love hai ..//

ALLAH ko jub pata hai tu phr..or agr hum yeh sohctay hai kay humaray parents ko nahi pata tu thts imposible.. maa jo hoti hai na woh apnay ulaad k chehray say jaan jati hai k wht is he or she up to/??unsay kuch nahi chuptay..

saahilbhai Group: Members  Joined: 31st Oct, 2007  Topic: 17  Post: 971  Age:  29  
Posted on:9th Sep 2010, 7:32am
 

Ms shoaib

Chahe parents ko pata ho k na pata ho hua to woh illegal hi na, Jab Allah ne aisa karne se mana kia hai to phir chahe jitne bhi bahane dhoond lo sab apne dil ko behlane ki baatein hain, na mehram ki taraf dekhna bhi gunaah hai to yeh love mohabbat to door ki baat hai sister, think about it.
Maryam Group: Members  Joined: 17th May, 2008  Topic: 27  Post: 4679  Age:  30  
Posted on:11th Sep 2010, 5:31pm
 

one question

kiya luv k rules & regulations sab k liye same haiN ya apnay ghar waloN k liye allowed ya acceptable nahi hotay ?

abhi tak is sawal ka jawab nahi aya. ya shayad kisi ko samajh hi nahi aya .
kiya mard kisi doosre ki behan beti se luv ko hi luv tasawur karta hae ys koi us ki behan aur beti se luv karay woh bhi true luv k zumre maiN ata hae ? woh bhi true luv ki ro maiN beh kar kisi ko apna husband maan sakti hae ?
us k liye kiya hukum sadir hota hae ?
Emeraldine Group: Members  Joined: 05th Sep, 2010  Topic: 5  Post: 27  Age:  30  
Posted on:12th Sep 2010, 2:52am
 

sorry posting again this one is right, pls read this.

Miss maryam you have asked a good question.firstly ek muslim ko har matter islam ki ro se dekhna chahiyai.islam he hukum sadir karta hai ek musalmaan k har mamlay mai warna koi hukum sadir nahe except society's created rules.but u know its our nature when hum jo kaam karchukay hotay hai or karna nahe chahtay or karnahe patay to hum islam ko bech mai le atay hain foran se k islam hamai iski ijazat nahe deta hai.but jo kaam hamain pasand hotey hain hum usmain islam ko follow karnay ka sochte bhi nahe

for example .i want to give only one example for yur understanding though i have so-many examples but this one is big enough for all.hamari females na mehramo kay saamnay hijaab lene k bajae tight fitting seemi nude transparent cloths, hair ko cover kiyai baghair, without cover their chest area and overall wihtout cover their whole body bazaro,mehfilo,parkon and vice versa mai ghomti hain or unhain kuch khabar nahe kay jo jo unhain dekh raha hai uska gunah unhain bhi mil raha hai or kitna bara gunah hai unhain kuch nahe maloom,and same example for males wo bhi dekhte hain gunah kartay hain no body is doodh ka dhula.males jo yahan jawab derahay hain ek wakt hoga wo bhi in sab baton se guzar chukey hain.

sorry i beg your pardon if you mind.kia app hijaab karti hain?if not then app gunah sawab ki baat sirf ek matter main karain or dosre matter mai gunah karainaesa kyu kartay hain hum. because you are aggressive in this topic thats why you are talking with rules regulation islamic poit vice versa, then what about other factors watching movies, listen to songs,chatting to males and females on messenger,voice chats,phone talk and other things. i hope you would not involve in any of these things too.

brother ho ya sister jo bhi love karta hai dil ka haal usay he malom hai k wo true love karta hai ya nahe,obviously you and your son and your husband dont allow your daughter to do love with some unknown person or do you ? but when you were in your young age dont stop yourself from doing love or do you?now feel the difference what factor is creating difference. ok i tell you the difference. app apni beti ko ya apka beta apni behen ko or apka shohar apni beti ko allow nahe karayga kyun k unko kya pata beti true love karti hai k nahe jab tak k beti pe wo trust na karain or unhai pata ho she is right chalo baat karte hai rishte ki, simiarly jab app young age main khud love kartay ho to apko hi love ki kemat pata hota hai apke bhai ya baap ko nahe or na mother ko, agar pata ho to vallen good nahi pata hogi to wo apko mana karain gay and then apko at that time apke ghar walay buray lagainge tab no islam no rules apke zehen main ayega.

