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Talaq Kay Baad Biwi Wapas Aana Chahti Hai

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Rehan95175 Group: Members  Joined: 30th Nov, 2011  Topic: 1  Post: 5  Age:  38  
Posted on:1st Dec 2011, 4:46am
 

Talaq Kay Baad Biwi Wapas Aana Chahti Hai

I got married aroun 2.5 half years back and was unable to perfrom sex with my wife in my married life of 1.5 months and then my wife left me and took divorce nd now she realizes that she loves with me and want to live with me what should I do to get her back as I also love her a lot? I just want her to get married so that I should be free that he is settled in life even she got divorce from me but she says that she cannot give my place to anyone in this world? Please help me out?

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myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7711  Age:  55  
Posted on:1st Dec 2011, 9:04am
 

divorce

Please let us know the details of divorce. How it took place? you gave her divorce verbal / written or she took divorce through court etc. after your reply, we will try to explain the current situation in islamic perspective.
Rehan95175 Group: Members  Joined: 30th Nov, 2011  Topic: 1  Post: 5  Age:  38  
Posted on:1st Dec 2011, 9:30am
 

Khula/divorce papers

She asked me to give it and their family arranged the khula/talaq papers where it was 3 times written that i gaive divorce to my wife. I never knew the procedure of Talaq she asked me to give it as she was not interesed in living wit hme thats y i gave it to her she also told me that she does not want to go to the court and kindly sign the papers so i did it.
myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7711  Age:  55  
Posted on:1st Dec 2011, 10:05am
 

you gave 3 divorce at a time

1. hasband has only 3 (times) rights of divorce and you gave all three divorce at once. so you can not marry her again till she marries any one else, establish sexual relations with him and then if He gives her divorce by his own free-will i.e.called halalah. any pre-planned halala is HARAM according to islam

2. however, you need to contact any mufti of your own maslak. None of us are mufti or aalime deen here. we just told you the the status as per our little knowledge.

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tahira333 Group: Members  Joined: 25th Oct, 2011  Topic: 5  Post: 247  Age:  32  
Posted on:4th Dec 2011, 11:16pm
 

talak

my question
kia talk aik baar main 3 baar dainay say hojati hay
daykar agr shuhar inkar dya k maiany talak dee hee nhee to kia karay wife

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Rehan95175 Group: Members  Joined: 30th Nov, 2011  Topic: 1  Post: 5  Age:  38  
Posted on:5th Dec 2011, 10:13am
 

Mera Sawal tha kay I never knew the procedure

I never wanted to give talaq to her she asked me to leave her or set her aside so she asked me to sign the papers in Islam aap ki niyyat daikhe jaatai hai mujh ko baar baar bola gaya kay mujh ko azaad kar do mujhay nahi maloom tha kay talaq aik aik kar kar bhi di jaati hai warna mai aisay hi dayta jub ub nay talaaq lay li tu us kay foran baad us ko hoosh aay aur mujh say kehnay lagi kay ksi maulwi say mallom karo kay ab hum waapas kis tarah mil saktay hai sub nay yehi kaha kay talaq ho chucki hai aaj bhi 2.5 saal baad bhi mai aur woh aik doosray say pyar kartay hai aur 2 saal baad us nay mujhay milnay kay liay bhi bulaya tha aur keh rahi thi kay mera dil chahta hai kay hum dono saath rahay halala kay ilawa koi tareeqa nahi hai kia. kyon kay mai us ko hasil karnay kay liay is ajeeb raastay say nahi guzar sakta kyon kay mai us say pyar apnay aap say bhi ziada karta ho.
myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7711  Age:  55  
Posted on:5th Dec 2011, 10:22am
 

maslah

1. kia talk aik baar main 3 baar dainay say hojati hay

A; g haaN foqahaa k nazdeeq aik hi nashisht maiN 3 baar talaaq denay say 3 talaqain hojati haiN...magar foqahaa kahtay hain k aik hi baar maiN 3 talaqaiN denay say aik hi talaaq waqe hogi...aur aik talaaq k baad iddat period k ande ander rajoo kia jasakta hai aur baad az iddat, donoun apas maiN new nikaah karsaktay haiN

