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SHADI(MERD+AURAT

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WEHSHI Group: Members  Joined: 17th Aug, 2010  Topic: 46  Post: 2533  Age:  49  
Posted on:28th Jun 2011, 9:24pm
 

SHADI(MERD+AURAT

SAHDI(MERD+AURAT)

Aam tor per huamaray han shadi ak matlab yehi hota ahi k lerki ya lerka jawan ho gai hain ab in ki shadi ho jai takay ghalat kari na ho aur gher main bahu aajai ya lerki apnay gher ki ho.

LARKI:

Lerki kya hai ? Adam AS ko jab allah ne peda kiya aur unahin JANAT main rehnay ka hukam huwa to AAP AS akaialy thay koi ap ka hum jiins nhn tha sab farishtay ya jin thay aur janwer Allah Tala ne Adam AS ki tanhaai k ilaj k tor per un ki mukhalif jins yani aurat ko peda kiya Amman Hawa ki shakal main Adam AS ki 13th rib se

Isi liyay aik hadees bhi hai k aurat tumhari 13ween pasli se peda ki gai hai yeh terhi hai aur terhi rahay gi yeh toot jai gi ager seedha kero gay zor se han lakin piyar kero to shayed

(mafhoom au ralfaz taqreeban yehi hain )

Lakin meray hisab se Allah k KHALIQ honay ki sift ki taskeen k liyay yeh aik bahan tha

Yani ADAM AS ko bina kisi k yani na merd na aurt  k peda dermaya

Ab apni Takhleeq ka kamala dena tah yeh k hum sirif aik se bhi peda ker saktay hain yani Adam se Hawa ko peda kiya

Aur un se is duniya ko phelaya

Aurat main husan hai , magnetization hai merd k liyay, Piyar hai maan ban ker biwi ban kr beti aur behan ban ker, aur sab se berah ker sabar hai bohat ziyadahitna k jis ka koi hisaab nhn lakin usay use kerna kisi kisi ko ata hai

Merd aurat se 99% aik aurat ka piyaar hi chahta hai aur magnetization bhi merd aurat ki hi hoti hai lakin  rishton ki qaid muashra aur mazhab kerwata hai

Jab aik merd aur aurat ki shadi hoti hai to aurat sochty hai k usay aik malikana haqooq hasil hongay aik merd k jis ki kamai se us merd ki zaat tak her cheez per usi ka ikhtiyar ho ga

Aur mazhab is ko yeh haq deta bhi hail akin walden aur behan bhaiyon k feraiz k sath

Isi terah merd shadi kerta hai to sochta hai k aik gift pack ki terah untouch lerki usay milay gi jis ka who malik ho ga her terah se

Yahin se problem ka aghaz hota hai jab aurat merd ki zaat main kisi k sath sharing berdasht nhn kerti aur dooseri teraf bhi aik aurat hoti hai saas ya nanad k roop main who bhi bhai au rbetay main 100% sharing nhn chahti

Dooseri teraf humari muashrti soch aur mahol ne yeh baat merd k zehan main pukhta ker di hai k aurat ko bs aik hi tareeqa hai khush rakhnay ka aur who hai jismani taskeen

Yani ager biwi ko jismani taskeen milti rahay to bs who khush rahay gi

Ya kabhi gifts bhi diayy jain aur raat main wasool bhi ker liyay jain

Yehi base hai shai ki nakami ya aurat ki baghawat ki

Merd aurat k libas ko open kerna khoob janta hai us k jisam ko perhan bhi janta ahi jo nhn janta who pooch pooch kr pagal huwa jata hai

Lakin kabhi koi yeh nhn samajhta k who lerki sirif jismani taskeen k ilawa bhi kuch chaty hai who kya hai

Sab se pehlay us ki zaat ka etraaf , us k husan ka etraf chahay who husan facial ho physical ho ya auart ki adaaon main husan ho

Jab who biwi banty hai to usay ehsas ho k who us merd k liyay sab se qeemty cheez hai

Jisay aam zuban main kehtay hain

Love, care, pamper kerna

Aur yeh itna mushkil nhn sab se asaan hai aurat se mohabat ka izhaar kerna usay apni mohabat ka yaqeen dilana aur us mohabat se us aurat ki qalbi, zehni, aur jismani taskeen kerna

Ajkal 90% biwiyon ki jismani taskeen to ho jaty hai kisi na kisi terah lakin qalbi aur zehni taskeen nhn ho pati

