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Husband's behavior

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Qubah Group:   Joined: 01st Jan, 1970  Topic: 1  Post: 4  Age:   
Posted on:16th Mar 2018, 12:34am
 

Husband's behavior

Assalam o alaikum. Meri shadi ko 4 sal hogaye hain or mera aik 3 sal ka baita hai. Mera masla yeh hai k mere husband mujh se hr choti choti bat pr bahas krty hai jin bato ka koi matlb he nahi hota yani wo choti se bat ko issue banatay hai or phr unchi awaz me lartay hain. Mujh par yeh ilzam lagatay hain k unki life me jo b pareshanian hai wo meri waja se aty hain. Jab kay me unky saray kaam wkt pr karty hu. Pichlay 4 sal se unka rawaiyya bardasht krty a rahy hu or compromise kart a rahy hu. Pichlay 4 sal se me apnay maa baap se nahi mili kiu k mere husband kahty hain k jab tmhari bahan ki shadi ho gi tb he un se milny jana kiu k itni door se bar bar jana asaan nahi mene is bat par bhi sabar kr lia. Mere father in law boht achay insan hai lakn mere husband un k sath bhi unchi awaz me bat krty hai or lartay hain. Or jab mene unko samjhaya k wo apkay father hain ap unkay sath aise bat nahi kr skty tu mujhe kahtay hai k tm muje mat samjhaya kro. Meri mother inlaw ki death hochuki hai or mere father inlaw ne dusri shadi ki hue hai. Mere husband apni step mother ko pasnd nahi krty. Jab k wo inti buri nahi hai. Kabhi kabhi mujhe lagta hai k mere husband mujhe apni maa ki maut or apny baap ki dusri shadi ki saza de rhy hain. Aj kal wo kuch ziada he bahas krty hain or bat bat pr dhamki detay hain k wo baitay ko le kr chalay jayen gy or kahtay hain k muje tmhary sath nahi rehna tmne meri life azab bana k rakh de hai. Kal b wo mujh se bahas kar rhy thy or jab mene apni safai me kuch kahna chaha tu bari wali scissor mere samnay kar k kahnay laga k mere samnay apna moo band rakho jiski wajah se me boht khofzada ho gaye hu. Wo kabhi meri bat ko samjhny ki koshish nahi krty. Me saas susar k sath rahty hu lakn ab mere husband separate hona chahty hai kiu k unki apny faher se nahi banti or apartment dhoon rhy hain. Wo us apartment me apni aik colleague ko b rakhna chah rahay hai or jab mene kaha k hum usy wahan nahi rakh skty wo na mahram hai tu us bat per b bahas krty hain or kahtay hai k tmhe sath chalna hai tu chalo nahi tu me baitay ko le kr chala jaon ga. Me boht majboor hu mujhe kuch samjh nahi ata me kia karoo me apnay baitay se boht pyar krty hu. Wo jis colleague ko sath rakhna chah rhy hain usko mere father in law jantay hai or mere father in law ko wo larki pasnd nahi hai tu kia mujhe apny father in law ko yeh batana chaye k husband ki yeh planning hai? Me boht pareshan hu plz meri help kijiye me kia karoo .
Medhlp Group: Members  Joined: 12th Apr, 2016  Topic: 2  Post: 106  Age:  24  
Posted on:17th Mar 2018, 11:24pm
 

hi

hi sis ap ny likha k ap k husbnd ap k sath buta behaivior karty hain to uski kiya waja hai mujhy ap ki bat sy ye lagta k ho skta wo kisi bat ko lay k mind kiye huye jesy unky father ki dosri shadi ya kuch ap sy kuch batain puchni hain kiya ap dono ki sexual life thek hai kiya wo haambistri thek sy karty kiya wo jab ap say larty hain to un ko chup honay k liye ap ko kiya karna parta baht sy husbnd ager wife sy nahi hoty thek to unki sexual life thek nahi hoti ku k ya to wife ka thek sy tawaja nahi hota ya husbnd ki ap unhain jab latai karni ho to ap un sy na bolo ap ye wazefa karain daily 41 bar Sum Un Buk Mun Um Yun Fahum La Yatakalemun ap nay parhana hai aur husbnd ka tasawur karna hai aur unki taraf phonk dena hai InshAllah Sab thek Hoga ap apni puri bat comnt kar dain
Qubah Group:   Joined: 01st Jan, 1970  Topic: 1  Post: 4  Age:   
Posted on:18th Mar 2018, 8:22am
 

Husband's behavior

Ji apnay bilkul sahi kaha hai k wo mere father inlaw ki dusri shadi ka mind kiye hue hain. Unko sbnay bht samjhanay ki koshish ki k dusri shadi krna unka haq tha yh koi gunah nahi hai. But wo step mother ko accept krny k lye razi he nahi jab k wo buri aurat nahi ha.
Dusri bat if you dont mind me apni sexual life k baray me discuss nahi krna chahty i m a very shy person so that's why sorry for that.
Muje fikr is bat ki hai k agr muje alag apparent me rehna para tu me kaise unki colleague k sath rah paoon gi mera aik beta b hai jab wo bara hoga tu wo kia sochay ga. Me kiu aik gair aurat k sath apna kitchen share kroo.
Qubah Group:   Joined: 01st Jan, 1970  Topic: 1  Post: 4  Age:   
Posted on:18th Mar 2018, 8:45am
 