and last is yes lovers ek dosre ko husband wife ki tarha samajhne lagsaktay hain unki nazar main,but obviously society ya islam ki nazar main nahi hain. balkey i think true lovers husband wife hi hotay hain difference is only one lover couple chose legal way,the other lover couple chose illegal way but again if your love is true Allah is with you and if your love is not true then you are a sinner of Allah and your lover partner (if she is true in love with you)

Maryam Group: Members  Joined: 17th May, 2008  Topic: 27  Post: 4679  Age:  30  
Posted on:12th Sep 2010, 2:58am
 

Emeraldine

aap ko meri har baat islamically kyun nazar ati hae ji ? maine to is maiN islam k hawalay se kuch nahi poocha. phir aap meri batoN se khud se kyun akhaz kartay rehtay haiN ya mujh se badguman kyun haiN ?

jahaN tak hijaab ki baat hae to maiN hijaab karti hoN . ab is pe aap k baqi points wese hi be.maini hogaye.

ab doosri baat k maine bhi shadi se pehlay kisi se luv kiya hoga yeh bhi ghalat hae . mujhay apna dil qaboo maiN rakhna ata hae . kisi k liye good will hona aur baat hae aur nafsani luv karna aur baat hae.

3rd k hum apni beti ko allow karaingay ya nahi yeh to jab woh baRi hogi tab hi pata chalega. zahir hae hum log usay kisi aise banday se luv karna allow nahi karaingay jo shadi se pehlay bivi bana kar rakhna chahay.

in sab batoN ko apnay frame maiN fit kar k dekhaiN aur sochaiN lekin i,m not so mean k aap wala question maiN aap se karoN .

aik aur baat k jo aurtaiN behijaab phirti haiN un ko phiranay wala bhi mard aur un ki taraf bad.nazri karne wala bhi mard hi hota.

koi bhi khof tab tak khof hota hae jab tak insaan us se guzar nahi jata . jab us maiN se guzar gaya to khof, khof nahi rehta same is the case in luv .
Emeraldine Group: Members  Joined: 05th Sep, 2010  Topic: 5  Post: 27  Age:  30  
Posted on:12th Sep 2010, 3:06am
 

sorry madam

oh sorry mam, you get angry i am just answering you, sorry i take my words back. sorry again pls cool down. ok
Maryam Group: Members  Joined: 17th May, 2008  Topic: 27  Post: 4679  Age:  30  
Posted on:12th Sep 2010, 3:08am
 

its ok sir

u have( so called ) right to do this . i,m not angry just answering u . what do u say now ?
Emeraldine Group: Members  Joined: 05th Sep, 2010  Topic: 5  Post: 27  Age:  30  
Posted on:12th Sep 2010, 3:13am
 

okay

so called ? what do you mean by this ? you are looking angry on my reply still now,pls dont take is personally,all here is a part of discussion.pls be cool.
Maryam Group: Members  Joined: 17th May, 2008  Topic: 27  Post: 4679  Age:  30  
Posted on:14th Sep 2010, 12:15am
 

Re:

baaz logoN k khayal maiN mohabbat maiN koi rule regulation nahi hota luv is free as birds . agar mohabbat maiN sab free haiN to mohabbat k koi limit nahi jis marzi se karo aur jitni martba chahay karo phir is maiN bewafai ka tassawur hi nahi . kyun k yeh to aik acha kaam hae aur acha kaam jitna kiya jaye kam hae(hae na )

insaan jis mahol main kuch waqt guzarta hae us ka adi hojata hae yeh allah pak ka ehsaan hae k waqt har zakhm pe marham laga deta hae warna koi kisi k baghair zinda na reh pata .

break up hamesha ghalat fehmiyoN aur badgumaniyoN ki wajah se hi hota hae kisi se acha gumaan ho to kabhi break up hi na ho . wese bhi hum logoN ki fitrat maiN shamil hota hae k agar koi kisi wajah se chala jaye to us ki khushi maiN khush nahi hotay balkay chahtay haiN k woh humaray liye rota aur taRapta rahay .

mohabbat k liye mohabbat ka hona hi kafi hae mohabbat kisi rishtay ki mohtaaj nahi hoti k isay husbnad wife se hi tashbeeh di jaye. zaroori to nahi k har husband wife hi aik doosre se mohabbat kartay hon . yeh tabeer sirf us surat maiN ki jasakti hae jab insaan kisi se physical attachment show karta hae .