2.daykar agr shuhar inkar dya k maiany talak dee hee nhee to kia karay wife

A; agar to biwi k saamnay talaq di hai yaa biwi ki ghair maujoodgi maiN kissi aur k saamnay talaaq di hai...aur jiskay saamnay talaaq di hai, woh naik aur achi shohrat ka haamil ho aur yeh gawaahi de k xx nay yy ko talaaq dedi hai... to shauher k inkaar karne k bawajood talaaq hogayee...ab biwi ko iss k saath rahna jaiz nahi... fauran ossay choR kar alag hojaa.ay (3 talaaq ki soorat maiN)

myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7711  Age:  55  
Posted on:5th Dec 2011, 10:27am
 

Rehan

halalah k elawah aur koi raastah nahi hai... aur preplanned halalah bhi HARAM hai...yani koi aisi arrangement karna k kissi say nikaah karkay ossay kahaa jaa.ay k woh talaaq dede...

ab ap ossay bhool jayaiN aur woh apko bhool jaa.ay... ap donouN nay apni ahmaqanah harkatouN say apni dunyaa to kharaab kar hi li hai... ab HARAM tareeqay say dobarah milkar apni aakherat kharaab nah karaiN... ab agar ap donouN mil jatay haiN, bay shak new nikaah karkay (jo islamically allowed nahi) to ap donouN sari omar zinaa kartay rahengay...aik doosray say

Bewaqoof Group: Members  Joined: 19th Sep, 2010  Topic: 263  Post: 4444  Age:  39  
Posted on:5th Dec 2011, 10:36am
 

sex beghair saath reh saktay hai

yeh aik simple masla hai. aik aurat aur aik mard aik doosre ko pasand kertay hai aur saath rehna chahtay hai ...... dunya bhar ke qawaneen dono ke saath rehne per koi etraz nahi kertay. meri nazar mai aap dono saath reh saktay hai.

jaha tak mard aur aurat ke sex ka taluq hai tu os ke liye beshtar mazahib mai Nikah/Shadi ke sharait hai. jo log mazhab per sakhti se amal kerne wale hotay hai woh sex se qabal nikah aur shaadi zaroor kertay hai. aur agar nikah ya shaadi nahi ki hai tu woh apne partner se sex nahi kertay.

agar aap bhi kattar mazhabi hai tu apni ex wife se sex, kiss ya foreplay na karain. lekin sex kiye beghair saath rehne per kia etraz ho sakta hai? aik bed per dono na ho aur aik doosre ke saath sex, kiss ya foreplay na karain tu aap dono baqi zindagi aik hi makan mai saath guzar saktay hai. jis tarah ghar mai koi aur khatoon like mother, sister, secretary, relatives, friends, maid aap se sex kiye beghair reh sakti hai, osi tarah aap apni ex-wife ke saath bhi kisi qisim ka sex kiye beghair aik hi ghar mai reh saktay hai.

aksar aise talaq ke cases dekhay gaye hai keh talaq ke baad bhi dono mia bivi bachcho ki khatir aik hi makan mai rehtay hai lekin sex nahi kertay. agar aap dono ki soch, khayalat, aur kuch mufad mushtarik ho tu aap dono bhi sex kiye beghair aik dono ke saath reh saktay hai.

Note: mai ne oopar jo kuch bhi likha hai woh kisi mazhabi point se nahi hai. mera zati opinion hai.
Rehan95175 Group: Members  Joined: 30th Nov, 2011  Topic: 1  Post: 5  Age:  38  
Posted on:5th Dec 2011, 11:08pm
 

Biwi ki pareshani daikh kar pareshan hoon

I have seen interviews of zakir nayak and jawaid ghamdi sahab they claim that 3 martaba talaq aik hi hoti hai kyo kay islam mai hai kay 3 martaba tallaq di jaati hai agar aap aik saath 3 dya to woh aik dafa hi hoti hai kay nahi. mujhay prodecure nahi pata tha mera is mai qasoor kia hai agar mujh ko misguide kia gaya mai bohat pareshan hoon har waqt mujh ko apna nahi us larki ka khayaal aata hai kay mai nay us ki zindagi barbaad kardi khua woh us ki marzi say kyonahi hui mujhay apnaayaap say ziada us ki parwa hai kehti hai kay kabhi shaadi nahi karo ge jo jagah tum ko di hai woh jagah kisi doosray insaan ko nahi day sakti please tell me kisi sahi aalim ka pata jis say mai discuss kar sako.
Bewaqoof Group: Members  Joined: 19th Sep, 2010  Topic: 263  Post: 4444  Age:  39  
Posted on:5th Dec 2011, 11:24pm
 

Bive ya Sabqa Bivi aur Sahi Aalim

re: "kisi sahi aalim ka pata jis say mai discuss kar sako."