Her shoher ko apni biwi ki had tak telepathy ani chahyay

Ager main counsoling au rconsulting kertay huway 2 ya 3 chats main samnay wali ki nature samajh sakat hun to jo shakhas us k sath reh raha hai us k liyay to bilkul mushkil nhn hona chahyay

Lakin huamray han problem yeh hai k office, maan baap, gher walon k baad shoher k pass itna time hi nhn milta k biwi ko samjh sakay

Aur na hi biwi itna moqa deti hai k khud ko samjha sakay

Mera khayal hai k tarufi lehaz se itna kafi hai aur baqi jesay jesya sawal aain gay bat ho gi

sunehri76 Group: Members  Joined: 04th Aug, 2007  Topic: 100  Post: 4646  Age:  38  
Posted on:28th Jun 2011, 9:53pm
 

wehshi

aapka ye Topic bohat hi acha hai...aur kayi Point aise hain jinki wajah se maine Ghar toot.te hue dekhe hain...

apne likha
Ager main counsoling au rconsulting kertay huway 2 ya 3 chats main samnay wali ki nature samajh sakat hun to jo shakhas us k sath reh raha hai us k liyay to bilkul mushkil nhn hona chahyay

very interisting ,but how??? kya mujhe batayenge ap ?? do teen chats se ap kisi ladki ki nature se wakif ho sakte hain ??
WEHSHI Group: Members  Joined: 17th Aug, 2010  Topic: 46  Post: 2533  Age:  49  
Posted on:28th Jun 2011, 10:03pm
 

sunehri76

bat sirif lerki ki nhn hai koi bhi kisi ki bhi nature se waqif ho sakta hai

her insan ki apni apni nature hai kuch log apnay aap ko chupanay k liyay khud ko camoflauge kertay hain lakin jab aap un se chat kertay ho to pata chal jata hai

is k ilawa jab koi bhi humaray contact main aata hai to woh khud sab kuch btana chahta hai k usay kya problem hai basicaly usi se us ki nature ka andaza ho jata hai k usay kya chahyay asal main

isi terah aap kisi se bhi jab bat kero finance, marital life, wife/husband , love & lust per to foran ap k samnay us ki prsonality open ho jaty hai ab yeh ap per hai k ap usay kay samjhtay hain aur kesay

WEHSHI Group: Members  Joined: 17th Aug, 2010  Topic: 46  Post: 2533  Age:  49  
Posted on:28th Jun 2011, 10:06pm
 

sunehri76

:) :)

ap se meri chat nhn hui lakin ap k profile se hi aik bat ak pata chalta hai k ap khudnumaai to chahti ho lakin aisy k kisi aur teraf se ap per spotlight aai

ap merkaz rehna chahty ho aur is isilsilay main ap her us shakhas per trust bhi kerlety ho jo ap ki tareef kerta hia lakin foran sambhal jati ho

tanweedi ho aap yani choosy & nosy

am i right in some thing ???

sunehri76 Group: Members  Joined: 04th Aug, 2007  Topic: 100  Post: 4646  Age:  38  
Posted on:28th Jun 2011, 10:26pm
 

ajeeb hai

mujhe nahi lagta ke mere husband mujhe samjhe honge aj tak..
anyways .... apki adhi batain mujhe samajh me ayi hain adhi nahi ....

ek bat in baton me apne mere mutalik bilkul thik kahi hai..ya yoon kehle sahiandaza lagya hai ya tukka lagya hai ...lol
WEHSHI Group: Members  Joined: 17th Aug, 2010  Topic: 46  Post: 2533  Age:  49  
Posted on:28th Jun 2011, 10:30pm
 

sunehri76

jo lag jai tukka nhn hota

jo ap ko samjh nhn aya woh pooch len

sunehri76 Group: Members  Joined: 04th Aug, 2007  Topic: 100  Post: 4646  Age:  38  
Posted on:28th Jun 2011, 10:32pm
 

hmmm

khudnumai aur markaz me rehne wali bat ...

mujhe logon ke mutalik bilkul bhi andaza nahi lagana ata...
so how can you say i am choosy?
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Posted on:28th Jun 2011, 10:40pm
 

sunehri76

khudnumaai k 2 matlab hain

1 k khud ko sab main exposed rakhna kisi bhi terah se

2 k logon k ap ki teraf tawajah dena ap ko acha lagta hai yeh bhi khud numaai means self exposure ki aik qisam hai

markaz rehna means

k ap ka dil chahta hai k her aik bat , her aik kam , her fesla ap ki aproval se ho , ya log ap k sugestion k liyay w8 kerain

zaruri nhn k ap ais akerti bhi hon lakin dil main yeh khuwahish hai

choosy means ap ko jaldi koi cheez pasand nhn aati

yani aap logon k liyay koi kam kerna ho kuch shopping kerni ho to foran kerty ho aur log mantay hain k ap ki choice best hai

lakin jab apnay liyay kuch lena ho koi fesla kerna ho to ap se choice hi nhn ho paty