Mohabbat k baray main sirf baat karna aur mohabbat kar k isay mehsoos karnay maiN bohat farq hota hae . insaan kabhi bhi itna perfect nahi hota k just observe kar k apnay aap ko 100% sahi samjhay . baqi kuch logoN ki batoN se un ki nazar aur approach ka idea zaroor hojata hae .



myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7720  Age:  55  
Posted on:14th Sep 2010, 2:45am
 

mohabbat hai jiska naam

aam taur say log, bilkhasoos aisay log jo kissi k love maiN "giratfaar" houN iss baat main "tafreeq" nahi karsaktay /kartay k mohabbat hona aur mohabbat "karna" 2 alag alag shaii hai aur inkay darmayaan baal barabar faraq hai... just like mumlekat (state) aur hakoomat (government) (log amooman inhaiN same samajhtay haiN)

chouNkay islam k elawah deger mazahab /culture maiN iss say koi khaas faraq nahi paRta k ap ko kissi say mohabbat hogayee hai yaa ap kissi say mohabbat "kar" rahay hain.... both soortouN maiN lover n beloved ka amal aur radday amal same hota hai.

islam main chouNkay "mahmaram aur naa.mahram" aik aham chapter hai aur naa.mahram afraad k mabain dealing ka poora code of conduct maujood hai lehaza do naa.mahram afraad k darmayaan ki jaanay wali yaa hojaanay wali "mohabbat" k "after effects" baRi ahmiat k haamil haiN.

islamic rulings oss waqt bhi same hi rahti hai jab 2 naa.mahram afraad k maabain "mohabbat ka rishtah istawar ho jaa.ay"....... go islam mohabbat k jazbay ko tasleem karta hai magar woh aisay jorouN say taqazah karta hai k woh apnay dilouN maiN qaim hojanay wali mohabbat k "physical izhaar" say qabal yaa to nikaah k bandhan main bandh jayaiN... aur agar aisaa mumkin nah ho to aik doosray say aisaa koi raabitah nah rakhaiN, jiss say kissi bhi islamic qawaneen ki khilaaf warzi hoti ho...

ISLAMIC MOHABBATKA CODE OF CONDUCT:

1. agar apko kissi say mohabbat hogayee hai yaa ap kissi say mohabbat karna chaahtay haiN aur woh apko acha lagta /lagti hai to sab say pahlay yeh "study" karaiN k kia ap ossay apna spouse banaanay k liyeh tayyar haiN... aur kia iss baat k imkaanaat haiN k ap oss say nikaah kar sakaiN

2. agar apki study ka jawab NO maiN ataa hai to iss mohabbat k izhaar say guraiz karaiN... nah to ossay batlayain k mujhay tum say mohabbat hogayee hai, nah oskay saath gup shup karain aur nah hi kissi bhi bahanay say qurbat k lamhaat talaash karain aur agar woh pahlay say apkay "contacts" (like rishtah daar, paRosi, class mate, rafeeqay kaar etc etc) main ho to ap yaa to oss say "qabl az mohabbat" wali dealing hi rakhaiN (jo aksar mumkin nahi hoti) yaa phir iss earlier dealing maiN mazeed faaslay paidaa karlaiN

3. agar jawaab YES maiN aataa ho to pahlay oss fard ko apnay jazbaat indirectly send karaiN agar response negative aa.ay tab bhi above step-2 par amal karaiN k yeh fareeqay saani (2nd person) ka basic insaani right hai k woh apkay "luv proposal ko accept yaa reject karay)

4. agar jawaab YES maiN aa.ay aur fareeqay saani bhi razamand dikhayee day...... to ab iss luv ko nikaah main convert karnay k mission ka aghaaz karaiN.apnay parents ko batlayaiN...oskay parents tak apnay jazbaat pahonchayaiN... rishtah bhejaiN etc etc till k apki onsay shadi hoja.ay.... BUT...