Aalim tu sirf aalim hota hai. sahi aur ghalat nahi hota. aap yeh kahai keh koi aisa aalim ka pata batain jis ke kandhe per bandoq rakh ker aap dono phir se mia bivi ki zindagi basar kerna shuru ker dain. talash karain aise aalim mil jaaye ge jo kuch raqam le ker aap ke matlab ka fatwa de dain ge. lekin iss qisim ke aalim ka address iss forum per post kerne ki ijazat nahi. agar kisi ne ki tu ose edit/delete aur os member ko Block ker dia jaaye ga

re: "Biwi ki pareshani daikh kar pareshan hoon"

agar aap ose bivi samajhtay hai tu kisi aalim ki talash ki zaroorat nahi. aur agar bivi nahi samajhtay tu phir os ki liye lafz Bivi istemal na karain balkeh Sabqa Bivi ya Ex-Wife ka lafz istemal karain.
myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7711  Age:  55  
Posted on:6th Dec 2011, 3:23am
 

Bewaqoof aur islam

Note: mai ne oopar jo kuch bhi likha hai woh kisi mazhabi point se nahi hai. mera zati opinion hai

iska matlab hai k bewaqoof kissi mazhab ko nahi maantaa, yaani woh laa.deen hai jabhi to aik "mazhabi sawal" ka jawab mazhab say haT kar apni roy pesh karta hai,

lehaza yeh sawaal poochnay wala bhi agar laa.deen ho (yani oskay islam say yaa kissi bhi deen say koi talluq nahi ho to) woh bay shak bewaqoof ki roy par amal karay

Bewaqoof Group: Members  Joined: 19th Sep, 2010  Topic: 263  Post: 4444  Age:  39  
Posted on:6th Dec 2011, 8:11pm
 

warning for myrizvi

re: "iska matlab hai k bewaqoof kissi mazhab ko nahi maantaa, yaani woh laa.deen hai"

myrizvi saheb apni taraf se koi matlab nikalne ki koshish na karain. Islam ke theekadar na baney, aur kisi ke liye laa.deen ka fatwa na lagaye. ainda aap ne mere liye iss qisim ka koi comments kiya tu nateeja ke khood zimmadar honge. aap sirf dalail se apna jawab dain. doosro ke deen aur laa.deen ka theeka na lein.

myrizvi Group: Members  Joined: 20th Apr, 2008  Topic: 130  Post: 7711  Age:  55  
Posted on:7th Dec 2011, 2:44am
 

Bewaqoof ka Elaan

[quote] Note: mai ne oopar jo kuch bhi likha hai woh kisi mazhabi point se nahi hai. mera zati opinion hai. [/quote]

Bewaqoof bro...yeh to ap khud elaan kar rahay ho k ap kissi (bhi) mazhabi point say reply nahi detay balka (mazhabi points say haT kar) apni zaati roy detay ho.... jo shakhs mazhabi points say baat nah karay...to it's understood k woh laa.mazhab hai yaa laa.mazhab hokar reply karta hai.

ayandah iss qism ki statement ap nah dia karaiN to koi bhi apko laa.mazhab /laa.deen honay ka ta'ana nahi desakta.

[PS: kaun deen.daar hai, kaun bay.deen aur kaun laadeen, iska asal faislah to Allah hi karsakta hai... lekin dunya maiN to har aik ko oskay apnay alfaaz /aamaal hi bunyaad par deen.daar /bay.deeb qarar dia jasakta hai...net forum par kissi k amaal nazar nahi aatay...yahaaN sirf aur sirf .... lufzouN ka intekhaab hi bandouN ko roswa karta hai :)

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