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Benjamin Group: Members  Joined: 28th Dec, 2013  Topic: 3  Post: 10  Age:  23  
Posted on:18th Jan 2014, 2:47pm

Engagement And sex

I've another question, i am engaged with my cousin and she usually says me to have sex but i deny and say her to wait till marriage but we usually do romance , it's fixed married and I'm gonna marry in 4 years, so tell me can we have sex before marriage or not? is it zanna ? because it's sex before nikkah. Please my fellows reply asap . Thanks.
Activist Group: Members  Joined: 04th Feb, 2012  Topic: 13  Post: 395  Age:  28  
Posted on:18th Jan 2014, 2:53pm

obviously it is zinaa

Obviously it is zinaa. Wo larki khid sex ka kh rhi ha? Strange. Ap usay smjhaye. Namany yo nikah kr le. That is much better. N plz ap romance se b bchain. Q k wo b gunah me ata ha.
theboy2000 Group: Members  Joined: 26th Feb, 2009  Topic: 9  Post: 66  Age:  31  
Posted on:18th Jan 2014, 3:00pm


before nikkah everything is Haram for you, after that everything will become Jaiz... So Plz be careful...if she is insisting you for SEX then its better to marry her before she take any UNFAIR step(s).. Look everyone has desires, there is nothing strange in it.. Just take it in positive way, make her understand. If she doesnot follow you then avoid contacting with her.
sana.azhar Group: Members  Joined: 09th Sep, 2012  Topic: 5  Post: 235  Age:  36  
Posted on:18th Jan 2014, 3:01pm


Assalam o Alaikum.

sawal tu apne ahsey kiya hai ke jahsey koi khaney peney ki normal si koi bat hai. 19 saal age hai apki Chartered Accountant ke student hain ap aur apko itna nahi pata ke nika se pehley sex nahi karna chahiye, phir tu ap yeh sochtey hon gey ke kiss karna aur girls ke close rehna bhi theek.

ap itney masoom hain nahi, bas yeh faltu qisam ke topic start kar ke burey burey replies post karney aur read karney ka fun leney ke liye yahan aa jatey hain. ALLAH aqal o samjh dein hum sab ko.

MOD NOTE: Please do not attack/criticize questioner even if you suspect mal-intent. You can create new topic in Suggestions or Chatting category to air your views.

theboy2000 Group: Members  Joined: 26th Feb, 2009  Topic: 9  Post: 66  Age:  31  
Posted on:18th Jan 2014, 3:13pm

@ Miss/Madam Sana

Kia pata positive jawab dainy sy usy samjh mei aagae ho baat.. don't discourage any body, if you think above topic is Fuzool then avoid answering the topic instead of criticizing..
alone but happy Group: Members  Joined: 11th Dec, 2012  Topic: 8  Post: 883  Age:  26  
Posted on:18th Jan 2014, 4:03pm

Nikah se pehly ye haram or zana hai .

Ap us se nikah kr lo .warna ap buht bara gunah kar betho ge bad mai pichtana ho ga . Zana ki shadi se phly dunia ki saza 100 kory mary Jayen zani ko or shadi k bad zana karny waly ko sanghsar kia jay mtlb tb tak pather mary jayen jb tk wo mar na jay .o mery bhai Bacho kismt waly ho ap k apko gunah se bachny ka moka mil rha ha agy marzi apki moka ganwa lo ya bach jao .zana 1 qarz ha agr aj ap kisi ki maa behan b.v ya beti k sath kro ge kal uski adaigi apki maa behan bv ya beti mai se kisi ko karni pary gi .agy ap khud smjdar ho Allah pak hamen har gunah se bachay ameen .or hmari rehnumai farmay beshak Wo Allah pak har cheez pe qadar hai.beshak namaz behayai or bury kamon se rokti ha, umeed ha bhai ko meri bat samj aa gai ho gi thanx think about it.dua ma yad rakhie ga.
Benjamin Group: Members  Joined: 28th Dec, 2013  Topic: 3  Post: 10  Age:  23  
Posted on:18th Jan 2014, 4:50pm


You know what you've ...MOD EDIT: Removed insulting part of post..., i just asked a question to know whether it's wrong to do sex before marriage with your fiance or not and your second point is that i wanna enjoy the replies , i think there are much other titles and things i can enjoy but i just made a question to which i am concerned. stop thinking negative and try to think positive. Got it!

Benjamin Group: Members  Joined: 28th Dec, 2013  Topic: 3  Post: 10  Age:  23  
Posted on:18th Jan 2014, 4:52pm


..remove duplicate post..