????

sunehri76 Group: Members  Joined: 04th Aug, 2007  Topic: 100  Post: 4646  Age:  38  
Posted on:28th Jun 2011, 10:42pm
 

apki

ye raye meri Id ki waja se to nahi ? ya mere replays se hua hai apko ye idea??

becuase humari aj pehli bar bat ho rahi hai...islye poocha hai
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Posted on:28th Jun 2011, 10:47pm
 

sunehri76

base id hai aur ap se koi khas bat bhi nhn hui

asal bat hai k idea kitnay % sahi hai ??

sunehri76 Group: Members  Joined: 04th Aug, 2007  Topic: 100  Post: 4646  Age:  38  
Posted on:28th Jun 2011, 10:51pm
 

choosy

wali bat sahi hai..dusri bat pe kabhi socha nahi ... is bare me ke mai aise hoon ya nahi...ab pehle khud ko dekhna padega ....lol

waise apka itna acha topic devert ho raha hai i think kisi chatting me bat karni chahye

Diplomate Group: Members  Joined: 18th Oct, 2009  Topic: 53  Post: 3426  Age:  37  
Posted on:29th Jun 2011, 4:07am
 

wehshi bro

bro kia aap ko mera yahan baat karna acha lagy ga ?

aap ko aksar mujh sy yahi shkayet rahi hay k shaid main aap ko tease karta hon laiken dost aysa nahi hay aap ki baaz batain mubham hoteen hain jo confusion ka sabab banti hain iss liye main chahta hon k unn baton ko uncover hona chahhiye iss liye main aap sy cross question pooch laita hon laiken aap jawab dainy ki bajaye yeh samjhty hain k jaisy main aap ko tease kar raha hon ..khair

abi aap ki ijazat sy main yahan b kuch uncover karna chahta hon laiken aap ijazat dain to ....aap sy sawal b karon ga aur baat b ....
myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7755  Age:  55  
Posted on:29th Jun 2011, 4:48am
 

Diplomate bro

mera khayaal hai k agar ap aur ham sab bhi shadi say related ques par hi iktifaa karaiN aur WEHSHI ko iska jawaab hi denay daiN to yeh silsila behtar rahega. iss topic k silsilay maiN WEHSHI ki aik "makhsoos boundary" hai. ham iss boundary say bahar nah to WEHSHI bhai ko zabardasti aanay par majboor karaiN aur nah hi khud boundaries k ird gird apna majma lagaa kar "asal game" ko distrub karaiN... yeh thread sirf aur sirf WEHSHI k lectures /bhashan :) par mabni hona chaahiyeh... ham agree yaa disagree zaroor karsatay haiN...lekin OSTAD WEHSHI ki jagah lenay ki bajaa.ay onkay saamnay as a SHAGIRD zanoo.ay talamuz tah kar daiN to ham insay bahoot kuch seekh saktay haiN


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Posted on:29th Jun 2011, 5:07am
 

All Members

myrizvi:

aslan yeh ap ki post hai kiun k ap hi ne himat dilaai k main is silsilay main kuch kahun

is k ilawa yahan per hum apni raai kisi per thop nhn saktay specialy un matters main jin main shriyat khamosh hai

main un baton main thora strict hun is liyay k ager hum yahan un baton ko incourage kerain gay to sab log usi teraf chal parain gay aur aaj bhi humari socity ki lerkiyan us k liyay uncomfirtable hoty hain

Diplomate:

aisa nhn hai yeh forum sab ka hai aur ijazat ki zarurat nhn hum ikhtilaf to ker saktay hain lakin mukhalif nhn hain aik dooseray k

alirajput:

main ne yahan bs aik intro k tor per jo kuch kaha hai even woh bhi kam hai lakin yeh bat humaray haan 70% se ziyadah paai jati hai k merd aurat ko puri terah nhn samjhta

is k sath sath shoher sirif shoher hota hai dost bohat kam banta hai

aaj bhi ager biwi is forum se perah ker husband se kahay k aisa kernay se woh ziyadah enjoy keray gi to shoher sab se pehlay yehi poochay ga k tumhain kesay pata?