5. step-4 tak aa janay ka yeh matlab nahi k ap "rewayti love affairs wali harkataiN" start kar daiN... dounouN lovers lambiiiiiiiiiii guftagoooo shooroo kardaiN..........sms /emails /voice mails k zariyah romaanvi mokaalmaat ko baRhawa daiN.... aik doosray say molaaqaat start karaiN.... outing karain, dating karaiN, aik doosray say tanhaayee maiN molaaqaat /baat karaiN k aik hadees k motaabiq jab 2 naa.mahram afraad baaham miltay hain to onmaiN teesra shaitaan hota hai........ aur shaitaan batadreej dounouN ko shaitaani harkaat ki taraf lay jata hai...yeh sab amaal start hi say islam allow nahi kartaa..........

myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7720  Age:  55  
Posted on:14th Sep 2010, 3:18am
 

aik kaRoR ka sawaal

kiya mard kisi doosre ki behan beti se luv ko hi luv tasawur karta hae ys koi us ki behan aur beti se luv karay woh bhi true luv k zumre maiN ata hae ?

yeh aik aisa sawaal hai jiska durust jawaab jawaab koi bhi mard nahi degaa aur nah hi dena chaahegaa...

as a MARD zindagi guzaarnay ka mujhay zati taur par ashrouN ka tajarbah hai aur personally bhi bahoot say mardouN k saath rahnay, onkay ander jhaaNknay aur onkay luv affairs say waqfiat ka bhi taweeeel tajarbah hai aur as a likhari bhi meri observation achi khasi hai or i think so:)

F.Sc. maiN combined study k liyeh college say apnay aik dost k hamraah oskay ghar pahonchaa abhi hum oskay ghar k bairooni sehan main pahonchay hi thay k dost nay mujh say kahaa... maiN abhi ayaa aur apni cycle lay kar ghar say bahar nikal gayaa... pataa chalaa k coleege say wapis aanay wali talebaat maiN say kissi aik k peechay woh oskay ghar tak gayaa... aur wapis aan kar baRay fakhar say apnaa "kaarnamah sonayaa... mujhay pataa thaa k oski apni bahan bhi college maiN paRhti hai... jab maiN nay ossay kahaa k farz karo k tumhari bahan ko bhi koi laRka issi tarah stop say oskay ghar tak choRnay jaa.ay to.... yeh sunna thaa k acha bhalaa mera dost khafaa hogayaa..... yeh hai mardouN ki mohabbat ka aghaaz... woh aghaaz hi say....

iss waqt meri aik beTi aur aik beTa 2 alag alag professional uni maiN zeray taleem haiN.... beTi k liyeh maiN nay khasoosi intezaam kia howaa hai k ossay yaa to ham khud apni gaRi maiN uni lay jayaiN aur wapis layaiN... yaa phir jab kabhi oss nay point say janaa ho to point k pick n drop kartay waqt ham maiN say koi khud stop par maujood rahay... yeh bhi check kartay rahtay hain k woh uni maiN girls k group maiN hi rahay... alhamdolillah she also observe hijaab in uni.......

but at the same time hamaiN apnay beTay ki "aisee koi fikar" nahi hoti k woh kiss k saath uni aataa jata hai, wahaaN kiss kiss k saath rahta hai... balkay woh kabhi kabhaar to woh apni aik class mate k saath bhi uni say wapis aataa jo hamaray ghar k qareeb hi rahti hai aur oss family say hamaray family relations bhi haiN aur onhouN nay hamaray betay say request bhi ki howi hai k jab kabhi city /uni k halaat gaR baR houN woh ossay apnay saath hi ghar laya karay... aur ham nay iss zimmah daari ko "accept' bhi kia howa hai k hamara son aisay mawaqay pay apni car main uni aataa /jataa hai....... lekin agar situation vice versa hoti to ham kabhi bhi apni beTi ko kissi bhi jannay walay, even yeh k relative (naa.mahram) boy k saath aanay janay ki ijazat nahi detay... faraq saaf zaahir hai