Zubii Group: Members  Joined: 01st Oct, 2013  Topic: 1  Post: 218  Age:  25  
Posted on:19th Jan 2014, 3:03pm

Sb memberz ny bot theek darust jawan diye

Well done memberz..mainy yh topic aj dakha...,,..khair theboy,,activicts and alone happy sb ny logical answer diye..
Benjamin Group: Members  Joined: 28th Dec, 2013  Topic: 3  Post: 10  Age:  23  
Posted on:19th Jan 2014, 4:20pm


No there's nothing like that, actually i wanna know whether it's allowed to do sex with your fiance or not because i heard many people saying that engagement mean partially married( ADHA NIKKAH) , I've got my answer and that's all, am not here to criticize anyone , just wanted the solution of this problem because we're gonna marry after 4 years, wedding date is fixed by her and my parents , but i think romance is allowed , because she's my future wife.
theboy2000 Group: Members  Joined: 26th Feb, 2009  Topic: 9  Post: 66  Age:  31  
Posted on:19th Jan 2014, 6:26pm

@Benjamin Read completely

Engagement is not a marriage agreement, but it is a marriage promise. For this reason, those who are engaged are regarded as namahram (not a close relative) for each other and they cannot be together unless there is a mahram (so closely related by blood that marriage with him/her is forbidden) person with them.

The fiancé is a stranger (non-mahram) to his fiancée and it is not permissible for him to touch her, shake hands with her or be alone with her. The evidence that these things are haraam is well known and is not hidden.

The reports that indicate that it is haraam to be alone with a non-mahram woman even if she is with her fiancé include the report narrated by al-Bukhaari (3006) and Muslim (1341) from Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) who heard the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “No man should be alone with a woman.”

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No, no man is alone with a woman but the third one present is the Shaytaan.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (2165), classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

Benjamin Group: Members  Joined: 28th Dec, 2013  Topic: 3  Post: 10  Age:  23  
Posted on:20th Jan 2014, 2:52am

Thanks for the Guidance.

Thanks everyone for the Guidance, now I'll try my best to stay away from her till i got married.
shamim111 Group: Members  Joined: 27th Jan, 2014  Topic: 1  Post: 5  Age:  21  
Posted on:28th Jan 2014, 8:21pm


Assalam O Alaikum..
Zina ka matlab sirf Rape nae balkey es ka matlab hota he ehtalam widout shaadi and xcpt wife.. Yeh gunah e kabeera he. Shirk k bad sbse bra gunah he yeh.. TC
Ahsan Zaid Group: Members  Joined: 01st Feb, 2014  Topic: 0  Post: 5  Age:  24  
Posted on:1st Feb 2014, 5:57am

very tensd

Assallam Allaikum too Awll ..

First of all me ap ko or sab site members ko btana chahta hn k i am new here in this site mene ap sab ki ek dusre se co-operation dakhi bht khushi hui socha mjh b kch na kch hal mill jaega ..

mere kuch questions hai jinho ne mujhe in dino jese physco patient bna dia h i m very tensd & under deppresion plz help me or mere 4ro sawalo k jawba dain frnds thNks..

My questions are given below

1- i am 20 years old male & i want to share with all of u that i had sex with my fiance . i know thats very big mistake but after this mistake i need ur help friends . mene 1 bar sex kia apni fiancy se mgr usay bleedng nahi hui she said apne pura andar nai dala and mene kafi dosto se pta kia khty h k zarori nai k pura andar to e hymen raptured .

2- my second question mjh weham sa hogya h jese kafi logo ko olaad nai hoti ajeeb weham hogya hai k meri shadi k bad mjh agar esa ho ya to kia hoga etc etc , plz must help me in this que k olad q nai hoti and kia m kar paunga preg ?

3- and mjh zaroori h k meri fiancy virgin hai k nai coz its relationship prb ,and how can i rapture hymen as she said last time that ap ne full andar nai kia tha thats y there was not bleedng.........

4- mere life ka first time sex tha me mein confused hgya tha or tkrebn me 10 15 sec me he discharge hogya tha, mene kch frnds s share kia kch k sath same prob mgr kch apni timing 5 7 mnt khty h i dnt know unka kia chakar mgr , i really need help i want to increase my timing ... mene apki site ka ziada intercourse method b parha mgr nai lg rha plz plz help me plz give me right suggestion

nd plz koi b mjh doc suggest karne s phly meri halat smjhe mjh yahan zaroor help kren site per ..ThanKS
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