kis k sath kiya experience aur jo halat hon gay ap USA k mahol k hisab se soch nhn saktay

any how here we are n lets see k hum sab mil ker kis terah logon ki help ker saktay hain

insani nafsiyaat boht mubham hai jisay samjhna zaruri bhi hai aur intresting bhi

FAROOQ1983 Group: Members  Joined: 24th Feb, 2011  Topic: 8  Post: 260  Age:  31  
Posted on:29th Jun 2011, 10:04am
 

farisht bhai

aslam o alikum . bhai ap ne mashaallah boht acha topic rakha hai or is se boht logon ko faida b hoga jo apni bvi ko nahi samj paty or jis ki waja se ghar ujar jaty hain . plz bhai ab ap se ma ye janna chahta hn k bvi ko zehni tor par kasy samja ja skta hai kasy pat lg skta hai k uski kya soch hai ? meri shadi to nahi hoi mangni ho gai hai ma apni mangetr se baat krta rehta hn call par lekin ma usko nahi samj pa raha hn k wo kya hai ma jo b baat kehta hn uski haan hi hoti hai kabhi inkar nahi kiya or usko dant dow kisi waja se to b us ne kabhi koi bat nahi ki ziyada tr khamosh rehti hai kuch bole gi to hi samj skta hn na usko ma wasy khush mizaj hai ma asa kya karon jis se wo apny andr tk ki bat kare mere sath ? kasa samja jaye usko ? thanks bhai
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Posted on:29th Jun 2011, 10:45am
 

Farooq1983

ap k diyay huway discription k hisab se ap ki mangetar adjustable nature ki hain lakin aisay log bohat sensative hotay hain jo bat un ko buri lagty hai us per reaction nhn detay lakin dil main rehty hai is k sath sath aisay log emotions ka izhar bhi nhn kertay

in merital relation aisay log inactive hotay hain ap ko un se kabhi response nhn milay ga jesa k her male female se chahta hai ap ko un k her emotion ka andaza un k face impretions se kerna ho ga

ap ki her bat aur cheez ko woh accept ker len gi lakin unhain pasand aai ya nhn yeh ap ko khud dekhna ho ga

lakin ap se woh full jazbat ka muzahira chahain gi yani un ki lai hui her cheez ap ko pasand aai ya nhn ap un ko btaain un ki kya bat ap achi lagty hai kya nhn woh bhi ap ko batna ho ga

ap un ki jitni sachi tareef kero gay woh utna ap k qareeb aain gi

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Posted on:29th Jun 2011, 10:50am
 

Shadi

@Wehshi

I don't know k ma is thread ma apni raaye day sakta hu ya nahi.. Agar nahi tau Wehshi bhai muaazrat.. aap please bta dijiyega..

@Farooq1983

Dear Farooq, aap ki mangni ko kitna arsa ho gaya hai? Matlab aap kitnay arsay say apni mangetar say baat kar raye hain?

Actually jo sab say important baat hai jo k aap kay case me ma kehna chahunga wo ye k give her confidence. Kayi dafa koi chhoti c baat wo aapko btati hogi, apni soch ya apna koi idea. Us idea ko foran discourage na karein, us soch ko foran discourage na kar dein, unko daant kar. Balkay unkay level tak pohanchein, aur us level par ja k us soch ko deikhnay ki koshsih karein. Ho sakta hai k aap us soch say disagree kar raye hun, laikin phir bhi is tara say attitude na dikhaayen k ye kaisay soch sakti hain aap.. ye tau bohat galat hai. Agar aapka disagreement hai tau bhi pehlay unko ye confidence dein k haan aap ek larki k lehaaz say us soch ko samajh raye hain, aur phir jab aap unko ye confidence dy chukein uskay baad aapka jahan par diasgreement hai wo show karein.

Kehnay ka matlab ye hai, k wo easy feel karein aap say kuch b kehnay me apni koi soch bayaan karnay me.. Chahay wo soch galat hi q na ho. Please note; ma ye nahi keh ra k har galat ko theek maan lein, laikin just ek behaviour ki baat kar ra hu, k unhein aap say bat kartay huway bht easy feel ho. Is tara wo aap say jhoot b nahi boleingi kabhi.

Qk yaad rakhein, agar hum aisa confidence nahi dein apni wife ko, tau aisa nahi hai k wo sab kuch theek theek kareingi ya theek theek socheingi. Sirf farq itna hoga k wo hamaray dar ki waja say hum say jhoot bolna shuru kar deingi.