europe ki free sex society maiN bhi jahaaN mahram, naa.mahram, jaiz naa.jaiz ka koi concept nahi hai aur wahaan aik ki biwi ka kissi doosray k husband k saath shab basri karnaa aik common see baat hai......... wahaan bhi aik aam "mard" yeh "bardaasht" nahi karta k oski bahn, beti, biwi kissi "ghair" k saath waqt guzaaray... aur yeh baat wahaaN ki har laRki /aurat bhi jaanti hai....... issi liyeh woh apna luve affairs apnay bhai, baap, shauher say "ojhal" hokar, oski "ghair-maujoodgi" yaa "laa.ilmi" hi maiN sar anjaam deti hai......... jabkay waheeN ka mard apnay luv affairs ko apni bahan, biwi, beti say "chopaanay" ki zaroorat mahsoos nahi kartaa.......

mardoun ka "dohra" meyaar aik "zameeni haqeeqat" hai aur talkh haqeeqat hai........ europe /usa main settled asian /muslim MARD khud to ghair laRkiyouN say ishq laratay howay aakhri had bhi phalaang jatay haiN... yehi kaam onkay betay bhi onki maujoodgi maiN kartay haiN...... lekin......jab yehi kaam onki betiyaan karnay lagti haiN to onki "mardaangi" bedaar hojati hai aur woh inhaiN yaa to wapis apnay mulk maiN laa kar kissi khooNTay say baandh detay hain yaa onhaiN qatal karnay tak ki koshish kartay haiN...

mard ki iss "mardaangi" ka kissi bhi system /ism maiN koi "ilaaj" nahi hai.... sirf islam hi woh wahid deen hai ho mard ki iss "mardaangi" ko "control" karta hai, ossay ghair jaanib.daar banata hai......apni bahan, beti, biwi ki tarah doosrouN ki bahan, beti, biwi ka ehteraam bhi sikhlata hai....... issi liyeh jumlah luv affairs agar ISLAMIC HADOOD O QAYOOD ki pabandi k saath sar anjaam di jaa.ay to society main kabhi bigaaR paidaa nahi hotaa nah hi sex corruption ko jilaa milti hai.

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Posted on:14th Sep 2010, 11:42pm
 

emeraldine

Dost asal main insaan ghaltiyan karta rehta hai....wese tou behtareen pyaar shadi k baad hi hai, likin agar shadi se pehle bhi pyaar wali koi baat hojae tou har insan ko pata hota hai k iskey kya nataij hongay kya nahi,....uskay bawajood wo un nataij ko pas e pusht daal k agay barhta rahay tou ye wo jaan bhooj k karta hai........

break up kyun hota hai ? ......khud hi hojata hia ? nahi.......mere khayal main break up kia jata hai agar karnay walon main koi teesra fareek na ho.........ab jab break up kiya jasakta hai tou love main agay barhnay se kyun nahi roka jasakta apnay apko, aur agar lust bhi agaya hai bech main tou lust se kyun nahi roksakta insan apne apko ?....mera manna hai k na mehramo main pyaar unki marzi se hota hai aur unhain sab pata hota hai k wo kya kar rahay hain aur wo chahain tou control bhi karsaktay hain........kyun k jab ye love love hi nahi hai wo love kyun kartay hain ? kyun k wo khud chahtay hain k hum love karain aur hamain koi pyaar karay...aur hum apna kuch wakt acha guzaar lain.phir unhain na ALLAH ka khayal hota hai na gunah sawaab ka.....

phir jab dil bhar jata hai ya phir koi aur mil jata hai tou phir is love ko khatam kardia jata hai aur phir wohi banda jo kal apne love ko aasmaan ka tara kehta tha ajj wo usay darya ki keechar bana deta hai.......phir wohi insan usay bura lagnay lagta hai, uski khmiyan nazar anay lagti hain, jab k kal wo khobiyon ka pekar hoa karta tha...kal jo usay uski batain achi lagti thi 100 percent aj wo uski 1 percent baat ko bhi acha samajhney k liyain tayyar nahi hota....kal ko wo uska mohsin hota hai, aj wo usko apna dushman nzar ata hai.....,ajj usay achaye ki jagah buraye hi buraye nazar anay lagti hai,yani samjho k sab ulat bana deta hai insan.