Request

Meri moderators se request hai k mera yeh post b delete kr dein kiu k me nahi chahty k mera koi janny wala yh post parh le or agr us larki ne yeh post parh kr mere husband ko bta dia tu ? Bcz wo tu yh sb janty hai.. so plzz delete my post.
Medhelp thanks for your reply
Jo wazifa apnay bataya hai me wo kroo gi .
Qubah Group:   Joined: 01st Jan, 1970  Topic: 1  Post: 4  Age:   
Posted on:18th Mar 2018, 5:56pm
 

Request

Me aik bar phir request kr rahy hu k plzz mera yeh post delete kar dia jay plz try to understand my situation. Mene first time kisi online forum me koi question kia hai mujhe maloom nahi tha k post delete karny ka option mere pas nahi hoga . I request to the moderators plz delete my post.
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Posted on:18th Mar 2018, 8:44pm
 

hi

hi sis ap ki post py jesy he moderator na dekha wo delet kar dain gy ap be fikar rahai aur kuch puchna ho to aik new id ay akar puchain
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Posted on:23rd Mar 2018, 8:24am
 

Username Qubah - Husband's behaviour after father's 2nd marriage

Questioner ke points:

1. Husband ka kharab rawayya.
2. Ghussa. Behes.
3. Baap ki dusri shadi pe naraaz hona.
4. Khud aik daashta rakhne ki khwahish.
5. Betay ko le kar kaheen chalay janay ki dhamki dena.
6. Ghussay main ziada pur-tashaddud ho kar qainchi jesay taiz dhaar aala se darana.
7. Baar baar biwi ke saath na rehnay ki khwahish zahir karna.
8. Biwi ko yeh kehna ke usnay life azab bana kar rakhi hai.
9. Sexual details share karnay main shyness.
10. Topic delete karnay ki khwahish.

Aap yeh parhain:

1. Husband ki behes pe khamoshi ikhtyar kar lain. Bilkul usi tarah jab baby bohot ziada ro raha to ignore kia jata hai.
2. Agar aapke saas susar ka akhlaaq aapke saath acha hai, zaruri naheen ke aap iss baat ko har jataen. Ho sakta unkay saath acha na ho.
3. Hamaray muashray main aisay mard ko achi nazar se naheen dekha jata jo doosri shadi karay. Aapke husband bhi apne father ko shayd achi nazar se na dekhtay hon.
4. Paradox: Khud to woh aik job colleague ko apnay saath aik he ghar main rakhna chahtay hain. Koi aurat kisi ghair-mard ke ghar main kyun rahegi? Ya to paying guest ban ke reh lay to theek hai, uska quarter alag hoga. Agar naheen to woh daashta ban ke rahegi. Shohar daashta to rakh lainge magar dusri shadi ko bura samajh rahay hain.
5. Inn baton se pata chala ke, woh react kar rahay hain aur koi rational batain naheen kar rahay.
6. Aap behes ka jawab deti hain jabke woh office colleague jis ko woh munasib samajh rahay hain, unki baat ko sunn leti hogi.
7. Aapko sex life ki baatain share karnay main shyness hai, iski wajah yeh to naheen ke aap unhain sex deti he naheen aur iss bina pe aapke paas share karne ko utna he hai jitna aik ghair-shadi-shuda fard ke paas hota hai? NCF pe wesay bhi sex bed ki pornographic detail share karnay ki ijazat naheen, kar bhi di to moderator ki janib se edit kar di jaegi. Lekin slight detail ya itni detail jo aapke problem ko diagnose karne main madad de, uskay share karnay main koi harj naheen. Naheen share karaingi to apna nuqsaan karaingi.

Aap yeh karain:

1. Behes ke time khamoshi aur ignore.
2. Unki tawajju batana.
3. Jab woh alag ghar ka sochain, to aap resist na karain, alag ghar main rehna koi sasta naheen hota. Balkeh aap kahain, saath he chal kar flat dekhtay hain. Jab flat dekhnay jaen, to poori dilchaspi zahir karain ke falani (yaani office colleague) ka kamra aisa hoga, wesa hoga. Unhain hairat hogi magar aap detail na bataen.
4. Apnay parents-in-law se achay talluqaat banaen. Magar - unse apnay lye support lain na ke shohar ko unki madad se dabaen. It is a fine line, dekh ke chalna hoga.
5. Jab shohar betay ko le kar alag honay ki baat kartay hain, woh aap emotionally manipulate kartay hain. 3 saal ke bachay ki tatti woh naheen dhula sakain ge. Islye aap bilkul bhi na darain, woh kaheen naheen janay walay.

Topic deletion: NCF pe aisa topic delete naheen ho sakta jispe doosray members reply kar chukay hon. Iski wajah yeh hai ke NCF ke members volunteer work kartay hain, unka volunteer work ko zaya naheen kia ja sakta. Lekin NCF aik anonymous forum hai, jahan kisi ka bhi real name use naheen kia ja sakta.
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