Asal me baat ye hai k men and women are from completely different planets. Unki natures different hain. Unka baaton ko perceive karnay ka andaaz different hai. Unki khaahishein different hain. Unki fantasies different hain. Aur sab say bara problem yahan hota hai, k men chahtay hain k larki unki tara sochnay lag jaye, jo k "possible" nahi hai, kiyunkay unki nature different hai. Is liye in differences ko jaanna zaroori hai for both men and women.

Kehnay ko tau is topic par bohat kuch hai.. I hope k baat barheigi tau phir aur baatein karunga.. Agar wehshi bhai ki ijaazat hogi tau..

Abi aap is tip par amal karein, jo ma nay ooper bayaan kin. Aur is k ilaawa unko khud say ye kahein, k aap muj say apni koi b soch share kar sakti hain. Koi bhi, jo bhi aap sochti hain, aapki khaahishaat hain wagera wagera. Aur aaista aaista unka confidence build karein.

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Posted on:29th Jun 2011, 10:52am
 

@Wehshi

Sorri janab wehshi bhai I think hum dono parallel me post kar raye thay.. aapka response abhi parha..
WEHSHI Group: Members  Joined: 17th Aug, 2010  Topic: 46  Post: 2533  Age:  49  
Posted on:29th Jun 2011, 11:29pm
 

Dr. Kamiali

mujhay samajh nhn araha kiun sab ijazat chahtay hain ?

yeh forum per sab apni raai detay hain so please sab is per bat kerain

ap ne bilkul sahi kaha hai mear asal maqsad bhi yehi hai k jab aap kisi ko samjhna chahtay hain to us k level per aana ho ga ap ko

auart k sath deal kerna ais ahi hai jesay ap aik bachay k sath deal ker rahay hain

aik lateefa ahi lakin yahan fit hai shayed

aik bacha bohat zidi tha parents nafsiyati doctor k pass gai le ker

doctor boal bacahy ki her bat mani jai

bachay ne rona shuru ker diay k KENCHWA ( earth worm ) khaun ga

bacahy k parents heran doctor bola bacahy ki bat manain

kenchwa laya gaya bacah bola 2 part kero is k

kiyay gai

ab bacah bola aik part doctor sahib khain parents bolay ab khayay

doctor ne 1 part kah liyay bacah rona shuru ho gaya

poocha ab kya huwa

bacah bola doctor saheb ne mera part kha liya ab apna bhi khain

:) :)

lakin aurat k case main ais akam hi hota hai

lakin zarurat hai samjhnay ki

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Posted on:29th Jun 2011, 12:09pm
 

as salam o alikum

nice topic .............ye baat bilkul sahi hai kay mard or orat donon main understanding hona lazni hai .sirf jismani taluqat hi haisiat nahi rakhtay balkay zehni o qalbi sukoon sab se ziada ahmiat ka hamil hai ..................
jahan tak mera khayal hai kay mar bahir jata hai subah se sham tak rozgar kay lihay (mostly aaisa hi hota hai jahan ortain house wife hoti hain ).din main hazaron tarha kay logon se milta julta hai or kahi kisam ki situations ko face karta hai ghar a kay b.v ko time daina bachon ko family (ma baap ) ko time daina .........aaisay main ek orat ki b to ye responseblity hai kay us se ziada tawaqt wabasta na karay ...........matlab her waqt to wo us kay naz nakhray nahi utha sakta na agar daikha jahay to 1 orat agar samajhdari or mamla fehmi se kam lay to us ki zindagi main ye khalish kam ho sakti hai ........
wehshi bhai ne ye baat bilkul sahi ki kay orat kay zehan or dil tak mard rasahi ki koshish ku nahi karta jab kay us kay jism tak rasahi hasil kar laita hai ...............to orat ko chahiye kay wo khod us kay mizag ko samjhay agar mard nahi samajh raha orat ka mizaj to orat to koshish karay .....main nay aaia b daikha hai kay kuch ortain apnay husband kay hotay howay un kay nikah main hain phir b dosray mardon say phone p romentic batain karti hai or kitno kay ghar b tottay daikhay hain to kia orat agar taqwa ikhtiar karay to kia us ki zindagi aasan nahi ho sakti job hai mard us ko pyar karta hai (zarori nahi kay her waqt wo khul kay izhar karay) roti daita hai tan dhampnay ko kapra daita hai ghar ki chat daita hai to kia orat ka farz nahi kay us ka khayal karay usay samjhay .,meri soch to yehi hai kay orat ko bachon ki khair samajhdari se kam laina chahiye
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