dosre lafzon main after eated 100 mouse, cat went to Allah's house.

har insan love main involve hota hia kabhi na kabhi, us wakt sab jaiz hota hai uskay liyain tab na gunah hota hai na ALLAH ki khayal, likin jab wohi love khatam hota hai tou wo sab ko najaiz bana deta hai tab na mehram wali baat bhi ajati hai gunah wali baat bi aur islam wali baa bhi....ye hai insaan ki hakekat meri nazar main.....sab apni apni kahay jatay hain, likin hakekat main sab ghalat hain, main bhi ghalat hon, thek wohi baat hai jo insaaf ki baat ho, aesi baat jo insaaf pe mabni ho na k personal opinion pe ya apne apko defend karnay pe. ab chahay uskay liyain kitne hi jhot bolnay parain.


aj apka ye topic baghaour dekha tou meri ajjse 5 saal porani yaad taza hogae,ushi ko madde nazar rakhtay hoe apna reply tarteeb dia hai.....mazirat chahta hon kisi ko kuch bura laga hon....wallahu alam.
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Posted on:14th Sep 2010, 4:33pm
 

Jawaab karoor ka nahi, Insaaf ka

MAshallah, maryam appne buhut hi intelligent question pocha hai aur myrizvi k reply se main agree hon bilkul sahi baat ki hai....likin ye sawaal ka ek pehlu hai is sawaal ka jo dosra pehlu hai wo bhi ujagar hona chahiyai .......


Gherat mand mard tou hotay hi buray hain, dosron ki larkiyon betiyon, nawasiyon, potiyon, behnon waghera se love karna jaiz samajhtay hain, aur agar unki beti behnon ko koi dekhay tou bas buhut bara gunah hojata hai.......kitna dohra mayaar hai in gherat mand mardon ka......chi chi chi.....likin kya mard hi gherat mand hotay hain sirf aurtain nahi hotin ?.......mard jo dosre ki behen beti se love karta hai wo yaktarfa hota hai kya ?.......kya mard zabardasti aurat ko phansa leta hai ? ya mard ko jadu ata hai k mantar parh k dosre ki behen beti pe phonk dia aur lo ji aurat masoom phans gae .......

Aurat jo mard ki izzat hoti hai, shadi se pehle maan baap aur bhayon ki izzat, shadi k baad apne shohar aur susraliyon ki izzat......abhi filhaal mard ki izzat ki baat kartay hain.....kya usay apni izzat ki laaj/parwah nahi hoti jo wo us kisi na mehram mard se love karnay lag jati hai,.....chalo mard tou hai hi bura, aurat tou buri nahi hoti.........phir wo kyun allow karti hai kisi ghair mard ko, koi ghair mard pechay zaroor lag sakta hai likin zabardasti pyaar nahi karsakta, pyar us hi sorat main parwaan charhay ga jab aurat bhi interested hogi warna nahi.......agar aurat ko apne baap bhayon ki izzat ki parwah hogi tou wo kabhi koi ghalat step nahi legi......ab har aurat myrizvi ki beti ki tarha tou nahi hosakti (mashallah)

1 karoor dollar ka sawaalaat

kya aurat ko apne baap bhaiyon, beton, shohron ki izzat ka khayal nahi hota?
mard jo dosre ki behen beti se love karta hai wo yaktarfa hota hai kya ?

kya mard hi gherat mand hotay hain sirf aurtain nahi hotin ?


Examples bhi hain real life basis ki, likin baat taweel hojaegi.


baat muktasir hai magar kaam ki baat hai,
agar samajh ajae tou achi baat hai

aurtain bhi kam nahi hain na mard.......bas baat sirf itni si hai k ismain achay loag maray jatay hain....aurtain aese kaam na karain k unkay bhai baap ki izzat pe aanch aye aur mard aese kaam na karain k kisi aur ki beti behn ki izzat pe aanch aye.

parhnay walay kisi ko meri baat buri lagi ho registered or non registered members, to main unse mazirat chahta hon.
....Wallahu alam.
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